Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #6

^ I am still cringing about her talking her fantasy suite with #25 and #26 on her book and her used of words Why did she still talk about it knowing everyone knows it already .

What is even more cringy to me is her description of #25's apology to her afterwards at his apartment. He invited her to his apartment so that he could apologize to her in person about the fantasy suite admission and she thought to herself in the elevator on her way to his apartment "I wonder if I'll have sex with him". I'm not kidding, she thought that to herself even though this is supposedly a man that she hates and who is only a fame seeker. If so, Why would she even think to have sex with him again...especially after she said how bad the experience of having sex with him was in previous chapters? She is so hypocritical throughout the entire book it's difficult for even the reader to get her story strait IMO.

sparkler wrote:Just a quick quote on feminism before I get back into reading. This is from the group date in Italy when the guys did the lie detector test "As if the men in black and the surrounding weaponry weren't intimidating enough, I informed the group that we would all be taking a lie detector test! Yay! The horror on their faces made the feminist inside me squeal with excitement." I know this topic of feminism has been addressed on this thread (I'm not honestly sure what it means) but feminism can't be taking delight in watching guys you are dating be uncomfortable. I am having a really hard time relating to Andi so far. Not that I expect to. I actually felt some empathy for Courtney after reading her book and I really didn't like her at all on Ben's season. I don't expect that here.

Regarding the bolded:

Andi thinks that guys taking a lie detector test has something to do with feminism only shows me Andi doesn't even know what feminism is (which was obvious before but even more glaringly so now).

She is confusing feminist with masochist - she is a masochist. She takes pleasure in other's pain. In what universe could she possibly think it is okay to write this "book".

Does she address her relationship with the Murray's?

^ nope . She only mentioned them while talking about her hometown dates but just a quick mentioned . Although she mentioned #26 younger bro being famous and mentioned that #26 being a winner of her season he was no longer unfamous Murray

StationWagon wrote:What is even more cringy to me is her description of #25's apology to her afterwards at his apartment.  He invited her to his apartment so that he could apologize to her in person about the fantasy suite admission and she thought to herself in the elevator on her way to his apartment "I wonder if I'll have sex with him".  I'm not kidding, she thought that to herself even though this is supposedly a man that she hates and who is only a fame seeker. If so, Why would she even think to have sex with him again...especially after she said how bad the experience of having sex with him was in previous chapters?  She is so hypocritical throughout the entire book it's difficult for even the reader to get her story strait IMO.

Was the sex that good that she wanted second?? Same thing happen to bachelorette #11 didnt it? Interesting!  then came out and disrespected him so much.  Wow just wow!!!!

Mustang19 wrote:She is confusing feminist with masochist - she is a masochist. She takes pleasure in other's pain. In what universe could she possibly think it is okay to write this "book".

Does she address her relationship with the Murray's?

I think she is a sadist - taking pleasure in other's pain. Masochists take pleasure in their own pain. But then, she may do both.

Andi is a narcissist so the only universe that matters to her is the one that is all about herself.

jmo

reason wrote:

StationWagon wrote:What is even more cringy to me is her description of #25's apology to her afterwards at his apartment.  He invited her to his apartment so that he could apologize to her in person about the fantasy suite admission and she thought to herself in the elevator on her way to his apartment "I wonder if I'll have sex with him".  I'm not kidding, she thought that to herself even though this is supposedly a man that she hates and who is only a fame seeker. If so, Why would she even think to have sex with him again...especially after she said how bad the experience of having sex with him was in previous chapters?  She is so hypocritical throughout the entire book it's difficult for even the reader to get her story strait IMO.

Was the sex that good that she wanted second?? Same thing happen to bachelorette #11 didnt it? Interesting!  then came out and disrespected him so much.  Wow just wow!!!!

She describes sex with #25 as being "lady boner killing" because of his would you rather question (described in the us weekly article)...but if it was so awful why would she contemplate a second go-round later?

StationWagon wrote:What is even more cringy to me is her description of #25's apology to her afterwards at his apartment.  He invited her to his apartment so that he could apologize to her in person about the fantasy suite admission and she thought to herself in the elevator on her way to his apartment "I wonder if I'll have sex with him" .  I'm not kidding, she thought that to herself even though this is supposedly a man that she hates and who is only a fame seeker. If so, Why would she even think to have sex with him again...especially after she said how bad the experience of having sex with him was in previous chapters?  She is so hypocritical throughout the entire book it's difficult for even the reader to get her story strait IMO.

That shows me that Andi is just full of it and lies when it is convenient - which is anytime and all the time.

Sounds like Andi wanted some more of #25.

Oh well, Andi's loss -- he'd moved on by then.  

Andi makes Kaitlyn look like Mother Teresa.

StationWagon wrote:What is even more cringy to me is her description of #25's apology to her afterwards at his apartment.  He invited her to his apartment so that he could apologize to her in person about the fantasy suite admission and she thought to herself in the elevator on her way to his apartment "I wonder if I'll have sex with him".  I'm not kidding, she thought that to herself even though this is supposedly a man that she hates and who is only a fame seeker. If so, Why would she even think to have sex with him again...especially after she said how bad the experience of having sex with him was in previous chapters?  She is so hypocritical throughout the entire book it's difficult for even the reader to get her story strait IMO.

Yes! Just about to post same thing... she then goes on to say that she doesn't have sex with him as her shallowness (her words to her credit) takes over and his less than wow apartment is a letdown to how she imagined it from their talks!

bblake wrote:Andi makes Kaitlyn look like Mother Teresa.