The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - F1 to F4 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Rolly I agree with your last two points.

Can someone help me, how do we know who is getting their HTD when? I thought only Caila's was known to be this Friday if RS is correct with his information.

rhondam wrote:I'm not sure that the girls are really all too horribly young to be B'ette IMO. Because technically the "engagement" is really just an unspoken agreement to begin dating each other exclusively right? Since how many of us really get engaged only 8 weeks after meeting someone? . So in the real world a typical young couple would get married no earlier than 1-2 years after being in an exclusive relationship right? And two years is the longest a Bach couple can be "engaged" for before they have to give the ring back right? So that would make them 25, 26, 27 when they got married and then add 2, 3 or 4 years to that and they will be ready to start a family. It all could work IMO

I don't know if I read the part in bold right, but wanted to clarify. They can be engaged as long as they want. They only have to give the ring back if they break up, and not even then if the engagement has lasted for more than two years. So two years is the deadline for when you can keep the ring, not a deadline for getting married.

As for Joelle as the next lead, I'm already dreading it. Maybe I'm wrong and she's a lovely girl, but the Ready For Love clip didn't give me the best of vibes and her voice already annoys me. I really hope RS is just guessing about her being the #1 option. Then again there aren't many other options, since I want Amanda as the lead even less. No offense to her, but she should be with her kids.

I think of these 4 lauren is the best option followed by Caiila. From the little we know which is not much.

I don't get bad vibes from Joelle's family but I also don't see Ben fitting in there. Maybe it is because they are well off and Ben is just a regular guy. I actually liked Joelle's mom from the Ready For Love segment.

nd4reality wrote:

eversotrue wrote:Oh jeez. If Amanda DOES get eliminated on Wed., I really hope her hometown isn't on Tuesday.. The day after she gets elimanated? 

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Why ? She sees her kids and then she us back with them very shortly (a day or 2) after. Better that way than meeting them then not again for a couple of weeks. Unless I misunderstood ?

That just seems tough. It would seem less "planned" if she had her hometown today or on Sunday.

eversotrue wrote:

nd4reality wrote:

eversotrue wrote:Oh jeez. If Amanda DOES get eliminated on Wed., I really hope her hometown isn't on Tuesday.. The day after she gets elimanated? 

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Why ? She sees her kids and then she us back with them very shortly (a day or 2) after. Better that way than meeting them then not again for a couple of weeks. Unless I misunderstood ?

That just seems tough. It would seem less "planned" if she had her hometown today or on Sunday.

Get it.

I think logistically though hers would be filmed last right?

nd4reality wrote:

eversotrue wrote:

nd4reality wrote:
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Why ? She sees her kids and then she us back with them very shortly (a day or 2) after. Better that way than meeting them then not again for a couple of weeks. Unless I misunderstood ?

That just seems tough. It would seem less "planned" if she had her hometown today or on Sunday.

Get it.

I think logistically though hers would be filmed last right?

Not necessarily. Things don't always go logistically.

Well, logistically wouldn't Caila's HTD be filmed first since it's in Ohio, which is right near Indiana where they just had the rose ceremony? But according to RS hers is second, which means they're flying to Texas, California or Oregon first and then going back, which doesn't make a ton of sense.

Isn't Friday when Becca's was supposed to be?  If so, it probably was easier to just have a jumbled, all over the place, schedule than try to rearrange everyone's dates and shuffle families around last minute.  If Becca's being let go was indeed a last minute thing, since it kind of appears to be since Kasha and RS both had received info that she was indeed having a HTD.  So Calia's HTD was just swapped for Becca's schedule wise, it would seem, if it was between the two of them who made the F4.  JMO.

Ugh I hope Carla's family does not figure this out if true prior to filming. Talk about an awkward date.

Bingo, LB82. :Nod: