The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Episode 4 - Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

I really like the twins the more we actually see them.

OMG...the bidet discussion.

I finally finished the show. They really cut a lot out of Jojo's date, didn't they? I don't mind her voice. Mine is like that a lot with my allergies. Ben does have chemistry with her. Did you see him when the fireworks were going on?

The GD was so cringeworthy with all the Olivia stuff. She really got on my nerves tonight. I think it was the beginning of the end with Ben. I thought the other girls did pretty well but we barely time to see anything because of the Olivia show.

There's definitely something special between Ben & Lauren. She's really telling him how she's feeling already and I liked how he quickly asked her if she meant it when she said she missed him.

There's also a lot of chemistry with Caila. I'm still really liking her and think she's got to be the top contender for the next lead.

Becca's date was fine although I really don't like the wedding themed dates. I didn't think it was good when she said she didn't care much when she was that far in CS' season. Not nice and not sure what Ben thought about it.

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Another episode where Becca is getting a ton of love/support on social media. I believe more than any other contestant not named Lauren B.

The Skype guys watching Bachelor in Toronto...and chanting Haylee.

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I am 23 pages behind, but I want to see this, with Lauren B on the receiving end of that smile!!

Yeah! I can't wait to see Ben in a suit proposing to Lauren  my favorite part of today's episode was the greeting hug with her during their talk on the gd, dude looked like a man dying of thirst just given an ice cold Coke. Holla!

I think Ben's final 3 were his true top 3 girls.....from beginning to end.

I just couldn't wait for the Olivia show to stop.

Loved seeing every moment with Ben and Lauren B!

Ben is so after Lauren it's sweet.  He's like a love sick puppy. He's already trying to tell her (without actually telling her) how into her he is and his feelings and not to worry.  No way he'll be able to hold it in until the FRC, IMO.

I love Caila and would love a season of her, so sweet and adorable and can be sexy too.  

I actually really love Jojo too.  She's def giving me a bit of a bitchy vibe, but she's really no nonsense and reacts like such a real person.  Ben's attraction to her is real for sure.  They are pretty hot together.

Poor Becca seems to be trying to be more open, kiss more etc but it was obvious Ben's not into her despite her efforts.  I really disliked her comparing her feelings to last year.  So everything last season she said was a lie/leading Chris on? Or is she lying now?  Both?  All I really know is she is "really excited" because that seems to be the only way she can describe anything, it seemed like 20 times just this ep. Honestly, every time someone returns they loose the likability of the first time for me.  It just never comes off well.  I wish people I enjoyed wouldn't do it.  There's what BIP is for. Jmo.

DebutAlbum wrote:Another episode where Becca is getting a ton of love/support on social media. I believe more than any other contestant not named Lauren B.

Well she is a sweetheart!

After their discussion on the 1-on-1 I get why he's sort of wary of her. I don't think it's because he told her not to come or anything, he just doesn't really believe she'll be able to fall in love after how last season went. I think it's kind of silly, because people aren't interchangeable and just because she didn't fall for boring Chris, doesn't mean she won't fall for charming Ben, but I do get it. It's probably his worst nightmare, falling for someone who doesn't feel the same way, so Becca started at a disadvantage. And I doubt he's thrilled about the idea of having to wait until marriage either. Not that it matters though, since Lauren is the one he's into. The rest are a mere distraction.