Chase McNary - Bachelorette 12 - **Sleuthing - Spoilers** #2

relaxing wrote:I have to gush about Chase for a few minutes ...

He is so genuine in this weird setting it amazes me.  There are very few contestants who can keep so much normalcy amidst all the craziness of this show IMO and he's def one.  I don't feel like anything he says holds a false note or that he's spouting canned clichés from the producers.

Prob why it seemed obvious from Jojo on the couch, as she looked off to the producers, that they wanted her to prompt him to start emoting more.  It's ironic because I feel like I can see the most genuine care for Jojo from him in his eyes, the way he looks at her and how he treats her.  Not a false or faked or forced note to me.  To me he's treating it like a real crush on a girl, not about winning a show or showcasing himself for the camera.  I love that with all her prompting he still didn't spit out an ILY or start sucking up to her and saying what he should to sound good.  His words were measured but IMO showed how serious and genuine he is in this.  I don't think he wants to say empty words but is trying to really communicate how he feels at this time.

Even his kisses.  I love that he just gets in there and really kisses her.  I'm pretty tired of all the little lip tugs and slow pecks that seem like people trying to look hot kissing on tv. JMO.

Anyway long-winded point.  I find him so genuine and feel bad that they are trying to open him up more when really he's prob just trying to protect himself from getting really hurt because he seems able to really fall for Jojo and I think he knows he's not going to be the guy to leave with her.  I think he's such a quality guy.

I really wonder why Luke goes at F4 instead of Chase, because she and Luke are great together too, F3 is the typical Bachelor spot and I think Jojo will want to spare Chase getting further lead on than needed.  JMO.

casjacknick wrote:

relaxing wrote:I have to gush about Chase for a few minutes ...

He is so genuine in this weird setting it amazes me.  There are very few contestants who can keep so much normalcy amidst all the craziness of this show IMO and he's def one.  I don't feel like anything he says holds a false note or that he's spouting canned clichés from the producers.

Prob why it seemed obvious from Jojo on the couch, as she looked off to the producers, that they wanted her to prompt him to start emoting more.  It's ironic because I feel like I can see the most genuine care for Jojo from him in his eyes, the way he looks at her and how he treats her.  Not a false or faked or forced note to me.  To me he's treating it like a real crush on a girl, not about winning a show or showcasing himself for the camera.  I love that with all her prompting he still didn't spit out an ILY or start sucking up to her and saying what he should to sound good.  His words were measured but IMO showed how serious and genuine he is in this.  I don't think he wants to say empty words but is trying to really communicate how he feels at this time.

Even his kisses.  I love that he just gets in there and really kisses her.  I'm pretty tired of all the little lip tugs and slow pecks that seem like people trying to look hot kissing on tv. JMO.

Anyway long-winded point.  I find him so genuine and feel bad that they are trying to open him up more when really he's prob just trying to protect himself from getting really hurt because he seems able to really fall for Jojo and I think he knows he's not going to be the guy to leave with her.  I think he's such a quality guy.

I really wonder why Luke goes at F4 instead of Chase, because she and Luke are great together too, F3 is the typical Bachelor spot and I think Jojo will want to spare Chase getting further lead on than needed.  JMO.

This is super scary as it's like you read my mind. He seems now almost too genuine to be the bachelor. I know that seems crazy but he probably wouldn't like being the bachelor anyway. Everyone thinks they want it until they have to break up with and hurt 25 women, have producers manipulating him and the woman they could be falling for, so much unnecessary drama and odd edits. It's worked out for some but it's a big risk; all of this is in my opinion.

MiniDiva wrote:Chase is a big ole teddy bear IMO.  Love watching his snaps, he physically active, sweet, loves animals, family man.  What more could a woman want?  

Refresh my memory:  What is MOT again?

TIY.