The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Potential Contestants - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

And, let's be honest, anyone who goes through the very long process of applying and auditioning for the show likes fame at least a little bit. Even the normal ones like des still shill teeth whitening products on IG and make appearances on BIP when asked. I don't think Becca is far from that. Girl likes attention, but I don't get the vibe she's a jake or Ali at all.

loveactually9 wrote:

ICU wrote:

eversotrue wrote:
What if he picks her and doesn't see "it" untill after the show?

I know you keep saying "Ben wouldnt do that" "or this" and "he wouldn't like her", etc. But we ALL wont know until it unfolds. We're not Ben.

I know Ben, I know his type, and I know what he said he was looking for.  Becca is not it.  It would surprise me 100% if he picked her for his F1

No offense intended but you were very confident that Ben should be with a "normal" gal like Breanne. A few days later and it comes out that she has been divorced twice by the age of 30. I don't think he will pick her either but we can all be off sometimes

I have known Ben a long time. We have talked about what we are looking for in potential mates. Becca is NOT it. And honestly being divorced 2 times is not a reason to push someone aside. And I don't see Ben doing that either. He would want to know the reasons behind the divorces before he makes any decisions. I personally know a few couples who one of them is on their 3rd marriage and it has worked out wonderful for them. So I still say there is a chance Ben would pick someone like Breanne.

It's too bad Britt is in Orlando now and wasn't on the show last night. Now she's the one who's the perfect match on paper for Ben. If a stunner like her showed up the first night, it would probably be game over and Becca and Amber would be forgotten. Oh well. I'm still holding out hope she shows up and takes this whole thing.

I guess we have to agree to disagree here. Sure Breanne being divorced twice by this age doesn't mean she can't find love again. I'm sure she will. But don't you think that would be a lot of baggage for a 26 year old guy who according to him hasn't had many long term relationships? Its not impossible that she might make it far but guys tend to stay away from baggage, esp when they have so many other options available

ICU wrote:
I have known Ben a long time.  We have talked about what we are looking for in potential mates.  Becca is NOT it.  And honestly being divorced 2 times is not a reason to push someone aside.  And I don't see Ben doing that either.  He would want to know the reasons behind the divorces before he makes any decisions.  I personally know a few couples who one of them is on their 3rd marriage and it has worked out wonderful for them.  So I still say there is a chance Ben would pick someone like Breanne.

Thanks for sharing with us what you know about Ben. From what I've seen he's a great guy - the complete package, so to speak. Haven't seen a single red flag so far. I'm hoping that he survives the nonsense TPTB will put him through and come out the other side with a special lady to love. 

Towards the end of his season airing, things may get a little tense as viewers promote/defend their favorite. Hopefully it won't upset you, Ben or any of his other friends or family that visit here.

ICU wrote:

eversotrue wrote:

ICU wrote:Even if Ben did take a liking to Becca right off the bat, I am sure he will see her true colors quickly.  She is someone only wanting the fame that comes with the show sometimes.  

What if he picks her and doesn't see "it" untill after the show?

I know you keep saying "Ben wouldnt do that" "or this" and "he wouldn't like her", etc. But we ALL wont know until it unfolds. We're not Ben.

I know Ben, I know his type, and I know what he said he was looking for.  Becca is not it.  It would surprise me 100% if he picked her for his F1

I'm not necesarily even talking about him picking her. Just everything. None of us know. Anything is possible. I just dont want people to say that he wouldn't do that, and then he does and they end up eating crow.

FLChica wrote:

ICU wrote:
I have known Ben a long time.  We have talked about what we are looking for in potential mates.  Becca is NOT it.  And honestly being divorced 2 times is not a reason to push someone aside.  And I don't see Ben doing that either.  He would want to know the reasons behind the divorces before he makes any decisions.  I personally know a few couples who one of them is on their 3rd marriage and it has worked out wonderful for them.  So I still say there is a chance Ben would pick someone like Breanne.

Thanks for sharing with us what you know about Ben. From what I've seen he's a great guy - the complete package, so to speak. Haven't seen a single red flag so far. I'm hoping that he survives the nonsense TPTB will put him through and come out the other side with a special lady to love. 

Towards the end of his season airing, things may get a little tense as viewers promote/defend their favorite. Hopefully it won't upset you, Ben or any of his other friends or family that visit here.

I for one can't wait to see the end. I want to see if Ben really does pick the one that I feel is best for him. Won't upset me if he picks someone else though as long as he is happy. That's all that matters to me. And defend away as I am sure we will all have out favorites!!!!

The "on paper" perfect match is on paper for a reason. Ben may not even be physically attracted to Becca or they may not have any chemistry. Who knows.

eversotrue wrote:

ICU wrote:

eversotrue wrote:
What if he picks her and doesn't see "it" untill after the show?

I know you keep saying "Ben wouldnt do that" "or this" and "he wouldn't like her", etc. But we ALL wont know until it unfolds. We're not Ben.

I know Ben, I know his type, and I know what he said he was looking for.  Becca is not it.  It would surprise me 100% if he picked her for his F1

I'm not necesarily even talking about him picking her. Just everything. None of us know. Anything is possible. I just dont want people to say that he wouldn't do that, and then he does and they end up eating crow.

I'll gladly eat crow if he picks her. I have before and would again .

bluwavz wrote:It's too bad Britt is in Orlando now and wasn't on the show last night. Now she's the one who's the perfect match on paper for Ben. If a stunner like her showed up the first night, it would probably be game over and Becca and Amber would be forgotten. Oh well. I'm still holding out hope she shows up and takes this whole thing.

I am hoping that too. Please Britt show up!!!

Can't wait to find out who the new girls are. Don't wanna see Ben ending up with a returnee. Blah.

I'm thinking the Ben/Britt ship sunk when he choose Kaitlyn. He said talking with Kaitlyn was "easier". Perhaps he just wasn't feeling it with her.

Last season Ben went onto the show (by some accounts) preferring Britt to Kaitlyn. They are as perfect a match on paper as could be. And he definitely was blown away by her looks when he stepped out of the limo. But when it came time to exploring a potential connection and actually having a convo, he had a better one with Kaitlyn, or as he described it "a conversation that was a bit easier." So basidally he had a choice of two girls and he didn't choose Britt. That ship has sailed