Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #7

And she still was not the one who ended the relationship.

IA and it tells me just how F'd up that relationship was if BOR was the one to make the choice and walk away.

I'm not a huge fan of Andi, BUT I think that there are many many reasons a person doesn't leave a bad situation, and I'm not sure I think it has anything to do with fame.
I actually hope Andi found a good therapist after that experience as I think it can take years to undo that kind of damage.
JMHO

I agree @eliza3. Shame at failing, hoping things will change and get better somehow, ignoring the red flags because the guy acts normal in public and your family/friends like him, etc. She seems all screwed up to me still so I hope she seeks therapy also.

GuardianAngel wrote:She never takes her own advice. She should have packed her bags long ago if things were that bad. She chose to stay, for the fame that it brought her IMO.

I certainly agree with that.... I'm not a fan of Andi's but watching Josh last night and the way talked/treated Amanda made me think of Andi's demeanor on her AFTR and how cold and rude she was to Nick. I always found her behavior so odd, and now I can understand why she may have behaved that way. I can easily see Josh having a hissy and calling her disrespectful (since that's one of his favorite words) if she was in any way cordial to Nick.

I haven't read her book yet (I know such a bad fan I am!) but reading snippets seems after their big fight in NYC she gave him the ring and walked away wanting to end it but he apologized to her and guess she kept it up until the official break-up. Just sad.

Hahaha she congratulate nick

Andi Dorfman (@AndiDorfman)
31/08/16 18:31
Congrats, Nick. It's been a long road but you've always been genuine and real about wanting to find love. Now it's your turn! Best of luck

Next she'll be lauding him in terms of "I knew Nick when...".

I remember her saying similar things in an interview last year when there was talk of Nick being in the running. Then in her book she said he was all about the cameras etc. Now that he's the next Bach it's back to Nick being genuine. I don't know how anyone can take her seriously.

It doesn't hurt that in a recent podcast I heard, Nick said he didn't regret what he said on the ATFR he regrets the heat Andi took.

Awwwee, if she got wind of that, I'm sure she's back to dreaming about that crappy apartment and what could have been that night in Chicago.

Secret Date Night

The funniest thing about that whole kurfluffle (and from And's book) was that Nick was already "talking" to Kaitlyn by then and I'm pretty sure he didn't want round 2 and really did just want to apologize .

But I think Andi's playing nice now because he's giving her good publicity for her book and saying that a lot of the stuff is true. And I don't think Andi / Nick are alone in noticing something "off" about Josh since his Famously Single housemates said stuff too (and some of his behavior with Amanda does seem red-flag-ish).

Is something wrong with Andi? Check her snap..