Re: The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Episode 4 - Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

by **Sprite** Tue Jan 26, 2016 4:01 am

AllAboutLove wrote:
Sprite wrote:
AllAboutLove wrote:Ben said that Becca is "perfect in every way". Sorry but I don't see Ben just saying those words for the heck of it and it solidified for me what Kasha had posted that Ben never knew Becca was coming on the show and didn't say not to.

All that solidified for me was that she is perfect...on paper...and deeply in the friend zone.

I found their date rather awkward. It was as if a grown up was talking with a teenager about life and love. Becca trying to be sexy...awkward. Pulling Ben in and acting like the sex panther, quite a bit different that last season when it was a big deal she was holding CS's hand.
I agree about it being perfect on paper. My point was that I don't see Ben making that remark about someone he "supposedly"
personally told not to come on a show.

I could. He is just very polite and seems to know what is expected of him. Doesn't really matter, either way...he was just not into her. Thank goodness, because I don't want to see any more of Becca trying so hard to be sexy and showing me how hard it is for her to stop herself from jumping a man's bones.

by AllAboutLove Tue Jan 26, 2016 4:02 am

I see him as polite, etc, but that is going waaay beyond the bounds of politness, imo.

But IA, it really doesn't matter the only one he is actually into is Lauren B.

Everyone else is friendzone or just there to make out with, imo. :yes:

by Maddy Tue Jan 26, 2016 5:01 am

Claire Fallon ‏@ClaireEFallon  Brooklyn, NY
lauren: "that could be my last first date ever!"
ben: "whoa."
lauren: "yeah."
ben: "not mine though."

#TheBachelor

giggling

by Maddy Tue Jan 26, 2016 5:07 am

Jennifer Mendelsohn ‏@CleverTitleTK
Ben wants to ask Becca the big questions: "Can she love?"
"Can she feel?"
"Can she commit?"
"Does oral count?" #TheBachelor

Suspect

by Maddy Tue Jan 26, 2016 5:09 am

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Jill Biden ‏@JillBidenVeep
The twins have twin dogs because of course they do. #TheBachelor

by Maddy Tue Jan 26, 2016 5:26 am

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Chris Rackliffe ‏@crackliffe
So, this is basically a hometown date? #TheBachelor

by dandelioninspring Tue Jan 26, 2016 5:50 am

I thought Ben and Lauren H were cute... but man Lauren B and Ben are on another level. And they got the tell tale (at least in Bach/Bette AUS) this girl is the frontrunner music.

by AllAboutLove Tue Jan 26, 2016 6:13 am

I thought Lauren H and Ben were awkward. Especially kissing the puppet. Cringe.

by Seabear Tue Jan 26, 2016 7:22 am

I wish I could unsee the slow close up of Ben and Becca's wet sloppy kisses. And the slow motion Cherry teasing between Ben and Becca on the After Show. :shocked!: :shocked!:

by limoncello Tue Jan 26, 2016 7:23 am

rhondam wrote:Just caught up.....

- They cut soooo much out of JoJo's date. Why??

- Think Olivia is really insecure despite saying she is confident in every ITM. Also think she needs medication and/or a diagnosis. Am definitely sick of her, I think 3/4 of the episode was spent on her sh!t. At the same time I feel sorry for her because I don't see how she is going to recover from this unless she moves to another country.

- Yes Ben seemed tipsy at group date after party. So did Lauren B, Olivia and Lauren H and Amber of course.

- This episode was extremely chopped up and half hazardly put together. It's as if they didn't even care that it was an obvious hack job. Also lots of pickups—Lauren in a completely different dress, Emily with different earrings, Lauren H with different earrings, and more.

Ben actually said Caila is a sex panther the night of the rose ceremony and not the group date after party.

- Ben said to Becca that he was concerned that she was in love with Chris a year ago but now she's there with him. He almost scoffed, you were in the final two! They were awkward. I can see why she doesn't get anymore single dates.

- Jubilee was sullen or perhaps bored in every shot except two.

- Lauren wore tiny Amanda's dress to the rose ceremony that she wore the week before.

Lauren wore Amanda's and Amanda wore Lauren's yellow dress on the group date Embarressed!

they are too cute

by AllAboutLove Tue Jan 26, 2016 8:23 am

CH's blog about Ep 4

Chris Harrison Blogs 'The Bachelor' Episode 4
January 25, 2016
https://www.yahoo.com/tv/chris-harrison-blogs-39-the-bachelor-1351098324672566.html

by Cocoasneeze Tue Jan 26, 2016 8:34 am

I've been wondering if Ben (or previous bach/ettes)have a lot of time to spend with their girls/guys?! I just assumed that 1-on-1 pretty much means the whole day, but JoJo's date didn't seem like that long. And do they just hang out in the mansion, and if not, what does the bach/ette do when not with the contestants? How much time does the F1 get to spend with the lead?

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