Jordan Rodgers - Bachelorette 12 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #3

Di_ATL wrote:im curious, so many of these ladies emails say they met him via Raya, and cant give screen copies etc, of conversations, but then they say he is so out there not hiding nothing, so im confused, does he do his cheating on the down low or is he just that smooth not to get caught, i mean that sounds like alot of women to keep up with and keep your story straight even for BBJ.... plus wouldn't they have text messages, or voicemail's they could prove his infidelities TL with?

I just find it a little odd that all these women are coming from that site, and for me like all  sites dating or not whom think they are private, they can be hacked etc  Ashley Madison comes to mind., so they could easily send blogger boy screen copies and pass it off as being hacked. .  

JMO of course but i just dont think if he is engaged to Jojo as per rumors he would be that silly, dumb jock or not, to reactivate knowing he is the rumored final 1.  unless of course, he knew blogger boy was going to come forward with this stuff, and those girls emails, Jojo and jordan are all in on it, and in the end get the last laugh off blogger boy.

Di_ATL wrote:well bachnation account says everything on RS site is accurate, umm no he was wrong on several things, DES season, Ali's season, this year he has changed his final 3 prediction already just to name a few...so NOT everything

mindless wrote:I don't even need these emails to tell me he's an azz, since his actual confirmed ex called him out on his cheating and fame-mongering weeks ago already. I never thought she did it to draw attention to herself and I don't think these women supposedly emailing Steve did either. They just happen to know he's a crappy individual and want the world to know. I would too. I have no sympathy whatsoever for narcissistic cheaters, and if I could warn some unsuspecting women of their behaviour I sure as hell would. Just like I would report a r*pe. Extreme example, but you get the gist.

I also think there are few things more stupid than totally ignoring a person's past and acting like it's got nothing to do with the present. That's called burying your head in the sand. As they say, the best predictor of future behaviour is past behaviour. Sure, people can change over time and learn from their mistakes, but I don't consider repetitive behaviour a mistake, more a strong indicator of one's core personality and that rarely changes. Also there's apparently been no time at all between Jordan's past "mistakes" and the present, so how could he have changed? This isn't a 35-year-old who did something stupid in his early 20's, he was apparently still gathering his own harem just before going on the show and is still keeping an eye on what's out there. Just eww.

nutty1 wrote:

mindless wrote:I don't even need these emails to tell me he's an azz, since his actual confirmed ex called him out on his cheating and fame-mongering weeks ago already. I never thought she did it to draw attention to herself and I don't think these women supposedly emailing Steve did either. They just happen to know he's a crappy individual and want the world to know. I would too. I have no sympathy whatsoever for narcissistic cheaters, and if I could warn some unsuspecting women of their behaviour I sure as hell would. Just like I would report a r*pe. Extreme example, but you get the gist.

I also think there are few things more stupid than totally ignoring a person's past and acting like it's got nothing to do with the present. That's called burying your head in the sand. As they say, the best predictor of future behaviour is past behaviour. Sure, people can change over time and learn from their mistakes, but I don't consider repetitive behaviour a mistake, more a strong indicator of one's core personality and that rarely changes. Also there's apparently been no time at all between Jordan's past "mistakes" and the present, so how could he have changed? This isn't a 35-year-old who did something stupid in his early 20's, he was apparently still gathering his own harem just before going on the show and is still keeping an eye on what's out there. Just eww.

I have been so busy these past few weeks, I have missed a lot. Can someone give me a quick summary of the bolded? Thanks!

BachIsMyGuiltyPleasure wrote:Ughhh... I was keeping an open mind on Jordan but after reading these emails it feels very familiar to a guy I had the pleasure/pain of dating...If I was JoJo (and in love with my fiancé) I would have to draw a line in the sand for pre-show shenanigans but re-activating his Raya account after filming is definitely crossing a line if he is F1.   (If it was tinder or a new account I might suspect a fake but re-activation would be difficult without his knowledge especially with that type of site IMO).

Best case scenario for me is that he is single and free to mingle... that somehow he is not F1 and we have a foiler....  Didn't we see Robby like a post about pulling a Mesnick as well?  I would love that!

Ash2214 wrote:

bluwavz wrote:At least that Grant guy is probably happy right now. Jordan took the heat right off him. Phew!

What's funny is that IMO, the emails about Grant were worse and far more detailed with specific dates and it talks about an engagement. He should be thanking his lucky stars right now

HEA wrote:

Di_ATL wrote:im curious, so many of these ladies emails say they met him via Raya, and cant give screen copies etc, of conversations, but then they say he is so out there not hiding nothing, so im confused, does he do his cheating on the down low or is he just that smooth not to get caught, i mean that sounds like alot of women to keep up with and keep your story straight even for BBJ.... plus wouldn't they have text messages, or voicemail's they could prove his infidelities TL with?

I just find it a little odd that all these women are coming from that site, and for me like all  sites dating or not whom think they are private, they can be hacked etc  Ashley Madison comes to mind., so they could easily send blogger boy screen copies and pass it off as being hacked. .  

JMO of course but i just dont think if he is engaged to Jojo as per rumors he would be that silly, dumb jock or not, to reactivate knowing he is the rumored final 1.  unless of course, he knew blogger boy was going to come forward with this stuff, and those girls emails, Jojo and jordan are all in on it, and in the end get the last laugh off blogger boy.

Because he IS silly, dumb jock??

RAYA is not like any other dating place. It is an elite and select place for rich and/or celebs and/or big SM numbers and must be  beautiful with a cotation of 8/10. It is a very small 'pond'. It is not match.com or whatever dating online. Once in, I bet nobody wants to be out.

JMO

HEA wrote:

Di_ATL wrote:im curious, so many of these ladies emails say they met him via Raya, and cant give screen copies etc, of conversations, but then they say he is so out there not hiding nothing, so im confused, does he do his cheating on the down low or is he just that smooth not to get caught, i mean that sounds like alot of women to keep up with and keep your story straight even for BBJ.... plus wouldn't they have text messages, or voicemail's they could prove his infidelities TL with?

I just find it a little odd that all these women are coming from that site, and for me like all  sites dating or not whom think they are private, they can be hacked etc  Ashley Madison comes to mind., so they could easily send blogger boy screen copies and pass it off as being hacked. .  

JMO of course but i just dont think if he is engaged to Jojo as per rumors he would be that silly, dumb jock or not, to reactivate knowing he is the rumored final 1.  unless of course, he knew blogger boy was going to come forward with this stuff, and those girls emails, Jojo and jordan are all in on it, and in the end get the last laugh off blogger boy.


Because he IS silly, dumb jock??

RAYA is not like any other dating place. It is an elite and select place for rich and/or celebs and/or big SM numbers and must be  beautiful with a cotation of 8/10. It is a very small 'pond'. It is not match.com or whatever dating online. Once in, I bet nobody wants to be out.

JMO