The Bachelorette - Season 12 - JoJo Fletcher - General Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - #3

soccermom333 wrote:^^^^if you took a picture with another device how would they know. ???  Again seems weird and so simple.

I am not defending Jordan.... He clearly has issues but just trying to get actual proof.

I understand that

my point is to be in the RAYA girl's shoes: is he worthy to be kicked out?

jen689 wrote:@fleissmeister (twitter) Having lunch with jojo today!!! Very excited to see her in Malibu... #TheBachelorette

well DUH, of course he want to assess the gold messy situation with her

soccermom333 wrote:^^^^if you took a picture with another device how would they know. ???  Again seems weird and so simple.

I am not defending Jordan.... He clearly has issues but just trying to get actual proof.

ITA. It's not a matter of defense. It's a matter of proof that is so simple to do.

Kashathediva wrote:

soccermom333 wrote:^^^^if you took a picture with another device how would they know. ???  Again seems weird and so simple.

I am not defending Jordan.... He clearly has issues but just trying to get actual proof.

ITA. It's not a matter of defense. It's a matter of proof that is so simple to do.

I agree. It would be very simple to do and while I'm sure since Raya is more of a high end dating app, that there are less users, I still don't get it. Taking the picture wouldn't be committing a crime. Would Raya really dig and go after RS to see who took a screen shot? The emailer said they send you a warning. They don't even automatically delete the account. You get a warning first and I guess you get so many "strikes" against you before they delete the account.

Using the excuse of "they will send me a warning if I screen shot it" so I can't give you proof is silly to me. IMO.

Di_ATL wrote:.... and the plot thickens, wonder why she's having lunch with Fleissmeister?

I was thinking the same thing. I'd love to be a fly on the wall during that conversation

Are they discussing...

How JoJo is going to dump Jordan and go back to Robby? Is she going to come on the ATFR and decide she'd rather be alone  

The only bad scenario for me is that she decides to stay with Jordan and they appear to be a happy couple JMO

They are discussing how maybe JoJo will be offered a stint on DWTS or possibly even Jordan and they can compete against each other. 
Or they are discussing who is going to get the best future media/entertainment bonanza. 
At the very least, they are discussing what each has on their list of priorities to shill on their SM sites.

I continue to be fascinated by how confident, relaxed and secure she's acting with all this going on. Even if it's a showmance, she must know what heat she's going to feel with everyone pitying her about BBJ and his BB ways. And yet, she's totally fine being besties with Fleiss. There has to be a switcharoo, foiler or a planned epic breakup at atfr. I just can't reconcile Jo's attitude in present day without one of these things.

MF is meeting with JoJo to tell her how to handle the tsunami coming her way...and he is pretending to comfort her, but he is actually gleefully rubbing his hands together thinking he has hit the jackpot!

Alanna wrote:I continue to be fascinated by how confident, relaxed and secure she's acting with all this going on. Even if it's a showmance, she must know what heat she's going to feel with everyone pitying her about BBJ and his BB ways. And yet, she's totally fine being besties with Fleiss. There has to be a switcharoo, foiler or a planned epic breakup at atfr. I just can't reconcile Jo's attitude in present day without one of these things.

There is no friendship in my opinion. it is a contract. he is the boss.
the best way to face critics and humiliation is to keep the head high as if everything is below the person

#ACT

JMO

Alanna wrote:I continue to be fascinated by how confident, relaxed and secure she's acting with all this going on. Even if it's a showmance, she must know what heat she's going to feel with everyone pitying her about BBJ and his BB ways. And yet, she's totally fine being besties with Fleiss. There has to be a switcharoo, foiler or a planned epic breakup at atfr. I just can't reconcile Jo's attitude in present day without one of these things.

Either this, or she is just genuinely "in love" and trusting of BBJ. Getting ready to stand by her man, Jillian Harris style. Jill and Ed lasted a year, Ben and Courtney just shy of a year. Nikki and Juan Pablo (though there weren't cheating rumors involved there,) again, just shy of a year. Jo^3 could hang on much longer than we are anticipating.

I don't think any woman would be this secure in this situation. This is worse than Jill and Ed imo, and Jill was definitely acting pissed off and annoyed at the audience anyway. The implication is not that BBJ is just a dbag, but that he's already cheating in a 5 week long relationship. This is nuts.

I honestly don't get anyone's behavior. Robby, supposedly F2 is happy as a cucumber, Jordan, supposedly F1 is apparently back on an exclusive dating app, and Jojo who is supposedly already being cheated on appears happy and content. Color me confused.