The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Episode 4 - Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Fingersandtoes wrote:After reading Ben's blog, I have one negative thing to say about him. He's a bit too oblivious. He says he regrets the other ladies seeing him kissing JoJo. But he kissed her right outside the house/hotel they were staying at, with huge windows toward where they were waiting for the helicopter. Of course the other girls would watch them leave. And the girls have seen him kissing others at the mansion, he does it right out there in the open, right? Like the last cocktail party, he kissed everyone he talked with, with all the girls there. Other than that, he's perfect.

LOL I regret eating that extra cookie, or cutting my work out short, but I will do it again I am sure. 
No one is perfect, I doubt anyone wants to be. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8dy6eUako7w

Sweet deleted scene when Emily came home without Haley.

Finally watched Monday's episode!

This season is kind of boring me! Usually, I watch the episode right away but I kind of had to force myself to watch it this week. I feel like we don't really have any funny and witty contestants this season. Even the "villain", Olivia, just seems like a pale imitation of past villains. She's more socially awkward than anything else. All the other girls (except Jubilee) kind of blur together to me.

Nothing really important in this episode happened, but I think what's surprising me is that not a lot of girls seem like they're into Ben romantically! Seems like the friend-zoning is going both ways. Despite what Becca is saying, I felt like she had more chemistry with Chris and she doesn't really seem smitten at all with Ben. With Caila and Jojo, both do seem to have a a lot of physical chemistry with him, but it doesn't seem there's anything else there. The only ones who really seem to like him are Lauren, Olivia, and maybe Jubilee. JMO.

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Ben looks so sweet here! :cutesmile!:

theyearofelan The Bachelor takes Las Vegas.

Aww. IA he does!

chrisbharrison in #LasVegas the tables are turned and @higgins.ben gives me a shoulder to cry on #TheBachelor

chrisbharrison Incredible night on #BachelorLive @higgins.ben @aw @michcoll never know what you'll get

beccatilley Ben- why you so pale? Back off @theyearofelan --- (also, dress is @showmeyourmumu)  #thebachelor

Anyone see the deleted scene where Emily talks to Olivia, Olivia says Em is immature because she doesn't eat vegetables and Emily says the "olivia has such bad breath line" http://abc.go.com/shows/the-bachelor/video/most-recent/VDKA0_dgq9bah8

They're actually both immature though.

I just don't know what it is but the season thus far is ho-hum. Usually I have a couple faves early on, and I have yet to find one. Ben to me is trying to act "too perfect." I hope it gets better.

rosesrREd wrote:I just don't know what it is but the season thus far is ho-hum. Usually I have a couple faves early on, and I have yet to find one.   Ben to me is trying to act "too perfect." I hope it gets better.

Agreed on both counts! I do like Ben a lot more than I did during Kaitlyn's season, but I still find him to overly image-conscious and vanilla. And, I'm not really a fan of any of the girls either! Just feels like a really bland cast. Next week looks a little bit more interesting though.