The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Women Tell All -*Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Kashathediva wrote:This is my take FWIW and that is nothing.
Ben will end up with Lauren. 
In reality tv basically the only place they are supposed to have privacy is the bathroom. It makes sense yes? I know this because my daughter dated a reality tv editor for 6+ yrs.  He and I had many talks about reality tv. 
The fact this show showed what appeared to be private talk in a bathroom indicates to me, Ben and JoJo thought they had privacy ala Kaitlyn last season and Nick having sex with the Boom outside their room.
The mike recorded their convo. So Ben kept JoJo on the same page as he was on. We don't know at this point if he did the same to Lauren, but IMO, I think he was trying to give JO the heads up.

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Benjamin Higgins ‏@benhiggi  15m15 minutes ago
Benjamin Higgins Retweeted Becca Tilley
You were talking about @chrisbharrison right @beccatilley5?  Benjamin Higgins added,
Becca Tilley @beccatilley5
Ya know..... It happens....

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Fingersandtoes wrote:He did keep JoJo in the loop and didn't blindside her. The loop wasn't very nice, but she was well aware.

Only when she forced it though. He told her he loved her multiple times and it was only when she was crying hysterically on a bathroom floor and straight up asked her that he admitted the truth. To me, that's not really being honest, just being resigned to the fact that the truth will get out so might as well fess to it. IMO.

Exactly!  He was asked and he answered.  He did not volunteer it.  Big difference.  I am going to watch next week and give him the benefit of doubt, maybe he told Lauren too.   Maybe they won't show it, but I bet Lauren asked too.

see2love wrote:Its one thing for him to propose and another for either one of them to say yes! Are they that desperate for a proposal? would have made more sense to reject his proposal and opt to date while he gets his head straight. Who in the real world would accept a proposal from a guy who loves 2women? This season is the pits honestly. Have some respect for yourselves Lauren and Jojo!

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You were talking about @chrisbharrison right @beccatilley5?  Benjamin Higgins added,
Becca Tilley @beccatilley5
Ya know..... It happens....

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soccermom333 wrote:

nothatgirl wrote:

Only when she forced it though. He told her he loved her multiple times and it was only when she was crying hysterically on a bathroom floor and straight up asked her that he admitted the truth. To me, that's not really being honest, just being resigned to the fact that the truth will get out so might as well fess to it. IMO.

Exactly!  He was asked and he answered.  He did not volunteer it.  Big difference.  I am going to watch next week and give him the benefit of doubt, maybe he told Lauren too.   Maybe they won't show it, but I bet Lauren asked too.

The way she asked though, it made me think he had already told her once (perhaps this is what prompted her to run into the bathroom and cry?).  She said "But you love her too" like a statement more than a question.