The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - F1 to F4 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*
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Re: The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - F1 to F4 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*
nd4reality wrote:BlackHalo wrote:If Ben knows what's good for him, he will get rid of Amanda at F4.
Is it inconceivable that he really does like her and there are genuine feelings (on both sides) ?
Grace posted something a while back which I agree with - he gave her the rose to assure her place for HTs. He could have left her to find out at the RC but he didn't. I see shades of Brads season here.
The little I know (very little tbh) of Ben tells me he is a stand up guy who is fully aware of his decision and action. Pretty sure this HT visit is not by accident, default or for show. He wants to date this girl, is letting her, the Internet and all of Warsaw know it by having her hold the rose at the most public date on this season.
Of course just like brad season i am in the sheer minoritywith what I am seeing.
My interpretation is that he had to take her to hometowns, because TPTB wanted him to, and had to have a date with her this episode, so he chose the least intimate one possible with the least amount of alone time possible. He was more concerned about his jacket being straight on the carousel than about being present for her. I don't see real interest no matter which way I look at it. Unless of course he's SO into her that he gets super awkward and shy around her. Somehow I doubt that considering his demeanor around Lauren. JMO.
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Is it time to start a next bachelorette thread ?
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IA. He didn't engage with her much at all during that moment on the carousel. It was very telling IMO. They weren't even being bombarded by people then. Perhaps TPTB want her as bachelorette or they really want the audience to see Ben with her kids. JMO.mindless wrote:nd4reality wrote:BlackHalo wrote:If Ben knows what's good for him, he will get rid of Amanda at F4.
Is it inconceivable that he really does like her and there are genuine feelings (on both sides) ?
Grace posted something a while back which I agree with - he gave her the rose to assure her place for HTs. He could have left her to find out at the RC but he didn't. I see shades of Brads season here.
The little I know (very little tbh) of Ben tells me he is a stand up guy who is fully aware of his decision and action. Pretty sure this HT visit is not by accident, default or for show. He wants to date this girl, is letting her, the Internet and all of Warsaw know it by having her hold the rose at the most public date on this season.
Of course just like brad season i am in the sheer minoritywith what I am seeing.
My interpretation is that he had to take her to hometowns, because TPTB wanted him to, and had to have a date with her this episode, so he chose the least intimate one possible with the least amount of alone time possible. He was more concerned about his jacket being straight on the carousel than about being present for her. I don't see real interest no matter which way I look at it. Unless of course he's SO into her that he gets super awkward and shy around her. Somehow I doubt that considering his demeanor around Lauren. JMO.
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Why should Ben feel guilty about keeping Amanda because she is a parent? Whether he takes her to 4 or 2? She decided to be on the show. Each girl deserves consideration, IMO. I hope if she is F2, people don't hold it against Ben.
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nutty1 wrote:Why should Ben feel guilty about keeping Amanda because she is a parent? Whether he takes her to 4 or 2? She decided to be on the show. Each girl deserves consideration, IMO. I hope if she is F2, people don't hold it against Ben.
In a way, I think it would actually be kinder to Amanda if she was taken to the F2 or F3. If I'm Amanda and I have two kids and I'm getting a HTD and then I get eliminated right after, I'm assuming I was just a storyline or it had something to do with me having kids. If I made it further than that, I would think maybe there was a chance the lead actually liked me.
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As I said shades of brads season for me till now.
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nd4reality wrote:As I said shades of brads season for me till now.
Yeah I'm not convinced she's just a storyline and will go out at the F4. I don't think she'll be the F1 but I think it's possible Ben likes her second best.
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IMO, I am surprised with the negativity towards Becca.
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I think it mostly revolves are 1)SM diarrhea 2) being a returnee and it not being a first rodeo.
I don't usually get into too many extremes with any of these people. They don't pay me enough.
I don't usually get into too many extremes with any of these people. They don't pay me enough.
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nd4reality wrote:As I said shades of brads season for me till now.
You never know ND. As we know, Brad had someone he had amazing chemistry and ease with too ( like the pics show with Ben and Lauren) and she wasn't the one he fell completely for. Can't really tell the connection via pics.
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This might be a good time to point out that Becca does have a fan thread. Fans can discuss her there without the negativity.
https://www.bachandbachettefans.net/f200-becca-tilley-bachelor-19-fan-forum-discussion
https://www.bachandbachettefans.net/f200-becca-tilley-bachelor-19-fan-forum-discussion
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You know they will. Everything is always the leads fault. And the contestants like to see it that way too. Remember when Juan Pablo meet Ben at the hometown and dumped Renee right after? Cassandra had a field day saying "if you knew Renee wasn't for you, you should of never met her son!".nutty1 wrote:Why should Ben feel guilty about keeping Amanda because she is a parent? Whether he takes her to 4 or 2? She decided to be on the show. Each girl deserves consideration, IMO. I hope if she is F2, people don't hold it against Ben.
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