Josh Murray - Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #9

I'm sorry but she waited until after they were engaged to tell him about Nick and then wondered why he couldn't get over it? Didn't she say at the ATFR that they talked about everything that night in the suite implying that she told him. Josh has every right to be mad, he probably thought she was his one and only and that she felt the same way which she obviously didn't if she slept with nick

slightly OT this whole sleeping with multiple people on the FS (and in Kaitlyns unique case even before) is disgusting. How can you do that and still get engaged 2 days later ?

nd4reality wrote:slightly OT this whole sleeping with multiple people on the FS (and in Kaitlyns unique case even before) is disgusting. How can you do that and still get engaged 2 days later ?

Not to defend, but the timing actually 5-7 days, with MTP and LCD inbetween. Still hard to comprehend but I suspect there is a lot of pressure from TPTB to "consummate" lest F2 figure out he/she is not F1.

Wait - she told him about Nick when? Before the FS aired or before the ATFR?

I mean Josh's alpha male essence is so strong and potent (no pun intended), it didn't take a genius to figure out he'd flip if "his woman" had sex with someone else. No surprises here to me.

bleuberry wrote:Wait - she told him about Nick when? Before the FS aired or before the ATFR?

Before the FS episode aired according to the article in US Magazine, but she lied to him when he asked about a month after they got engaged.

eirekay wrote:

nd4reality wrote:slightly OT this whole sleeping with multiple people on the FS (and in Kaitlyns unique case even before) is disgusting. How can you do that and still get engaged 2 days later ?

Not to defend, but the timing actually 5-7 days, with MTP and LCD inbetween.  Still hard to comprehend but I suspect there is a lot of pressure from TPTB to "consummate" lest F2 figure out he/she is not F1.

2 days 7 days, sleeping with multiple people when about to be engaged is disgusting on this show. Plus the leads "claiming" to be in love with multiple people on one hand and then going around saying that their F1 was "it" for them out the limo is a blatant lie.

Now back to the discussion at hand. Sorry for the OT.

Yes I feel for Josh that she lied but when he said that he would have ended it long before Jan 2015 why did he apologize to her after their fight in NYC & keep their relationship going until then? (US Weekly article excerpt)

eirekay wrote:

bleuberry wrote:Wait - she told him about Nick when? Before the FS aired or before the ATFR?

Before the FS episode aired according to the article in US Magazine, but she lied to him when he asked about a month after they got engaged.

My guess is this lying is what bothered him the most. He probably assumed it happed but then she lied and said it didn't. Had she just came clean I don't think it would have been as big a deal to Josh (I am sure would still bother him some). Waiting until right before it aired is just bad.

I don't necessarily think Andi's a whore but she's definitely a bitch, and if Josh had two functioning brain cells he would have figured that out after watching approximately five minutes of JPabs's season. It's not like she tried to hide it. Why Josh's mother thought such a ball-buster would be perfect for him is beyond me (does she not know him at all??), but she sent him to Los Angeles on a mission to win Andi, and they chose to spin her personality as "strong" and "feisty." But strong and feisty wasn't so cute when it was directed at Josh and not JPabs, and suddenly they're crying foul and acting all surprised that she turned out to be exactly who she always was?

Yeah, this one's all on you, Murrays.

Great post/point Eagle. The whole thing is like
:shocked!:

Just what a nightmare mess that Josh/family thought this would be a good idea.

Linds911 wrote:Yes I feel for Josh that she lied but when he said that he would have ended it long before Jan 2015 why did he apologize to her after their fight in NYC & keep their relationship going until then? (US Weekly article excerpt)

Wasn't the Kleinfelders NY trip in September? Or was that the Decker party? 

I think Josh had his own stupid pride. He was only going to say ILY one more time and only get engaged once. He gave it a huge effort, including ignoring his family for her. They both acted stupidly, key difference Andi is telling all and Josh has not (if he does on Famously Single then I will take it all back). Added the hypocrisy of her telling Nick asking the question was wrong, yeah writing about all this is wrong. 

I think MM thought Andi was a strong ATL woman and she and Josh would be Atlanta Housewife royalty. I like the Murrays, but I think MM pushed both Aaron and Josh to get into relationships with the wrong women a little too hard. She seems to have learned, Stephanie's BC has seemed to disappear without drama or mess. 

I do blame Andi for the bulk of their issues, if you can't be honest, then you should leave the situation. Josh was a brute about a lot of things after the show, but I think he was trying his very best to keep his promise while slowly going a little crazy never knowing what was lies and what was the truth. JMO.