Tanner & Jade Tolbert - BIP 2 - Discussion

Oh my fawddd what a tool chest. Poor jade and her self esteem. Smh.

He would have been gone long time ago if that was me. The fact that she is on the other end of his repeated cruel treatment of her and she puts up with it, gives me the creeps.

I hope one day she will realize, this type of treatment is totally unacceptable.

Sounds like Jade needs to take up cooking with anti-freeze and make up some new yummy dishes special for Tanner.

GuardianAngel wrote:He would have been gone long time ago if that was me. The fact that she is on the other end of his repeated cruel treatment of her and she puts up with it, gives me the creeps.

I hope one day she will realize, this type of treatment is totally unacceptable.

Well, they tried to tell her this on Marriage Boot Camp but it went in one ear and right out the other.

IMO, she has such low self-esteem that she thinks this is all she can ever have in her life.

Does he think he's being funny or does he seriously believe all this stuff? Either way, what's wrong with him? Try having a baby and being with them all day in day out and then see what you say.

Oh @albean99, I truly believe that he is serious about this. He was a real a-hole on MBC. Some of these things he expected from her before she ever got pregnant. And, the fact that he was not happy it was going to be a girl...

I'm too nice to say what I really think about him.

Interestingly, I saw an online article the other day about a worn out mom (I think there were two toddler\pre school aged children) who simply walked out in tears one night when similarly unsupportive hubby got home from work. After two days of having to take care of children by himself, he wrote the wife a letter about how he NOW understood how really difficult her job as SAHM was, and had a newfound appreciation for her.

Oh lawd. Jade should have him watch Emmy for a day and then maybe he'll change his mind. I bet he's worse in the podcast that Carly and Jade started recently that's all about raising babies.

JMHO but I think Tanner could use some sessions with a counselor to work out why he feels and acts the way he does. His thinking is back in the Victorian era.

He is a real disappointment.... Sorry for jade...

Just kills me this piece of crap man gets to be a father with his whole “change one diaper a day and you spend too much time with the baby” when so many good deserving couples can’t get pregnant. I feel bad for that baby and Jade. JMO

havadrpepper wrote:Oh @albean99, I truly believe that he is serious about this.  He was a real a-hole on MBC.  Some of these things he expected from her before she ever got pregnant.  And, the fact that he was not happy it was going to be a girl...

I'm too nice to say what I really think about him.

Yeah, he was so gross about wanting it to be a boy. He would make Jade do all these crazy things after sex that would supposedly increase the chances of having a boy.

I just feel for Jade. She's had such a hard life, with a verbally/emotionally mother and getting r*ped at such a young age, that she probably doesn't even realize how problematic Tanner's behavior is. Jade and her daughter deserve so much better.