Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #6

SueSt wrote:

StationWagon wrote:

eirekay wrote:

What gets me is that (IMO) knowing how hurt Nick was, why in the world would Andi have even consider having sex with #25 again, at the risk of hurting him even more?  What kind of person does that?

She is either a liar (and really did like Nick) or she's cruel.

Or both....

I definitely go with both -- Andi is a liar and she's cruel.

JMO

I just finished listening to the part where she described the two MTPs, introducing first Nick and then Josh to her family. IMO, these were the most cruel comments so far regarding Nick. She referred to introducing Nick first as "setting the bar low" and called him "the dud before the stud". One reason we benefit from not being able to read minds is because it protects us from psychic pain. Nick must have surely suffered to some degree from her sharing these details, and perhaps continues to do so. It just wasn't necessary. Sad.

hopelessly_devoted wrote:I just finished listening to the part where she described the two MTPs, introducing first Nick and then Josh to her family.  IMO, these were the most cruel comments so far regarding Nick. She referred to introducing Nick first as "setting the bar low" and called him "the dud before the stud".  One reason we benefit from not being able to read minds is because it protects us from psychic pain. Nick must have surely suffered to some degree from her sharing these details, and perhaps continues to do so. It just wasn't necessary. Sad.

Damn!  Andi really is one pissed-off psycho b!tch (IMO)!

hopelessly_devoted wrote:I just finished listening to the part where she described the two MTPs, introducing first Nick and then Josh to her family.  IMO, these were the most cruel comments so far regarding Nick. She referred to introducing Nick first as "setting the bar low" and called him "the dud before the stud".  One reason we benefit from not being able to read minds is because it protects us from psychic pain. Nick must have surely suffered to some degree from her sharing these details, and perhaps continues to do so. It just wasn't necessary. Sad.

And this was before he had even done anything to her. At that point there was no fantasy suite admission. It was truly heartbreaking for me to read that part of the book. Also, it's heartbreaking to know that Andi will never be able to see or understanding how mean she is. It sucks that there are people in this world who love to laugh at people for no reason, and it really sucks that they have followers and friends.

The dud before the stud that she had no problems "making love" with, before the stud only to return to the dud in hopes of more.

hopelessly_devoted wrote:I just finished listening to the part where she described the two MTPs, introducing first Nick and then Josh to her family.  IMO, these were the most cruel comments so far regarding Nick. She referred to introducing Nick first as "setting the bar low" and called him "the dud before the stud".  One reason we benefit from not being able to read minds is because it protects us from psychic pain. Nick must have surely suffered to some degree from her sharing these details, and perhaps continues to do so. It just wasn't necessary. Sad.

Part of this is also why I am totally fine with Nick modeling (or anyone else, but especially him) and totally get it... and pretty cool that he was scouted and the agency didn't even know he was affiliated with the show.

Andi is just mean and cruel, imo, and what she or her family call a "dud" others see as much more than that.

It's her loss and good riddance to her, I say.

hopelessly_devoted wrote:I just finished listening to the part where she described the two MTPs, introducing first Nick and then Josh to her family.  IMO, these were the most cruel comments so far regarding Nick. She referred to introducing Nick first as "setting the bar low" and called him "the dud before the stud".  One reason we benefit from not being able to read minds is because it protects us from psychic pain. Nick must have surely suffered to some degree from her sharing these details, and perhaps continues to do so. It just wasn't necessary. Sad.

It never feels good hearing nasty things about oneself. It's a slam to our ego. It makes us self doubt ourself . It makes us feel sh*tty.
In this case, as in most, consider the source.
She boffed him. WTF does that say about her if he was that bad? Then a year later she considers doing it again. I simply can't take such a sick, narcissistic bully seriously. She is a one woman comedy act that's gotten stale.
Over and over again this misfit of humanity tries to demolish another and in her attempts only diminishes her own worth. She is so messed up in the head. Hopefully she will never reproduce and potentially spread this aberration to the next generation.

Kashathediva wrote:

hopelessly_devoted wrote:I just finished listening to the part where she described the two MTPs, introducing first Nick and then Josh to her family.  IMO, these were the most cruel comments so far regarding Nick. She referred to introducing Nick first as "setting the bar low" and called him "the dud before the stud".  One reason we benefit from not being able to read minds is because it protects us from psychic pain. Nick must have surely suffered to some degree from her sharing these details, and perhaps continues to do so. It just wasn't necessary. Sad.

It never feels good hearing nasty things about oneself. It's a slam to our ego. It makes us self doubt ourself . It makes us feel sh*tty.
In this case, as in most, consider the source.
She boffed him. WTF does that say about her if he was that bad? Then a year later she considers doing it again. I simply can't take such a sick, narcissistic bully seriously. She is a one woman comedy act that's gotten stale.
Over and over again this misfit of humanity tries to demolish another and in her attempts only diminishes her own worth. She is so messed up in the head. Hopefully she will never reproduce and potentially spread this aberration to the next generation.

I just feel so angry that nobody in bachelor land is talking about how sh**y she is. Someone needs stand up and say something. Call her out on her BS, but they are all too scared to look bad and lose the popularity contest. It's just frustrating. Maybe they actually like the book and her. If that is the case...that's horrifying.

eirekay wrote:

hopelessly_devoted wrote:I just finished listening to the part where she described the two MTPs, introducing first Nick and then Josh to her family.  IMO, these were the most cruel comments so far regarding Nick. She referred to introducing Nick first as "setting the bar low" and called him "the dud before the stud".  One reason we benefit from not being able to read minds is because it protects us from psychic pain. Nick must have surely suffered to some degree from her sharing these details, and perhaps continues to do so. It just wasn't necessary. Sad.

Damn!  Andi really is one pissed-off psycho b!tch (IMO)!

I don't think that comment requires an IMO.

I seriously can't believe how bitter she is. Nick invited her to his place because he wanted to apologise, she accepted the invite and apparently pretended to bury the hatchet, yet she's still thinking of new ways to humiliate him. Calling him a dud, pretending she never felt anything for him really, basically underlining that she used him (which just makes her look like a bitch), putting down his apartment... Just let it go, woman! He hasn't even said a bad word about her the entire time. Andi is just a total a-hole. No wonder her "feminism" consists of emulating douchebags, since that's the only thing she can relate to.

I disagree.
The best thing bach nation can do is not discuss her book at all. Give it no cred. Give no focus. No 15 minutes. No reply. No justification. Nothing. A long, deafening S-I-L-E-N-C-E. It says more than anything. IMO
And they can support their friends that are going through rough times privately.  
There is no way anyone can think this is classy. There is no way, imo anyone can believe this is an intelligent, reflection on break-up where the party learned and moved on.
This to me is a case of a very sick, misguided person. The more I think about it the more I think someone, her publicist, editor, the publisher had to have advised her to go in a different direction, as this is so incriminating in making her look like a vindictive, crazy woman.  
Anyone she has tried to drag down in this folly will be ok on their own merit. The book says volumes about the author.
JMOAA

Kashathediva wrote:I disagree.
The best thing bach nation can do is not discuss her book at all. Give it no cred. Give no focus. No 15 minutes. No reply. No justification. Nothing. A long, deafening S-I-L-E-N-C-E. It says more than anything. IMO
And they can support their friends that are going through rough times privately.  
There is no way anyone can thing this is classy. There is no way, imo anyone can believe this is an intelligent, reflection on break-up where the party learned and moved on.
This to me is a case of a very sick, misguided person. The more I think about it the more I think someone, her publicist, editor, the publisher had to have advised her to go in a different direction, as this is so incriminating in making her look like a vindictive, crazy woman.  
Anyone she has tried to drag down in this folly will be ok on their own merit. The book says volumes about the author.
JMOAA

You are right. I agree with you now.  I wouldn't be able to take the high road but they are doing the right thing.

hopelessly_devoted wrote:I just finished listening to the part where she described the two MTPs, introducing first Nick and then Josh to her family.  IMO, these were the most cruel comments so far regarding Nick. She referred to introducing Nick first as "setting the bar low" and called him "the dud before the stud".  One reason we benefit from not being able to read minds is because it protects us from psychic pain. Nick must have surely suffered to some degree from her sharing these details, and perhaps continues to do so. It just wasn't necessary. Sad.

Still she wanted to sleep with him again after Josh dump her sorry azz. Cold hearted bitch