Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #2

I really feel that Lauren is special and I do hope what they have lasts forever.

@stuckinsc, it's your opinion that Lauren is not selfless nor amazing but it is my opinion that she is. *edit* I just negate it with MY own opinion of Lauren.

I have a sister and friends who have given up their career for their husbands. I think it is selfless because it does not mean they don't have dreams of their own, it just means they're willing to sacrifice it for the one they love. They have made sacrifice so to me it is a selfless act because I'm someone who can't give up what I have and what I do for someone else...meaning I'm much too selfish to give up something for someone.

From RS . Some bts photos yesterday of them filming .

RS don't tell me to get leery, speak for yourself. BTW his comments make no difference in my life either, so we're pretty even Steven.

IMO.............He's such a jerk.

RS is a jerk IMO! He may get spoilers for the shows, but he doesn't know really know anything about these relationships post-show.

^^^Yes RS is weird, but he has a point about reality shows! They are creepy....oh wait, I watch one!

soccermom333 wrote:^^^Yes RS is weird, but he has a point about reality shows!  They are creepy....oh wait, I watch one!  

Oh sure, a captain obvious observation, just like he made another captain obvious observation about the current season airing. It doesn't make him Nostradamus who can predict the future in either case, or in any case, really. It just makes him a man who makes a living writing gossip about this show and being cynical about everything that comes out of it. It's all whatever to me.

I personally think there is a pretty good chance he's going have to go buy another gift off a registry in the not so distant future.

So--RS says reality shows are creepy and he makes his living off of being an expert on the creep shows. So does this make him king of the creep or master creep or his honorable creepiness?

Kashathediva wrote:So--RS says reality shows are creepy and he makes his living off of being an expert on the creep shows. So does this make him king of the creep or master creep or his honorable creepiness?

I like the biggest creep of them all personally.

Kashathediva wrote:So--RS says reality shows are creepy and he makes his living off of being an expert on the creep shows. So does this make him king of the creep or master creep or his honorable creepiness?

Wow! He's trying to bite the hand that feeds him. Talk about a house divided

http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/live-feed/bachelor-spinoff-ben-higgins-lauren-908632

lovebites8727 wrote:http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/live-feed/bachelor-spinoff-ben-higgins-lauren-908632

"At first I had a lot of concerns and Ben did, too," she says. "Our biggest priority coming out of the show and the Bachelor world was focusing on each other. Our biggest concern was: Is this new show going to try to alter our life or be incredibly intrusive and get in the way of our relationship?"

She continues, "Our main priority was that our relationship always comes first and if something does ever get in the way, we’ll have to have another conversation because that’s something that neither of us are going to allow to happen."

One small example of why I see Lauren as a very mature young lady for her age. When other's are pushing gummie bears down my throat, she is a very genuine, and grounded young lady. She knows what's important to her IMO.

GA, thanks for that quote. I couldn't agree more.

I think most on this board, although we may disagree about their paths after the bachelor, can agree that Lauren and Ben are good people who are deeply in love. It's clear that their relationship is a priority so I believe them when they say it. The way they are with one another and the way they look at each other was what drew me to them and continues to til this day.  I'm a sucker for a love story and that's what we got with these two. 

I read in an article that Ben was excited to showcase how they communicate and compromise and rely on their faith in this new show. In a world of real housewives and drama couples I think t's important to showcase positive healthy relationships on TV.