Chase McNary - Bachelorette 12 - **Sleuthing - Spoilers**

HEA wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:There are so many layers to attraction and desire. You can look at a person and know they are everything you should want, but you just don't feel that way about them. IRL where you aren't dating other men maybe you give it time and see if it grows, but on this show she is dating multiple men, so I understand not chosing the one who is everything you know you should want because there is one who does give you those excited feelings. 

The big spark versus the slow growing heat. Ten weeks is almost always going to favor the spark, it feels stronger and more exciting in the short term. Des was the only example where the slow growing heat won, but that took the spark leaving. Maybe Trista too with Ryan over Charlie, it's been so long I don't remember her first couple of weeks. I do remember being shocked she chose Ryan.

I do agree that if he is still single in his 30s Chase is going to have plenty of women who have had enough sparks and like the slow building heat. I bet he finds his own spark way before then.

IMO, Des had the spark for Brooks. It happened that she fell in love with Chris. I will ever wonder if Chris was her all along F1 but glad that she is happy and in love with her husband and of course pregnant. Because Des picked Chris at the end and is married does not mean that Brooks was never her first choice and since he left the show, I'll always have a doubt. But again, Des looks extremely happy today and this is all that matters.

Chase is very involved in his church. I am not sure that he is/will be a butterfly.

I saw on her twitter where she retweeted a statement that said as if asking God: How will I know if he is the right one? and the answer supposedly from God responds "He is the right one, if he leads you to ME"
JMO