The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - ATFR - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #3

We saw it trying to be compressed under his jeans hugging Lauren in Warsaw. Didn't do much good there either. He's a generous lover. It is what it is. And, it is Lauren's benefit now.

Yeah I remember on the M&G that one of the girls said Kaitlyn told her that Ben has a big....heart.

aviej wrote:Yeah I remember on the M&G that one of the girls said Kaitlyn told her that Ben has a big....heart.

And now we too have confirmation . That Lauren! She now holds Ben's big.........heart

Ben said something after he let JoJo that was something along the lines of this (the same quote that many thought was probably sliced and diced and was said about Lauren instead of JoJo and we now know it wasn't ):

"I'm about to propose to another woman today... And I was confused about that... Because of JoJo.. Because that's how much I love her."

I think that pretty much summed it up for him. He probably always knew he was picking Lauren, but I think those words show how genuine he felt about JoJo. I think he was confused and surprised as to how he could feel like he loved JoJo so much, but also knew at the same time it was going to be Lauren. The season is over so it doesn't really matter anymore IMO, but I just can't doubt how genuinely he seemed to love and care for both women. Sometimes you just can't explain it and you have to do what you feel is best for you. I enjoyed the season.

And now per MF's tweet , Jojo wants what Lauren has. Hope she finds it

ForeverLove wrote:Can we just get a thread for Elan

He has one - Elan Gale

Oops, I'll move it there! Thanks

aviej wrote:Yeah I remember on the M&G that one of the girls said Kaitlyn told her that Ben has a big....heart.

Didn't they have a sumo fight? I'm sure Kaitlyn has seen what's now Lauren's.

ForeverLove wrote:And now per MF's tweet , Jojo wants what Lauren has. Hope she finds it

Yeah she's started filming and her season begins. She's already making out with guys. I hope those that interview Ben and Lauren can stop asking about Jojo. It's exhausting and no longer relevant.

Jojo can find her own Ben because Ben and Lauren are moving on...

SarahD wrote:

ForeverLove wrote:And now per MF's tweet , Jojo wants what Lauren has. Hope she finds it

Yeah she's started filming and her season begins. She's already making out with guys. I hope those that interview Ben and Lauren can stop asking about Jojo. It's exhausting and no longer relevant.

Jojo can find her own Ben because Ben and Lauren are moving on...

True. I also thought here goes Jojo competing against Lauren again Hope Jojo just finds what she needs and is looking for.

I thought just the opposite. I thought it was a commentary saying: You have something good/special/etc and that's what I want from my experience. Then MF is saying he hopes she finds it.