Jordan Rodgers - Bachelorette 12 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #4

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BBJ is a confirmed cheater because his ex Brittany Farrar says so. That's why they broke up. The burden is on him not the ex. Besides, what is he doing deceiving women on a dating site? Go figure. All these women can't be lying. Sorry.

He's an alleged cheater .

Oh boy.

I'm going to play devil's advocate, only because we can do this on a discussion forum.:Nod:
Because someone came out and stated something does not mean it was/is so. It means simply that person said so. Maybe it is their POV. Maybe it's spite. IDK.
I don't know if anyone has ever had anything said about them that was not true. It's horrible. How do you go about refuting something embarrassing or detrimental that never happened or did not happen the way it was said? 
 You can say it is not true, but after awhile it's ridiculous. It makes it worse to constantly refute it. And if you are silent it makes it look like you are guilty of what you are being accused. It's a no win situation. It's painful. 
We have this discussion often on this site. 
So I don't think anyone really knows what happened except the people involved. JMO. And I don't think anyone else should care or probably does. 
As far as Raya, I am not positive until I see something more concrete that he is on that site.

Jordan is the only contestant with more than two women say something about him. Something is fishy about him. Again, all these women can't be wrong.

The guy uses the name of his brother on this show. why?

simple question.

we are talking about grow and change. well he must have taken some growth hormones in order to change in few weeks his all lifestyle of clubby, partying, drinking, hook up and basically hanging on his daddy's money and his brother's name and fame.

Did he do charities or anything that we call say Ohhh and Ahhh, he looks very decent and genuine. Nope?

The prods hired him for what exactly? because he was friend with or the pity story of being the little brother who's brother was a big star and he was on his shadows all the time. Of course they did! *IMO*

Someone who mention his brother's name and say that he wants to become his own self is a pack of BS. I call him an opportunist liar. *IMO*

*EDIT*

We have on one hand Brittany who just share ONE IG because even then she probably recovered and is very happy now, she probably suffered the humiliation of it full gear. *IMO*The kind of cheating that everyone knew but her maybe? She is still bitter and I understand that. Hearing a guy who cheat on you saying a flat lie on national TV... well maybe she wanted a little public revenge the same way he did with her? Again, who can blame her for that? Lets remember something important here: HE USED BRITTANY RELATIONSHIP IN THIS SHOW TO MAKE HIM LOOK A DECENT GUY. I am sure if he did not use their relationship, she would have just kept quiet. *IMO!!**

Now about RS. He is wrong. *IMO* But most of the time he is right. because some women decided to remain anonymous does not put them on the liars shelves in my book.  Why they decided to share and gossip or take the white knight armor? no idea. Since they are anonymous, cannot be fame. Oh and RS is many thing but I am convinced he did not make up those mails.

I am not, never was ans never will, a redemption believer. I do not believe that he met the love of his life and grew up overnight. I do not believe he will stop cruising girls and he will stop partying/drinking/clubbing because he met jojo. Lets talk after the show, lets say in 1 year and see what happens in his life, professional and personal and then I may change my mind. But now? nope.

So either jojo picked him (which is a strong possibility), then this girl lost all my respect and she deserves him and whatever happens with him. If she is this kind of girl to use names and favors to gain something, then they fit perfectly. *IMO*

If she picked him and made a mistake and they split already. I am okay with that. Everyone makes mistakes. I wish her well.

If she picked noone because she did not fell in love or whatever her reason. She will have my HUGE respect on this decision.

And finally if she picks somebody else, I will just wait and see in the next 6 months if they can make it.

All JMO  

Compared to her ex Chad R, I do think that Jordan is a match for Jojo. She went back to what she is familiar with....men with questionable dating past who run their mouth, and tell women what they want to hear. Maybe Robby could have been a match too, but definitely NOT Chase or Luke.

Kashathediva wrote:I'm going to play devil's advocate, only because we can do this on a discussion forum.:Nod:
Because someone came out and stated something does not mean it was/is so. It means simply that person said so. Maybe it is their POV. Maybe it's spite. IDK.
I don't know if anyone has ever had anything said about them that was not true. It's horrible. How do you go about refuting something embarrassing or detrimental that never happened or did not happen the way it was said? 
 You can say it is not true, but after awhile it's ridiculous. It makes it worse to constantly refute it. And if you are silent it makes it look like you are guilty of what you are being accused. It's a no win situation. It's painful. 
We have this discussion often on this site. 
So I don't think anyone really knows what happened except the people involved. JMO. And I don't think anyone else should care or probably does. 
As far as Raya, I am not positive until I see something more concrete that he is on that site.

Great post!

Please please please---it is not enough to state IMO at the end of a post.
Use it as one would when one speaks, otherwise it appears as if what is posted is fact when in fact unless it can be sited, it is an opinion vs fact.

I'm sorry, but being an attractive, well toned, BB, who is smooth with the ladies and allegedly cheated on a person who he was in a long term relationship with does not make a person a sex addict.  Those are big words and accusations to toss around, IMO.

And personally, if one of my ex's went on the show, the last thing I would do is post something about them to bring attention to myself.  I don't care if they'd been the best boyfriend in the world or the worst, I value my privacy and all too much to openly put myself out there all over SM to seek attention and/or revenge.  

And I'm not found of others speaking for me, especially when not true or accurate.  RS is not disliked or read by all, just lots.   But that's JMOAA.