Ben Higgins - Bachelorette 11 - *Spoilers - Sleuthing* - Discussion #2

Speaking of Ben Z, the man was def gunning for something. Or shall I say is still gunning for something. Every pic his posts is hash tagged with #teambenz

eversotrue wrote:Just to say: I'm never trying to toss anyones opinion. I'm just trying to be sympathetic here. I dont believe in facts without proof (for the most part.)

I'm not trying to toss anyone's opinions either. I just feel like with the cards he was dealt and the bachelorette that he had, what else was he supposed to do? Maybe he should've bailed after SA but who's to say the producers would've let that happen? Kaitlyn could only fake being into so many of these guys. IMO, Ben was one of them.

BlackHalo wrote:

eversotrue wrote:Just to say: I'm never trying to toss anyones opinion. I'm just trying to be sympathetic here. I dont believe in facts without proof (for the most part.)

I'm not trying to toss anyone's opinions either. I just feel like with the cards he was dealt and the bachelorette that he had, what else was he supposed to do? Maybe he should've bailed after SA but who's to say the producers would've let that happen? Kaitlyn could only fake being into so many of these guys. IMO, Ben was one of them.

That's very possible. Haven't contestants said that producers wont let them leave?

Just a reminder: This is a discussion thread. As member on this forum we do not tell other members how to think. Thank you.

I am not sold on Ben H and Ben Z we know he was put on the show because of being friends with a producer.

Ben H on MTA was less than impressive, imo. Cute is not enough for lead one has to be able to have some emotion ... he had the same expression on his face telling Kaitlyn he was falling in love as he did just talking about whatever.

I think both are too young and just want it for the fame more than to find a wife. So often these guys are given these good "edits" and make their SM and everything so cute and awww and then we are left with a dud to watch.

*sighs* Ben or Ben's friends, if you are reading this forum, please strongly discourage him from being the lead. Nothing he does will be up to "Bachelor standards". It's not worth it.

AllAboutLove wrote:I am not sold on Ben H and Ben Z we know he was put on the show because of being friends with a producer.

Ben H on MTA was less than impressive, imo. Cute is not enough for lead one has to be able to have some emotion ... he had the same expression on his face telling Kaitlyn he was falling in love as he did just talking about whatever.

I think both are too young and just want it for the fame more than to find a wife. So often these guys are given these good "edits" and make their SM and everything so cute and awww and then we are left with a dud to watch.  

I think those two are the least "fame hungry". And what exactly are you basing this belief of off?

In regards to Ben H's emotions, we've discussed this til the cows came home. Aka:many of times. Everyone already put their two cents and we've come to a consensus.

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BlackHalo wrote:*sighs* Ben or Ben's friends, if you are reading this forum, please strongly discourage him from being the lead. Nothing he does will be up to "Bachelor standards". It's not worth it.

You dont have to say that This is the issue for everyone in the media. People give opinions based off imagination and things left unsaid. We shall all write scripts... It would be Ben (who's considered probably the nicest guy of any bachelor) or Chris B. They all get crap. That's the name of the game. People will make up problems just because. Psyc 101.

Friends of Shawn and Kaitlyn = attention-seeking fakes.

Vocal supporters of Nick = heros

What?

eversotrue wrote:

BlackHalo wrote:*sighs* Ben or Ben's friends, if you are reading this forum, please strongly discourage him from being the lead. Nothing he does will be up to "Bachelor standards". It's not worth it.

You dont have to say that This is the issue for everyone in the medias. People give opinions based of imagination and things left unsaid. We shall all write scripts... It would be Ben (who's considered probably the nicest guy of any bachelor) or Chris B. They all get crap. That's the name of the game.

It's not just about backlash though (which looks to already be starting when he has literally done nothing wrong). TPTB aren't going to do right by him anyway. It's in his best interest not to do it. He doesn't need this show to find somebody. Especially not now. Nick probably needs it more actually.

I'll make up my own hehe: Ben or Bens friends/fam: everyone is bat sh*t crazy in the world. Dont take it personally. Get your fiancé/wife, money, recognition, etc. At the end of the day, we dont know you and you dont know us. So who gives a crap..? Just dont. Dont give a crap. None of it has any value. Love, Ever <3

bleuberry wrote:Friends of Shawn and Kaitlyn = attention-seeking fakes.

Vocal supporters of Nick = heros

What?

Who knew being associated with Kaitlyn and Shawn would be such poison for this man.