Caila Quinn - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

stuckinsc wrote:My friends from graduate school used to tell guys they were elementary school teachers instead of biomedical PhD students because it was less intimidating. I guess for me, how long did it take for him to learn the truth. If she was 22 when she met him and is 23, not even 24 yet, maybe their relationship was one where he got too serious on her too fast. I have been there. I had a guy surprise me on the second date by taking me to meet his parents and kids, where I got guilted into other family functions. It can be hard to know you aren't going to be with somebody but still having them depending on you for family occasions. To me it sounds like Caila was damned if she stayed with the ex through the wedding and damned if she didn't because then she would have been dumping him and leaving him sad before the wedding. This guy has made sure we have heard his side of this break up, I will be interested to hear Caila's. IMO, relationships rarely end just due to one person and the blame is usually somewhere in the middle. I can see after a year realizing someone isn't it but trying to stick it out because you don't want to hurt them.

I personally stayed with my first boyfriend for an extra four months to allow him to get through his first semester of law school. If I hadn't figured out he was cheating, I probably would have waited until the end of his first year of law school to try to upset him less. From his side having a gf who wasn't really all there anymore probably wasn't too fun. Two sides to every story.

bostonugirl92 wrote:Regarding @stuckinsc's post, "This guy has made sure we have heard his side of this break up, I will be interested to hear Caila's"

I know the ex and he has nothing to do with anything posted on this site. Period. Certainly not by me considering he told his friends he didn't want anyone even talking to him about the Bachelor thing. I can tell you he didn't even know she was in the final 4 until his friends told him.

BlackHalo wrote:You go, Caila! Keep drinking from the fountain of youth. Look 20 when you're 40.

But seriously, I'm 24 and get consistently told I look 15. It's a blessing and a curse.

eversotrue wrote:I'm excited to see Caila. Does it seem like the other girls liked her? I haven't seen them comment on any of her posts. Do they follow her?