Bachelor In Paradise - Season 3 - Potential Contestants - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

bluwavz wrote:@Kashathediva I sorry.
 
@sosleepy Amy was a MOT girl on Juan Pablo's season. She was the reporter from Florida who looks a lot like Britt.

Kashathediva wrote:The edit is not their friend. Once edited a certain way, it's hard to shake it. Prime example: Ashley Salter.

Nonina430 wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:The edit is not their friend. Once edited a certain way, it's hard to shake it. Prime example: Ashley Salter.

That is so true, I haven't been around as long as some of you but I've caught on quick. Once 
something is perceived it becomes indelible. Things are not always what they seem. Haha
Tptb magic. 

bluwavz wrote:@Kashathediva I sorry.
 
@sosleepy Amy was a MOT girl on Juan Pablo's season. She was the reporter from Florida who looks a lot like Britt.

hopelessly_devoted wrote:

seton wrote:Sarah H is a trap. That's why she is there. Whoever couples up with her and then dumps the disabled girl on national TV is gonna look like the ultimate heel. In most cases, the dudes would avoid her but since she is there from the beginning, someone will have to side up to her to remain on the show. And then they will be stuck there.

Perhaps you are right, but it hurts my heart to read this. I think Sarah is pretty, smart, and a real sweetheart.  She has maintained a successful career in real life and conducts herself with dignity and sensitivity. I think someone like Jared would be a good match for her and he would be lucky to have her in his life (and vice versa). One of the new guys might be a good match for Sarah too, say Ali or ****

Kashathediva wrote:My feeling if he was a real threat, he would have been dismissed immediately.
He was not.
It was ludicrous seeing those paunchy security guards guarding what--a bunch of sissies. Embarrassing for the men, 2 of whom are ex service men and one a firefighter. Production ploy.
TPTB manipulated the group of men dealing with self confidence issues to be whiney little tattlers who poked and poked the big guy with anger issues. Nagging nagging nagging.
The editing shown was obviously played up to show the worst of Chad, yet imo, it never even looked close to him losing control. The closest it looked like was when he threw the tin mug in the river and he was laffing then.
Why was the door punch left on the cutting floor? Maybe it did not show what we are being led to believe.
During questioning by JoJo,  he seemed totally unaware of what the big deal was most of time.
Words are words. Sometimes they aren't nice.  "I'm going to ______ing kill you."  Etc. We see it with road rage. We see it in long lines. We see it in customer service issues. We see it with politics this year.
All of us, imo, have had words come out of our mouths that did not taste so good seconds after verbalized.  Some of us more often than others.

Kashathediva wrote:If he was a real threat, the network would not risk having him. PERIOD. He would have been removed. And he certainly would not have been allowed back by production as shown next episode or asked back for BIP.

mindless wrote:I'm not saying he came close to attacking anyone. He himself said several times he can't do that because it would get him in trouble, so I doubt the producers were that worried. That said, punching walls so hard your hand bleeds is certainly a sign of some serious anger issues and I definitely wouldn't want to be around someone like that, let alone date someone like that. There's no telling what he's capable of with no camera crew around. It's his mindset that bothers me the most. He said several times that he sees no other way to shut people up than threatening them with violence. I don't care if he never follows through with any of his threats, he's still messed up in the head and it annoys me that they'd put him on a so called dating show, again, just for drama. There is no female out there bad enough to deserve him, except Andi perhaps.