The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Social Media - Vids - Media - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - #2

mindless wrote:I know it's none of my business and I don't wish to speculate on it, but I must admit I'm curious about the reason Amanda's marriage fell apart so fast. From what I've seen the ex seems to really have his sh*t together and it doesn't seem like he's got anything to hide either.

There was some possible "stuff" posted (then deleted) in her thread. And it was implied by his friends. Then Amanda's friends implied some stuff. What ever the case, he seems shameless.

He looks like a very involved and proud father. I do wonder what is going through his head as amanda could come out of this with a new fiance and his girls a new stepfather. Her friends are almost a little too desperate for it to happen. Maybe he's cool with it.

BlackHalo wrote:He looks like a very involved and proud father. I do wonder what is going through his head as amanda could come out of this with a new fiance and his girls a new stepfather. Her friends are almost a little too desperate for it to happen. Maybe he's cool with it.

He seems like a really great dad. He watches the show. There was a photo from around Andi's season of him watching the show.. He also follows Whitney, Kaitlyn, Andi, Becca, and Ashlee Frazier, and a few others on IG. He also follows the bachelornationspoilers account, so I'm sure he's checking up on this season and Amanda.

Hopefully he is fully aware of how RS operates.

From his ig he seems like a hands on dad and adore his girls. It would be difficult to watch Amanda trying to find a significant partner and potentially a step dad for his kids.

But I have a feeling He has his regrets. I am also curious Mindless why their marriage ended that quickly

I feel kind of sorry for the ex. I mean, he did not sign up for the show. He didn't deserved to have his private life being discussed/probed. His friends should not be bothered by RS. If I were him, I would make all my sm private. But who knows, maybe he wants his side of story to be heard?

sdmom wrote:I feel kind of sorry for the ex. I mean, he did not sign up for the show. He didn't deserved to have his private life being discussed/probed. His friends should not be bothered by RS. If I were him, I would make all my sm private. But who knows, maybe he wants his side of story to be heard?

His IG WAS private. He made it public about a little over a week ago.

^ The reason that comes to mind is to stop the speculation that he is a bad guy. The question now is, did he clean up his SM before making it public? Jmoaa.

rhondam wrote:^ The reason that comes to mind is to stop the speculation that he is a bad guy. The question now is, did he clean up his SM before making it public? Jmoaa.

That makes sense. After the show airs, let's see what he will do sm wise

IMO whether he cleaned up his SM or not, if Ben chooses Amanda, it's Amanda he's choosing, not the ex. If anyone tries to hide something it usually comes out anyway. So far IMO he looks like a good guy.

She is young. Speaking from experience, when you get married young because you're so in love, there comes a time when you may grow apart, quickly. You feel like you've missed out on all the fun things in your late teens or early 20's.

This might be the case for Amanda and the reason she decided to take a chance on a Reality TV show, that and the fact that it's very difficult for single parents to date. Without even being given a chance to date, in most cases IMO, they are labelled as having baggage.

IMO and I do not know Amanda or Nick. From just looking through his IG, it appears like he and Amanda got married a bit after their 1st daughter was born. They may have met at Hooters. They both seemed very happy for a few years and then the marriage broke up shortly after their second daughter was born. Clearly something happened which is sad for the kids. From what I can see both Nick and Amanda love their kids and are good parents.  Whatever broke their marriage is not relevant to me. Only Amanda chose to go on TV. I am hoping she does not choose to portray herself as a Juelia 2.0.  Please no over sharing sob story.    JMO

Are the girls that were potential contestants but are not on this season going to get their threads deleted (any time soon)?? I'm getting confused..