The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Women Tell All -*Sleuthing - Spoilers*

aviej wrote:I thought TPTB ask the leads about the kind of persons they are attracted to and then they try to get some to match the personality/requests of the lead.

Kashathediva wrote:

aviej wrote:I thought TPTB ask the leads about the kind of persons they are attracted to and then they try to get some to match the personality/requests of the lead.

That would be nice and I guess they do do this for about 5 cast. They have pools of cast they keep around and have staff that actually go out searching for prospectives, also. TPTB are more interested in the MOTS who will be interest and ratings to the show.

Rolly wrote:What was the order of the HTD's as shown on TV? I can't find HTD's under episode discussion????

Rolly wrote:What was the order of the HTD's as shown on TV? I can't find HTD's under episode discussion????

peggy0221 wrote:I personally don't think it is the comfortability (or lack of) being on TV that made Lauren looks bland to many, it is the "moves" she made over the course that at least keep me wonder, there is something very off with this girl. And I get that some people are just move reserved than others and they may not be able to open up easily, but I seldom see contestants who changed their whole demeanor in maybe 2 episodes.

Take Leslie M on Sean's Season as the examples. She is reserved, she is uncomfortable in front of TV, let alone to open up to say those magic words. She has been consistent during the whole process, she didn't change suddenly from "being realistic and level-headed" to "being so crazily in love because Sean is the best man".

In Lauren B's case, I see a dramatic change of her. If she really is that confident woman who knows her values and being realistic that people say she is, I think we won't see those "I see a life life with you", "I'm terrifiying by the strong feelings I have for you (raised the voice for many pitches), "I can't see myself living without Ben now" (all paraphrasing). This is why I think she is here to win.

peggy0221 wrote:I guess we just need a few months to figure out whether Lauren is in love or is in it to win it. I get the same vibes as Josh, acts and talks perfectly, then we all know how it turned out.

pander3575 wrote:

peggy0221 wrote:I guess we just need a few months to figure out whether Lauren is in love or is in it to win it. I get the same vibes as Josh, acts and talks perfectly, then we all know how it turned out.

It's always a two way street in any relationship.