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Tanner Tolbert - Jade Roper - Bachelor In Paradise Season 2 - Discussion
by GuardianAngel Tue Jan 12, 2016 1:30 pm
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Re: Tanner Tolbert - Jade Roper - Bachelor In Paradise Season 2 - Discussion
by Alanna Tue Jan 12, 2016 1:31 pm
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Re: Tanner Tolbert - Jade Roper - Bachelor In Paradise Season 2 - Discussion
by GuardianAngel Tue Jan 12, 2016 1:31 pm
Luvstruck wrote:Rolly wrote:Maybe this has been said already but I wonder if the wedding date was set by TPTB and they went with it to get the wedding televised and paid for. It would be hard to pass up someone paying for the wedding.
Has me wondering the same. Why announce it will be in a few weeks and televised? Maybe they are trying to throw off the paparazzi.... The news they bought property and are building a house probably means they already got the money or at least a portion of it. How much do you think ABC compensates the Rose Bowl parade float riders o0r do they??? Otherwise Tanner already has a perfectly acceptable home so why rush it.
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Re: Tanner Tolbert - Jade Roper - Bachelor In Paradise Season 2 - Discussion
by GuardianAngel Tue Jan 12, 2016 1:32 pm
Beach Lover wrote:They are getting married in just a few weeks AND they are building a house? That's really tacklng a lot very quickly! Makes me wonder if there may be a bun in the oven but I know I shouldn't assume that.
Very happy for them though!
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Re: Tanner Tolbert - Jade Roper - Bachelor In Paradise Season 2 - Discussion
by GuardianAngel Tue Jan 12, 2016 1:33 pm
nothatgirl wrote:SafronSahara wrote:Just because you met through the Bachelor pool doesn't mean Chris Harrison has to officiate the ceremony. It was sweet when Chris did it for Ashley and J.P. because some sort of real relationship was formed. I can't say the same for these two. I'm over it.
I agree. I honestly don't like it when he did it for any of the couples as I just feel like it's a "TV WEDDING!", not a real, private ceremony. No one would have him do it IRL. I guess it's worth it for the $$$, but still. I still really like them, but not as much as I did during BIP. *edited
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Re: Tanner Tolbert - Jade Roper - Bachelor In Paradise Season 2 - Discussion
by GuardianAngel Tue Jan 12, 2016 1:36 pm
Luvstruck wrote:Rolly wrote:Maybe this has been said already but I wonder if the wedding date was set by TPTB and they went with it to get the wedding televised and paid for. It would be hard to pass up someone paying for the wedding.
Has me wondering the same. Why announce it will be in a few weeks and televised? Maybe they are trying to throw off the paparazzi.... The news they bought property and are building a house probably means they already got the money or at least a portion of it. How much do you think ABC compensates the Rose Bowl parade float riders o0r do they??? Otherwise Tanner already has a perfectly acceptable home so why rush it.
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Re: Tanner Tolbert - Jade Roper - Bachelor In Paradise Season 2 - Discussion
by sbolduc Tue Jan 12, 2016 1:59 pm
I think building the home situation was more a timing thing that it happened so close to the announcement. Jade tweeted on Oct 15 that they were starting to look at homes. Then they snap chatted looking at some in Oct/Nov timeframe. Also by then saying they are building the house they literally just put a deposit down so I suspect they will be building in the coming year or so. Tanner already owns their house so they had equity.
I suspect they will be able to build their house with the money they have from tanners house and the payment from ABC.
I am a fan of them but agree it seems quick. However there are many relationships that have known each other less time and had a successful marriage and those who knew each other much more time with an unsuccessful marriage.
I am happy for them that they are happy!!
All IMO
I suspect they will be able to build their house with the money they have from tanners house and the payment from ABC.
I am a fan of them but agree it seems quick. However there are many relationships that have known each other less time and had a successful marriage and those who knew each other much more time with an unsuccessful marriage.
I am happy for them that they are happy!!
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Re: Tanner Tolbert - Jade Roper - Bachelor In Paradise Season 2 - Discussion
by bleuberry Tue Jan 12, 2016 2:22 pm
I started off loving these two, right now I'd say I'm in like 
I mean, they're cute and adorable and sweet together - but all of these money grabs in quick succession cheapens them a little for me. Ugh I'm torn. They plugged their wedding website on IG but it's (understandably) blank, except of course their gift registries. 
I get that weddings are expensive and nobody wants to pay for one if another party is offering, but I really hope it isn't tacky like the last BiP one. Makes me wonder what kind of deal they offered Des and Chris, and if they were just like 'thanks, but no thanks.'
I mean, they're cute and adorable and sweet together - but all of these money grabs in quick succession cheapens them a little for me. Ugh I'm torn.
They plugged their wedding website on IG but it's (understandably) blank, except of course their gift registries. I get that weddings are expensive and nobody wants to pay for one if another party is offering, but I really hope it isn't tacky like the last BiP one. Makes me wonder what kind of deal they offered Des and Chris, and if they were just like 'thanks, but no thanks.'
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Re: Tanner Tolbert - Jade Roper - Bachelor In Paradise Season 2 - Discussion
by stuckinsc Tue Jan 12, 2016 2:28 pm
I don't have a problem with them getting married this quick. Jade gave up LA to move to KC with Tanner. She has been there a while now, so they know that she is okay giving that up to be with him.
Some said why not wait like Des and Chris. Well this is about when Des and Chris had their engagement party, after which the timing of the wedding seemed delayed a bit because of waiting to hear if ABC would air it or not. Also increase time needed for Des to line up everything herself and honestly find the best sponsorships, etc.
Jade and Tanner spend 24/7 together in Paradise, so three full weeks, unlike most mothership couples that spent a total of one week together while filming. Jade then quickly moved to Tanner after the airing of BiP, during which time they were still seeing each other quite openly. They have spent a lot of time together, Jade gave up the LA dream to move to Tanner and seems very happy with the choice, just like Des was, and they seem to be financially stable.
If they know they want to marry, have been together with no problems since June, have successfully managed one person moving for the other and still are happy and perhaps are thinking they want to start a family, then why not marry? In addition ABC is willing to pay for everything and do the planning, so they get more money and don't have to have all the worry.
Personally, I say good for them. ABC has certainly used them to promote the success of their show, so why shouldn't they let ABC pay?
Comparisons to Kaitlyn and Shawn are not valid at all to me. K&S are living in someone else's home, only one of them has even started to have a job and seem at best to still be figuring out what and where they want life to be. I am impressed that Kaitlyn and Shawn still seem to be going strong, and also that they aren't rushing into marriage while their lives seem unstable. But Jade and Tanner are very stable, so why should one couples situation be used to judge another's?
The two couples couldn't be more different IMO, and I am impressed with the reasonable decisions on moving forward that they both seem to be making. JMO.
Some said why not wait like Des and Chris. Well this is about when Des and Chris had their engagement party, after which the timing of the wedding seemed delayed a bit because of waiting to hear if ABC would air it or not. Also increase time needed for Des to line up everything herself and honestly find the best sponsorships, etc.
Jade and Tanner spend 24/7 together in Paradise, so three full weeks, unlike most mothership couples that spent a total of one week together while filming. Jade then quickly moved to Tanner after the airing of BiP, during which time they were still seeing each other quite openly. They have spent a lot of time together, Jade gave up the LA dream to move to Tanner and seems very happy with the choice, just like Des was, and they seem to be financially stable.
If they know they want to marry, have been together with no problems since June, have successfully managed one person moving for the other and still are happy and perhaps are thinking they want to start a family, then why not marry? In addition ABC is willing to pay for everything and do the planning, so they get more money and don't have to have all the worry.
Personally, I say good for them. ABC has certainly used them to promote the success of their show, so why shouldn't they let ABC pay?
Comparisons to Kaitlyn and Shawn are not valid at all to me. K&S are living in someone else's home, only one of them has even started to have a job and seem at best to still be figuring out what and where they want life to be. I am impressed that Kaitlyn and Shawn still seem to be going strong, and also that they aren't rushing into marriage while their lives seem unstable. But Jade and Tanner are very stable, so why should one couples situation be used to judge another's?
The two couples couldn't be more different IMO, and I am impressed with the reasonable decisions on moving forward that they both seem to be making. JMO.
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Re: Tanner Tolbert - Jade Roper - Bachelor In Paradise Season 2 - Discussion
by lovebites8727 Tue Jan 12, 2016 2:31 pm
How long they have been engaged? I don't think jumping to a wedding right away after engaged for a short time is a big deal.Now a days a lot of people are doing that.People eloped too .That is pretty normal now a days.They seem really ready for everything and happy ever since.Plus I noticed since they got engaged jade is excited to do the wedding planning . Her Twitter bio shows so much about becoming a Mrs Tolbert . And she never stop talking about their future together . To me it shows how serious and ready she is . I think jade found a great guy like tanner since we knew how her past was and they seem happy since they got engaged. If they felt they want to get married this quick . Then do it. They are ready and prepare . I don't think anything is wrong.
.That is pretty normal now a days.They seem really ready for everything and happy ever since.Plus I noticed since they got engaged jade is excited to do the wedding planning . Her Twitter bio shows so much about becoming a Mrs Tolbert . And she never stop talking about their future together . To me it shows how serious and ready she is . I think jade found a great guy like tanner since we knew how her past was and they seem happy since they got engaged. If they felt they want to get married this quick . Then do it. They are ready and prepare . I don't think anything is wrong.
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Re: Tanner Tolbert - Jade Roper - Bachelor In Paradise Season 2 - Discussion
by lipsis Tue Jan 12, 2016 2:34 pm
Maybe it's as simple as ABC or Bachelor production said we can give you this much time during this show (possibly WTA or Benji Tell All) so we've got to get this filmed soon. Take it or leave it. I mean, if you are planning to get married, who wouldn't want a free wedding and all that goes with it?
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Re: Tanner Tolbert - Jade Roper - Bachelor In Paradise Season 2 - Discussion
by bleuberry Tue Jan 12, 2016 2:34 pm
Well the Bettes historically waited longer just because of timing of their season. Des and Ash H were engaged for 19-20 months before the wedding. So even an ABC wedding for Des and Chris would've taken about that long I think. Who knows, they may have jumped at the chance had it been provided earlier.
I'm more worried about how ABC handles their wedding vs getting married so quickly. How quickly is it anyway? 7 months? When did Tanner propose?
I'm more worried about how ABC handles their wedding vs getting married so quickly. How quickly is it anyway? 7 months? When did Tanner propose?
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