Becca Tilly - Bachelor 20 - #3 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

BlackHalo wrote:I don't think Becca is some terrible person for (allegedly) standing Jared up to come on Ben's season. I'm saying that Jared, JJ, and Tanner are justified in disliking her because of it.

Yeah I don't see them being justified in disliking her for that reason, especially because of this Bachelor world they are all a part of. It's immature, imo, especially with this show and Jared himself on BIP with all different girls etc. This franchise is an incest-pool so I don't get the whole disliking Becca for being interested in someone else when Jared was like that on BIP.

AllAboutLove wrote:

BlackHalo wrote:I don't think Becca is some terrible person for (allegedly) standing Jared up to come on Ben's season. I'm saying that Jared, JJ, and Tanner are justified in disliking her because of it.

Yeah I don't see them being justified in disliking her for that reason. It's immature, imo, especially with this show and Jared himself on BIP with all different girls etc. This franchise is an incest-pool so I don't get the whole disliking Becca for being interested in someone else. Jared was like that on BIP.

Sticking up for your friends is a way of life. If a guy ditched one of my girlfriends to pursue another one of my girlfriends instead, I'd shade him too.

BlackHalo wrote:

AllAboutLove wrote:

BlackHalo wrote:I don't think Becca is some terrible person for (allegedly) standing Jared up to come on Ben's season. I'm saying that Jared, JJ, and Tanner are justified in disliking her because of it.

Yeah I don't see them being justified in disliking her for that reason. It's immature, imo, especially with this show and Jared himself on BIP with all different girls etc. This franchise is an incest-pool so I don't get the whole disliking Becca for being interested in someone else. Jared was like that on BIP.

Sticking up for your friends is a way of life. If a guy ditched one of my girlfriends to pursue another one of my girlfriends instead, I'd shade him too.

In the read world, yeah. But when it comes to Bachelor Nation alums who are dating each other back and forth like musical chairs? Um, not so much.

DebutAlbum wrote:

eversotrue wrote:Well, for anyone that is interested, Becca is hanging out with Robert today.

They're just friends and won't be anything more, from what I've been told from people that would know. From what I've read about him in multiple places (including on here), it wouldn't surprise me if he's trying to get some background on some of the girls to see whose pants he can get in.

I would think that Ben would be a better source for that information than Becca.  

So hanging out with Ashley I & Lavaboy, now out with Bach Nation hanger-on Robert. Yep, that Becca is really searching for an average looking, humble, faith centered man to settle down with. It actually looks more like she's happily doing the backstroke in this incest-pool.

The Jared situation may be one of many reasons they dislike her. There could be a lot more to this than we know. If it is only because of Jared then they are allowed to feel that way even if it's not rational or a double standard. Jared is their friend and so is Ben. People aren't as logical when it comes to people they like and are friends with. It may not be fair but Becca chose her actions and she can deal with the consequences. Not everyone has to like her. For me personally I find it refreshing that someone from this show is going against the majority and not buying what she is selling even if it means that particular person is being a hypocrite.

I think they're allowed to dislike her if they wish, but that doesn't make it any less hypocritical. I also think throwing such strong shade her way is pretty cruel, because I'm sure they know the rumours are out there and people will start speculating even more since it's coming from members of the "family". I'd respect them more if they spelled out what it is that bothers them rather than dot dot dot's. They haven't even met her, so whatever they "know" is just gossip, not dissimilar to what we're basing our opinions on. Just no one puts much stock in what we think.

mindless wrote:I think they're allowed to dislike her if they wish, but that doesn't make it any less hypocritical. I also think throwing such strong shade her way is pretty cruel, because I'm sure they know the rumours are out there and people will start speculating even more since it's coming from members of the "family". I'd respect them more if they spelled out what it is that bothers them rather than dot dot dot's. They haven't even met her, so whatever they "know" is just gossip, not dissimilar to what we're basing our opinions on. Just no one puts much stock in what we think.

It's all rubbish, imo, and also unbecoming of true gentlemen to use their SM like that.
It's why Ben is a gentleman. He would never stoop to that level and use his SM for such attention grabbing hypocrisy.

Perhaps Becca should act like a lady if she wants men to act like a gentleman towards her.

Ben has his faults too and I'm sure he's not a gentlemen all the time either. He's the Bachelor so he has to act a certain way. Who knows how he actually feels.

IMO, you don't jump from guy to guy (or girl to girl) in a group of friends and expect them not to say anything. Maybe it is immature but Becca should have seen it coming.

Mindless, do you know for sure none of these guys have ever met Becca?

BlackHalo wrote:IMO, you don't jump from guy to guy (or girl to girl) in a group of friends and expect them not to say anything. Maybe it is immature but Becca should have seen it coming.

It's all hearsay.
Anyway, considering who the guys are, I wouldn't expect Becca to be their type anyway, regardless of the rumors, so it really doesn't matter to me what a bunch of grown (????????) men tweet shade about a woman. Tacky and classless, imo. Good for Ben that he would never do that. Too bad Ben can't rub off on those guys. They could learn a thing or two from him.

AllAboutLove wrote:

BlackHalo wrote:IMO, you don't jump from guy to guy (or girl to girl) in a group of friends and expect them not to say anything. Maybe it is immature but Becca should have seen it coming.

It's all hearsay.
Anyway, considering who the guys are, I wouldn't expect Becca to be their type anyway, regardless of the rumors, so it really doesn't matter to me what a bunch of grown (????????) men tweet shade about a woman. Tacky and classless, imo. Good for Ben that he would never do that. Too bad Ben can't rub off on those guys. They could learn a thing or two from him.  

Well they've tweeted some shade at the other women as well (which nobody seems to care about) but whatever. It's not just exclusive to Becca.