Becca Tilly - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

metalgirl wrote:

Those "friendships" are about as deep, meaningful and long lasting as a puddle of spit.  

DebutAlbum wrote:

FLChica wrote:

nuts2uiam wrote:
I am not a fan of Becca's, nor a non-fan.  To me. she is only different from all the others in that she has been there before.  That said.  IMO, She is not causing drama the drama is being created by producers and sites like this (among others) and RS only feed that frenzy.  Not picking on this site please understand.  She posts a tweet and for all we know it was producer driven and the blogs go wild trying to figure it out.  For those old enough to recall the Beatles, there was a rumor about Paul being dead and it took off like jet fuel with people playing songs backwards for clue, etc.  So the fact is, that in the world of SM today, all one has to do is post something to have followers talking or even non followers, for that matter.  I do not tweet, but I have seen that people repost what is written and the comments and discussion start the hamster cage rolling.  The producers LOVE the controversy.

To your point, Becca has been more than a willing participant in promoting herself and this show on SM for quite some time now. Assorted family members and friends of Becca (FOB) have done precisely the same thing. How can Becca, her family members that post and FOBs not accept responsibility for their major role in this production? 

Prior to her first Bachelor appearance, Becca was just another attractive high school educated wannabe model working at a couple of part time jobs in Cali. As Graham Bunn famously described this scenario, Becca is just "one of a bunch". Three things made her different from the thousands just like her in Cali: she dated a former Voice contestant, her brother is a former NFL player and she told the world she is a virgin. 

It is the viewers, RS and sites like this that have given Becca the quasi-fame that make it possible for her to be paid for schilling products on SM. She chose to go on this show again and I suspect she will get exactly what she wants from the experience. Again.

Are you suggesting that she doesn't want to see if she can have a genuine, long-lasting relationship with Ben, and instead just wants to schill more products?

to talk about or describe someone or something in a favorable way because you are being paid to do it

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to talk about or describe someone or something in a favorable way because you are being paid to do it

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GuardianAngel wrote:OT The correct way to spell Shill.

to talk about or describe someone or something in a favorable way because you are being paid to do it

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FLChica wrote:

DebutAlbum wrote:

FLChica wrote:
To your point, Becca has been more than a willing participant in promoting herself and this show on SM for quite some time now. Assorted family members and friends of Becca (FOB) have done precisely the same thing. How can Becca, her family members that post and FOBs not accept responsibility for their major role in this production? 

Prior to her first Bachelor appearance, Becca was just another attractive high school educated wannabe model working at a couple of part time jobs in Cali. As Graham Bunn famously described this scenario, Becca is just "one of a bunch". Three things made her different from the thousands just like her in Cali: she dated a former Voice contestant, her brother is a former NFL player and she told the world she is a virgin. 

It is the viewers, RS and sites like this that have given Becca the quasi-fame that make it possible for her to be paid for schilling products on SM. She chose to go on this show again and I suspect she will get exactly what she wants from the experience. Again.

Are you suggesting that she doesn't want to see if she can have a genuine, long-lasting relationship with Ben, and instead just wants to schill more products?

It's interesting that you would interpret my post this way. According to Becca, she didn't go on the Bachelor to find a genuine, long-lasting relationship with Chris Soules. Also, Becca stated she didn't think the format of the show could work for her and that the format didn't work for her. The format of the show hasn't changed.

Are you suggesting that Becca does want to schill more products after this stint on the Bach or do you think she is content with her current level of SM product promotion?

ironcat wrote:

FLChica wrote:

DebutAlbum wrote:

Are you suggesting that she doesn't want to see if she can have a genuine, long-lasting relationship with Ben, and instead just wants to schill more products?

It's interesting that you would interpret my post this way. According to Becca, she didn't go on the Bachelor to find a genuine, long-lasting relationship with Chris Soules. Also, Becca stated she didn't think the format of the show could work for her and that the format didn't work for her. The format of the show hasn't changed.

Are you suggesting that Becca does want to schill more products after this stint on the Bach or do you think she is content with her current level of SM product promotion?

What people say before they go on the show, what they say on the show, and what they say after they've been on the show to defend their behavior don't usually match up.  

When folks go on the show a second time, they no doubt have a different perspective on the experience and their reasons (and there are always more than one) for doing it will probably be different as well.  I suspect Becca, being as inexperienced in relationships/falling in love as she is, decided to blame the format for why she couldn't "fall in love" with Chris (I suppose it's also nicer than admitting she just wasn't that into the guy); whether this is true or not, and she will also not be able to "fall in love" with Ben, nobody knows, not even Becca.  Since "falling in love" on this show involves one part emotion and two parts brainwashing, I suspect she will manage to fall as much as many other "winners" if Ben actually chooses her.  I have no doubt that Ben is much more her type than Chris ever was.

DebutAlbum wrote:
She is certainly very interested in Ben, but maybe she was unable to meet up with him (for whatever reason) and knew this would be her only chance to see if a relationship/engagement could be a possibility. Just a thought.

algold29 wrote:

DebutAlbum wrote:
She is certainly very interested in Ben, but maybe she was unable to meet up with him (for whatever reason) and knew this would be her only chance to see if a relationship/engagement could be a possibility. Just a thought.

As her friend, do you know why she didn't get to meet Ben at the Men Tell All filming?  She was with Kaitlyn that weekend wasn't she?