NO SPOILERS - CHASE - Bachelorette 12 - *Sleuthing NO Spoilers*

I love your new avatar AC! I was just thinking....Yes Jordan may be the most like JoJo, but how many of us marry men who are just like we are? We normally marry our opposites. My husband is very extrovert, and I'm shy. Chase is reserved, but yet friendly, JoJo is all out there. Same thing with Luke, quiet confidence he has. Both Jordan and Robby are one of the same, IMO. Just one is more famous than the other. They are both similar to JoJo. But that isn't always the best combination. Andi and Josh have both alpha personalities, and look what happened. So sometimes you need someone with a different personality to complement yours. I love these two together. I hope Chase finds someone special who he can open up and not be afraid to share his feelings with. He has so much love and everything else to offer a woman. Can't wait to see that happen, preferably on my TV screen (for selfish reasons).

All I can say is that Chase is gold. He seems so genuine and true. If she lets him go, he will eventually make some woman incredibly happy.

I am going to write a strongly worded letter to whatever editor keeps putting "husband" over Chase's face. Stop playing with us!

I'll have to watch the rest of this episode later.

Veg, it was so touching to watch his hometown date and get a better glimpse at what has made him the man he is today. He is what I call a big lug - a big strong man with a soft heart. I truly believe what Jojo says during the RC portion is true, that in all her years of dating she has never met one man so good and now she has 4 good men to choose from. She'd be lucky to have each of them. She just needs to pick the one that she needs as a husband. This surely ain't over yet, though. Those editors are playing all kinds of tricks with us. Lack of SCs, to be continued endings, possible change ups and switch ups...  But, without a doubt, Chase will make an incredible husband to one lucky lady.

So just a quick comment, I have so many good thoughts about Chase but no time right now to properly share them........

Observation: When Jojo greeted Chase she jumped into his arms and wrapped her legs around him (she showed this same affection with Ben). Second, Chase cried on HTD (Ben did this at Lauren`s house).

I could be reading too much in, possibly even trying to put puzzle pieces where they don't belong????

I will be back with more later

^I love where you are going with this, loco! I loved their chemistry together in his HT. I wish we could've seen them interact at the hockey rink! ( a major weakness of mine)

I would feel more confident for Chase if JoJo (as lead) was the one who broke down in tears with his mom or dad and not the other way around. The roles are reversed, so it has me worried for Chase that he is headed for heartbreak. 
I saw JoJo's tears for Jordan only. Boo-hoo!

agentcurls wrote:^I love where you are going with this, loco! I loved their chemistry together in his HT. I wish we could've seen them interact at the hockey rink! ( a major weakness of mine)

I would feel more confident for Chase if JoJo (as lead) was the one who broke down in tears with his mom or dad and not the other way around. The roles are reversed, so it has me worried for Chase that he is headed for heartbreak. 
I saw JoJo's tears for Jordan only. Boo-hoo!

I agree with you. She's most emotional and says the most original things about Jordan. Her other comments about the other guys, maybe excluding Robbie too, are rather trite.

I am still surprised by the way that she kisses Chase. She kisses him often and intently. I expect her to pull away from Chase in Thailand if she's cutting him.

I loooooooooved Chase's mom. A dream of a MIL. 

(my own SC)

^He is beautiful with his mama. Such a tender heart. His mom was hilarious--so fun!

Aw, I can't wait to watch this episode! Sounds like I'm going to enjoy Chase's HTD.

I loved Chase's date above all else. I mean, it was just real emotions from the beginning to the end. So, I just want to capture a few things that stood out to me.

I would have loved to see JoJo and Chase build that snowman and playing hockey. I think in those settings she would have been more of her natural self and Chase would have been more relaxed and so we would have picked up on that connection more.

Another thing that was refreshing to hear was JoJo saying that their relationship started off hot and heavy and that they had a connection. Why did she wait until now to express that?! She had us wondering all along if it was one-sided.

Another thing that I appreciated is that Chase brought JoJo along to witness a tough conversation with his dad. Granted the conversation never would have played out the way it did had she not been there but still. It's nice to know you have your partner by your side to support you in those tough moments. Also, can I just say that I find Chase's dad to be the most attractive of the four dads shown, IMO. So Chase is gonna age well!

It was interesting also to hear Chase's dad say that long lasting love isn't about the "wildest emotions" but of having someone who's by your side. A pity, that JoJo doesn't apparently see it that way.

And can we for a minute just pause to observe Chase's relationship with his mom. Of all the dates, it seems as though Chase was the one who was closest to his mother, IMO. They have a very special relationship. And you know what they say about men treat you like how they treat their mothers...

I also liked getting the back story about why Chase is the way he is, and why he holds back on his feelings. That single tear drop was to die for. This date was the most emotionally charged for me.

And at the end of the date I loved how Chase was so genuine when he finally told her he's falling in love with her. That was precious. And JoJo knew without a doubt that he meant it. Contrast that though to the end of Jordan's date where she still had doubts. Red flag! It's like nothing Jordan does or says would take away  her intuition. I only hope she listens to it, but I'm afraid she's a goner.

I also liked when she stopped Chase from opening the door of the vehicle so that she could spend some more time with him, that was cute. Oh and I forgot! The moment when Chase says goodbye to his dad, he for a moment looks at the camera crew and sneaks in a kiss with JoJo before quickly closing the door. I think that he wanted some "loving" from JoJo then.

And can I just say, nothing says I'm a responsible adult who is ready for marriage and everything else than having your own house and a real job. Just saying...Chase is ready for that one love and it's a pity that it appears that JoJo is not going to be that person for him. He said in that episode he's diving in but I pray that his exit is not going to be too painful for me him.

Aviej,  RE ^  I came back to finish my thoughts about Chase but you finished them for me. Beautifully put

Chase is a true, responsible, most handsome, loving man.  He seems genuine in his feelings for JoJo, I am holding out hope that something is being left out of SCs and he is her F1.  So many "natural" moments between them seem to have been left out  .......  I didn't hear anything about hockey, when was that mentioned?

If he is not F1 I SO hope he is our next Bach. I would love to see him find a wonderful woman.  No doubt after this many girls will be beating his door down.  Wish I was 20 years younger

There is a clip in the season previews from epi one that showed a man walking down a sidewalk past white vans toward a production tent. I have always thought it was Chad bear, but there is a possibility it could be Chase. I have tried to analyze the walking gait of the man, but it is a short clip. Perhaps if someone can SC it and lighten it up we could better see who it is. Just a thought.