Caila Quinn - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #2

eversotrue wrote:

Duke702 wrote:That clip still makes me think she is so immature. Sounds kind of cocky to me , full of herself, "like I'm special I got spoiled" now I have to be on a group date, poor me. Like she thinks she is too special to be on a group date. Let me stand out by just "going in" and making out with him. Throwing herself at him. If he liked her so much, HE would go in for the kiss, as with Lauren/JoJo/AManda. Do not like.

He DID go in for the kiss. He was already leaning into her before she even got anywhere near his mouth..

bostonugirl92 wrote:

eversotrue wrote:

Duke702 wrote:That clip still makes me think she is so immature. Sounds kind of cocky to me , full of herself, "like I'm special I got spoiled" now I have to be on a group date, poor me. Like she thinks she is too special to be on a group date. Let me stand out by just "going in" and making out with him. Throwing herself at him. If he liked her so much, HE would go in for the kiss, as with Lauren/JoJo/AManda. Do not like.

He DID go in for the kiss. He was already leaning into her before she even got anywhere near his mouth..

In the clip after Caila puts her legs over Ben's, she puts her arms around him and clearly says, "I'm just going to go in for it." She instigated the kiss. Ben might have enjoyed it, but Caila clearly was the aggressive one.

AmyB wrote:

eversotrue wrote:She obviously has more to offer than her looks.. **edited** I really hope she's the ETTE, at this point, **edited**

I wasn't even rooting for her to be the next lead at first, but then I felt protective over her because I thought the criticism directed towards her for doing the exact same things that dozens of fellow contestants have done (with half the condemnation!) was unfair, and now I'll be disappointed if it's not her.

AmyB wrote:

eversotrue wrote:She obviously has more to offer than her looks.. **edited**[b] I really hope she's the ETTE, at this point, **edited**

I wasn't even rooting for her to be the next lead at first, but then I felt protective over her because I thought the criticism directed towards her for doing the exact same things that dozens of fellow contestants have done (with half the condemnation!) was unfair, and now I'll be disappointed if it's not her.

eversotrue wrote:#SaveCaila #CailaforETTE

mindless wrote:Caila jumping Ben the moment they sat down wasn't editing, it was how it happened. And she's the one who talked about wanting to stand out in the group. I get where she's coming from, since I, like most young women, have gone through that phase of thinking "sexy" is what guys want. Now I just see it as immature. Obviously a single guy won't be opposed to making out with a gorgeous female, but that's got little to do with falling in love. All these women are willing to kiss Ben and probably even jump into bed with him (with the exception of Becca for the time being), so that is not much a selling point. Ben seemed more amused than anything to me in that ITM afterwards. The first part about how on their first date he wanted there to be passion there, was clearly recorded at a different time. What he said after that about how she looks so sweet and innocent and then turned into a "sex panther" when they were alone had an amused tone to it. I don't think he can take her passion very seriously either. Just how I saw it.

I'm not saying Caila is a bad person in any way, I just think she has a few years of growing up to do before she should be looking for a mate for life. She could use some time being single IMO.

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mindless wrote:

eversotrue wrote:She obviously has more to offer than her looks.. **edited**I really hope she's the ETTE, at this point, **edited**

I'm sure she does, but I've yet to see it, since it's not what she's leading with. I judge ALL of the women who think the way to "stand out" is by jumping the lead. It's desperate and not the way to get attention from a man who you want to fall in love with you. A nice conversation would be much more effective, but that requires some self-confidence and personality. Caila is just young and clearly used to men falling at her feet because she's pretty. Now she's surrounded by other pretty women, so she needs to find some other way to stand out. I'm not impressed by the way she chose to go about it, but to each their own of course.