Ben Higgins - Bachelorette 11 - *Spoilers - Sleuthing* - Discussion #2

Well, in this case, Tenley is choosing to enter the race.
In K's season, the men were chosen for both women and Ben H did not come on the show for K specifically.

The diff between Tenley and Kaitlyn here is that Tenley is pursuing him and seems a tad bit more desperate.

Oh no Tenley with Ben H would be a nightmare for me ugh, i don't like her, she's annoying.
What's up with she and Joshua then ?

loveactually9 wrote:The diff between Tenley and Kaitlyn here is that Tenley is pursuing him and seems a tad bit more desperate.

A tad?!?! Kait acts like she's 20 and has her whole life ahead to kiss cute boys, Ten acts like she's post menopause, the ship has sailed and the cats are scratching at the door loudly. She really needs to stop chasing Ben or any of these Bach boys and go on match or Christian mingle or whatever and stop this craziness and embarrassment already. IMO of course.

Alanna wrote:

loveactually9 wrote:The diff between Tenley and Kaitlyn here is that Tenley is pursuing him and seems a tad bit more desperate.

A tad?!?! Kait acts like she's 20 and has her whole life ahead to kiss cute boys, Ten acts like she's post menopause, the ship has sailed and the cats are scratching at the door loudly. She really needs to stop chasing Ben or any of these Bach boys and go on match or Christian mingle or whatever and stop this craziness and embarrassment already. IMO of course.

Lol tell it like it is! I was tempering my words but yeah completely agree with you. Well I hope Ben H is not interested because if he is then that would bring into question his taste

I like Tenley more than I like Ben H. If he's not interested in her he's a big boy and can let her know, especially if he's going to be the next lead.

Alanna wrote:

loveactually9 wrote:The diff between Tenley and Kaitlyn here is that Tenley is pursuing him and seems a tad bit more desperate.

A tad?!?! Kait acts like she's 20 and has her whole life ahead to kiss cute boys, Ten acts like she's post menopause, the ship has sailed and the cats are scratching at the door loudly. She really needs to stop chasing Ben or any of these Bach boys and go on match or Christian mingle or whatever and stop this craziness and embarrassment already. IMO of course.

OMG.....

soccermom333 wrote:^^^ Watch, TPTB are licking their chops and she will be brought on half way through the season.  

We could write the show.  ;)

Oh god, I hope not. If she showed up on his season that would bring the amount of Bachelor-related shows she's done up to 4 - that's almost Bukowski levels!

I don't think Tenley wants to go on the show. I think even she realizes how embarrassing that would be. She wants him to pick her and NOT do the show. Which I am entirely opposed to because I want to see him on my TV again

If Tenley is really interested in Ben she needs to let him do his season and if it doesn't work out with his pick, then try to make something happen. That's what I wish Nick would have done at least.

History repeating itself - in the making? So few new story lines to write ...

I don't think Ben will give starting a relationship with Tenley, or anyone else, much thought at this point. It is obvious that he will accept the Bachelor gig when offered, despite what he has said. He knows it, his SM favourites/likes shows it, and his friends posts also shows that they are behind him for it.

Since we should never say never, a divine connection could happen between him and Tenley (or another girl), and he finds The One before signing the contract. That would be better than anything The Bachelor could offer.