The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - FRC - ATFR- July 27th *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

isittrue wrote:In US weekly, it said that he followed tradition and dropped to his knee and declared his feelings but finally K cut him short.  She probably should have interrupted him earlier before he got to his knee but again, I maintain the girl was an emotional, worn-out wreck who instead of living in the moment, froze in the moment.  jmo

I will give her credit for letting him know that she loved him and they shared something special but her heart was with someone else.  At least she was honest.  Plus she wanted to talk and explain further, but he did not want to stick around.  

The article also says, there was a lot of hurt on his end but he has moved on.  Let's hope he has and can find someone away from the franchise since I don't third time will be the charm.  

Ladybug82 wrote:

isittrue wrote:In US weekly, it said that he followed tradition and dropped to his knee and declared his feelings but finally K cut him short.  She probably should have interrupted him earlier before he got to his knee but again, I maintain the girl was an emotional, worn-out wreck who instead of living in the moment, froze in the moment.  jmo

I will give her credit for letting him know that she loved him and they shared something special but her heart was with someone else.  At least she was honest.  Plus she wanted to talk and explain further, but he did not want to stick around.  

The article also says, there was a lot of hurt on his end but he has moved on.  Let's hope he has and can find someone away from the franchise since I don't third time will be the charm.  

Ok, thanks.  I read the article, I just didn't remember the part where she finally stopped him before telling him it wasn't him.

I didn't like when Ashley or DeAnna allowed Ben and Jason to get down on bended knee and propose, so probably won't feel any different here...even if she did stop him at some point during it all.  Not trying to be overly harsh on Kait, just don't like the lead allowing the F2 to do that period.

peggy0221 wrote:While Shawn got all passes for his whiny spoiled brat behavior, and I keep seeing people (here and other forum) blaming Nick for not had said no to Kait to the pre-fs sex, and he would hurt the showmance of Kaiboo, where are the big boy and big gal panties of this couple then?

I don't get the double standard whenever it comes to Nick.

timfan wrote:I do not feel sorry for nick he chose to go on the show and he became overconfident again that he was going to win the girl this time and put his family through it again and I wonder how he is going to embarrass Kaitlyn like he did andi but he will make it seem like oops I did not mean to say it or hurt Kaitlyn jmo

chasingpavements wrote:I also think that some of them are just "hurt" because they are wrapped up in the Bachelor Bubble, but get over it 30 seconds after they get on the plane going back home or feel better after they get the Bachelor gig out of it. I do think that Nick is probably the first F2 to be truly heartbroken since...I don't know, Molly or Arie? It's been a while since I've seen genuine heartbreak and not just humiliation and shock. I don't know how Nick feels this time; I have heard stories of him moving on and I hope he keeps things in perspective (aka he only knew Kaitlyn for ~3 months and she's 100% moved on) and won't appear desperate. I think closure is overrated and when someone makes it clear to you that they don't want you and never really cared for you, the best thing to do is accept that and realize that you were never meant to be.

bleuberry wrote:I just think TPTB would never entertain Nick AND Shawn not being at f2 together, after an entire season of the Nick and Shawn show.

isittrue wrote:

peggy0221 wrote:While Shawn got all passes for his whiny spoiled brat behavior, and I keep seeing people (here and other forum) blaming Nick for not had said no to Kait to the pre-fs sex, and he would hurt the showmance of Kaiboo, where are the big boy and big gal panties of this couple then?

I don't get the double standard whenever it comes to Nick.

It goes both way though.  I see people blaming K fand S for everything that happens to Nick too. They are all responsible for their own actions imo.

timfan wrote:I do not feel sorry for nick he chose to go on the show and he became overconfident again that he was going to win the girl this time and put his family through it again and I wonder how he is going to embarrass Kaitlyn like he did andi but he will make it seem like oops I did not mean to say it or hurt Kaitlyn jmo