The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - Epi 6 Jun 22nd - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* thread #2

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All 3 of these people (K/S/N) have been made into characters for the show & exploited. None of them are all good or all bad as people.

We don't know these people, we know their characters or roles.

I have no clue what Kaitlyn, Nick or Shawn are like in real life. But I'm certainly not going to try to fully define the character/type of person they are (good or bad) of any of them based on what I've seen the spindoctors create.

: The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - Epi 6 Jun 22nd - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*
Post by reason Today at 11:29 am

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@reason wrote:
How many shows are left to redeem him?  In my eyes I dont like him and there is no redemption.  Will they last long term? time will tell.  A tool is a tool##NS
The only TWO TOOLS left on the show are NICK and KAITLYN...They deserve each other. They are made of the same skanky cloth.

Not that I care about Shawn one way or another, but the guy seems like he at least has integrity. He understands what relationships are about rather than being two faced.  IF that was done to me, I would be gone in no time....IMO, Ian was too easy on Kaitlyn, and I don't care for Ian, either.

Now why he chose to speak to the producer may be because he didn't want to rub it into the other guys faces that he and Kaitlyn have a stronger connection. That's how I see it, anyways.

I hope Shawn dumps her as soon as HE gets his 15 minutes of fame  (and I hope he gets something out of putting up with a skanky woman)because that is the type of treatment someone like Kaitlyn deserves.

Interesting because she slept with Nick she is skanky? then do tell all the other seasons the final 3 almost 90% sleep with the lead, but just because she did it early she deserves to be with Nick?  I did not see Nick begging her to got to bed with him it was all her idea,  If Shawn dumps her there will still be life left in her and she can move on and know he was not meant to be, just as Nick is doing.  If Nick and Kaitlyn is skanky so is Shawn, afterall he is dipping his stick in her pond now.

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Not at all. I wish people would understand what this is about instead of SUPERFICIALLY looking at the act of s ex. Nick grosses me out with his looks (ugly), his Don Juan demeanor, and his shifty-eyed, not to be trusted persona. Kaitlyn is as deep as a teaspoon, and other not so classy traits. She gives women a bad name.

Many people including Kaitlyn keep spinning her sex encounter with Nick that she's being sl*t shamed because she slept with him earlier than the FS. I call that deflecting the ISSUE.

The issue is that she told Shawn a couple days ago that he's the one, and then stabs him in the back. I have a problem with her CHARACTER, and not the act of s ex.

If Nick is ugly so are we all.  God made him and us in his own image.  Nick look like someone who is shy when he like someone and is into them he does not give off a Don Juan demeanor and I see no shifty eye.  Kaitlyn is not giving me a bad name as a woman because we are all unique in our own image.  How we carry out own self should be what we are judge as, she is juggling 15 guys at the moment but I might say in real life this would not have been the case.  There are things she does that will irritate me  but I dont consider her less classy because of it.  She is owning up to her mistakes that takes pride, guts and integrity.  I will never think bad about her because I am certainly not walking in her shoes.  SHAWN says kaitlyn told him how are we to believe she said it? we did not hear her tell him that? he might have interpet I am falling for you too to mean he is the one.  I do know her personal character so I cant judge her.  Just the action that I am seeing on my TV screen. jmo

I'm waaaay late to to the discussion here...and I am not going to sl*T shame K...
My issue here is the EMOTIONAL Dishonesty, not the SEX. She pretty much told Shawn that he was "the one," tells him that she is "falling in love with him" and then she sleeps with Nick? I'm sorry, this is real life, not an episode of Days of Our Lives, and that just does not compute for me.
Now, if she hadn't said those words to Shawn, I would not have an issue... but in my opinion, Shawn has every reason to be upset. You can't tawk, tawk, tawk about how much you "luuuuuv" someone yaddda yadda and then turn around and go in some other man's bed. That only happens on soaps- then we get the obligatory "who's the daddy storyline"-but I digress....
I am pretty turned off with K's behavior right now. JMO.

Oh and I'm no fan of Shawn at all....I think he is crazy/entitled and acted very Britt like....
just saying that he has every right to be peeved about the sex after what K said to him during their last one on one date.

I don't remember her saying anything more than "I'm falling for you, too."

Kashathediva wrote:I don't remember her saying anything more than "I'm falling for you, too."

That is what I remember too.

Janey, I think the same thing you do- Shawn acted totally freaking insane, but seeing how careless and thoughtless Kaitlyn was jumping into bed with Nick, I have no trouble believing she told Shawn some crazy things in that 6-7 hours they spent in his bed. Which, also, where were his roomies while Kait was in his bed? Sleeping through this?

So yeah, I do understand why Shawn is mad and hurt and confused, he thinks he and Kait are in a relationship and she's cheating on him. However, I doubt he's proud of himself here and it's not like she's condoning it either. She blogged that it's a low point in their relationship, which makes sense.

Unless you're a teenager named Bella Swan or her barely functioning dumba$$ alter-ego, Ana Steele, you do not see a man that acts like he hasn't had his rabies vaccine in quite a while and go, "Wow, yes, that's hot."

If he was really that bad, we'd have randos from all corners of the universe posting here telling us all about his scary anger issues. This is nothing to be proud of, which I think everyone involved knows, but I also doubt he's this horrible, abusive, constantly angry man.

And Shawn's stupidity at this point is because she gave Jared the GDR. He doesn't know she had sex with Nick. So that excuse isn't valid. Yet.