Josh Murray - Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #9

JMOAA but honesty and trust are the fundamental structure in any relationship. Without those things or a breach of those things, can make the whole relationship tumble or never stand firmly at all.

@Kash that is why her future employment is in peril right about now because no one will want to hire someone who cant keep their mouth shut.

I don't know what show the Murrays were watching but to me it was clear she was unhinged after she castrated #1. Then she did it again to Eric and #25 if anyone needed further convincing. There was no reason for me to think #26 was going to be spared. Seriously how many here were saying back then that these two would eventually butt heads? Two dominant people together just isn't a good idea in most cases. With that said, I am very sorry for the Murrays. This is all so yucky.

All JMO.

Joshswife wrote:I'm sorry but she waited until after they were engaged to tell him about Nick and then wondered why he couldn't get over it? Didn't she say at the ATFR that they talked about everything that night in the suite implying that she told him. Josh has every right to be mad, he probably thought she was his one and only and that she felt the same way which she obviously didn't if she slept with nick

I think the fact that she lied to Josh about sleeping with Nick after they got engaged is what hurt, and pissed off Josh the most. Maybe he asked her on their FD and she said no, fearing Josh would not propose, she shot herself in the foot and they never recovered, imo

reason wrote:@Kash that is why her future employment is in peril right about now because no one will want to hire someone who cant keep their mouth shut.

Or someone showing a lack of common sense or consequences from writing a nasty tell-all book, with details about her sexual encounters.

I think she had every right as The Bachelorette to sleep with #25. That's what both she and #26 signed up for. He was in no place - as a contestant- to demand she not or to call her a whore over it. That's just yuck. If he can't handle it, well, there is the door. That being said, why on God's green earth did she lie about it? Andi, you are on film. What a dumba$$ move. The minute she lied, they were doomed. And THAT Josh had every right to be angry and upset about, not that she actually explored a relationship with #25. Lots of leads have feelings for/do things with other contestants. Des, Kaitlyn and Ben are 3 recent leads who all understood and knew that they had to be brutally honest from the ready. And what do you know? All of their respective F1's were, as a result, able to trust and move on. Stupid Andi. Dumb move.

I certainly don't think he was completely innocent in the relationship or break up.  It takes two to make and break a relationship, but IMO, I think he did the heavy lifting and made the most sacrifices, from what we were shown.  I don't know if he aired dirty laundry as well on famously single, but if he'll keep his mouth shut and take the high road, he'll come out of this looking better than she does, IMO.  Same with the other guys.  I hope they all choose not to acknowledge her or the book.  JMOAA.

Josh favorited this tweet to him ~

Eviehearts ‏@Eviehearts 46 minutes ago
@jmurbulldog should write his own "tell-all" book to share his side but I suspect he's not that kind of guy. #teamjosh

Maybe not a tell-all book writing guy but he's the type of guy that dates tweens, favs passive aggressive ish on Twitter, subtweets like it's going out of style, oh and let's not forget the continuing reality shows. Not ready to give him any medals quite yet personally.

He can do what he wants, as long as I don't have to hear or read about it.

He best leave cray zee to speak for itself. He is better off continuing to take the high road. 
Lying is something children who don't think they will get caught or are too young to know better do. Once you get past childhood, lying over something like this is pathological, imo. How in the world do you repair a lie like that?

Alanna wrote:Maybe not a tell-all book writing guy but he's the type of guy that dates tweens, favs passive aggressive ish on Twitter, subtweets like it's going out of style, oh and let's not forget the continuing reality shows. Not ready to give him any medals quite yet personally.

Well it's all ok to me, except if he starts telling us how he "got it up"  or MeAndi likes backward cowgirl or something wild