Joelle Fletcher - (JoJo) - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Did she? I do think she cared for Ben but I don't think she was falling in love with him. Her relationship with JP was on another level and I didn't see anyone else coming close. I'm talking about leads like Kaitlyn, Andi, Ali and Jillian where their relationship with their F2 or F3 guy was almost on the same level as their relationship with their F1.

Just took a pic at K's season and she says "I'm in love with 2 guys" after final dates.

I do believe many are legitimately torn, because it's not like you can form a very deep connection with anyone in such a short time. If you're "in like" with two different people and like different things about them, then it's not necessarily that easy to decide. I have a hard time believing that will be the case with Ben though. He already has that drunk-on-love-hormones look on his face whenever he's a round Lauren, so I think he's legitimately falling for her. I've yet too see that look with anyone else and I don't really believe time will change that. On the contrary, he'll just be grow more in love with Lauren and less open to feeling that way with anyone else. Doesn't mean he can't enjoy kissing JoJo though.

Ben F also said he was head over heels in love with both (yes I am having a trip down memory lane! Also checked Ali, but didn't spot anything about loving both)

Well it looks like they did film the gambling and they purposefully just left it on the editing floor.

After watching it, I can see why.

I actually think it was a bit awkward between them. Sounded rehearsed and I don't see any amazing chemistry - not from Ben. It actually makes me wonder if later at night, when he is all lovey dovey and kissing on women it's because he has some alcohol in his system and letting loose.

The Bachelor: Deleted Scene: Ben and JoJo Take a Gamble On Love on Hulu.  http://www.hulu.com/watch/898587

^^ That was painfully awkward to watch. It doesn't seem that there is that much "initial" chemistry there between them. And how convenient JoJo got 21? Definitely set up IMO.

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Yeah I almost feel like JoJo is playing the part for F2.

I mean, she knows about reality TV and I am sure there is physical attraction which is easy to build on on a show like this where it is HIGHLY encouraged to make out and explore the physical, and anyone can do it really.

But anything more? Nah.

It's why I am not surprised her date was so short on the show. I actually found their interaction forced.

eversotrue wrote:

megaa wrote:I was definitely expecting to see more of their date given Jojo's F2 status.

I have to say that their kisses look pretty on TV. I don't know if maybe their lips are compatible or what but they just look easy/steamy & not awkward. Jojo tells Olivia that her relationship with Ben has been passionate from the start yet they haven't had much chance to talk.. supports the chemistry/ultimately lacking compatibility sl.

I agree with the kisses talk. I was actually thinking the same thing since they first kissed in episode 2. Out of all of the girls and Ben, JoJo and Ben's kisses together look the most natural. They look smooth and soft and steamy and I don't know...they just look good. I noticed JoJo has a very nice way of kissing actually. She uses her hands a lot: to craddle the back of his head, pulls his collar, etc. I'm sure he LOVED that.

If Lauren is the F1, I hope she is confident enough in their relationship to put these visuals out of her head! I know the lead has to write their blog in ways that support the storyline created by TPTB, but Ben did say they "started to actually connect on a deeper, more emotional level". 

I didn't take JoJo's comment to Olivia to mean they only connected on a physical level. I thought JoJo was just getting into Olivia's head and letting her know she's the HBIC! (Thanks for that acronym, megga!)

Maybe it's just me, but I didn't really see anything in that two minute video that screamed awkward, no chemistry or forced to me. I thought it was kind of cute that they were joking about it. It was funny to see them dancing after winning. They're obviously comfortable together to act silly.

Considering I don't think a Las Vegas casino would look that dead and they probably couldn't tape in the actual casino, IMO they probably didn't tape them actually gambling and set that whole scene up after the legitimate gambling.

I thought the scene was cute too. They have natural banter. I think even after all of this is over, they could probably be good friends. They mesh pretty well.

I'm pretty sure JoJo's date was cut short for reasons I stated a few pages ago. It had nothing to do with their chemistry (lack of or hotness or whatever.)