Tanner & Jade Tolbert - BIP 2 - Discussion

Look at that hair!

Ok I guess Jack didn't make it. Reed spelt different. I do like Reed Harrison.

Happy belated birthday to Jade. Lovely post from Tanner.



https://www.instagram.com/p/CI_r9xbgnAD/

I wondered where Reed was. Then I noticed him in the little bed to the left.



https://www.instagram.com/p/CIgs8LWghC9/

Sorry for the double post. Here's another one with the pups. So cute.



https://www.instagram.com/p/CIUKDPol9_z/

https://www.instagram.com/p/CX439WtFXuF/

They have such a cute family!

https://www.instagram.com/p/CkZjLpevgdW/

Wow, that's really well done!

https://www.iheart.com/podcast/139-the-ben-and-ashley-28165481/episode/mother-knows-best-with-jade-roper-109024076/

I haven't looked for any updates on Jade and Tanner in awhile. I'm going to listen to this now.

Ben asks if they are happily married. Jade says, 7 years, happily married, marriage is hard, they had up and lows, last year was a hard year, they hit a reset Nov/Dec but things are smooth now.

Two people come into a marriage, they have their own childhood upbringing, then they try and make it work with someone else. Ben asks about the tough year. Jade says everyone requires different needs to be loved. She switched job agencies, she questioned a lot about herself, Tanner was going through things with his family, and sometimes reactions come from a hurtful place. They agreed they each have things to heal from and give each other compassion. Individual therapy has been helpful. They learn more about each other things the never knew, and they can heal together.

They talk about how children affect your marriage. Jade talks about having a 4th, and Tanner is more hesitant.

Ashley asks about their successful IG. Tanner went back to his regular job. When she started getting followers he was surprised at the income. Tanner wanted to take advantage of it. He was working 60 hrs a week then they'd do ad's on Sunday's. Tanner doesn't post many ad's anymore. She doesn't know what's next for her, she's looking for a purpose.


Jade is very well spoken and very sweet. I like her hair short.

Beautiful family.

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@GuardianAngel Thank you for all that - I wanted the update without investing the time. I sure hope they make it and that they stick with therapy. If you put in the work, I believe you will have rewards. To me, there has always been sweetness in Jade. I just felt she was looking for love and validation. So I understand her desire to find a fulfilling purpose. Although raising children is enough - sometimes people just don't think it is. It's when they are grown and appreciative than you see the payoff on the investment in parenting.