Married At First Sight - Season 2 - Ryan DeNino - Jessica Castro - #2 *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

BusyLizzie wrote:Victims get raked over the coals all the time, look at the women cosby allegedly r*ped. Jessica didn't sign on to be verbally abused. Ryan's past girls may be afraid to come forward. If Ryan had something on Jessica, he would have posted it before the restraining order was file. People keep thinking she filed the order because of what he said at the reunion show. But we don't know if he did or said something privately the week of the order. Whether she was looking for fame or not, she didn't deserve a Ryan !  I don't know what all the truths are in this, but hope it all comes out...soon.

His entire behavior was abusive from the very beginning.  He started on their honeymoon doing all sorts of vindictive/abusive things under the guise that was just his sense of humor.  She asked him about the towels, told him that she really didn't like being out in open water, etc.  Then, to storm out at dinner, what an idiot.

I think that he is an abusive guy with anger issues.  Red flags were wildly waving from the beginning.

I hope that all of the women speak the truth.  However, I think that they probably all signed confidentiality agreements.

I hope they all speak out as well.

Such a tragic mess. I hope all three women sue the network and win big money. The men were not vetted at all. This is such a joke. All of the women were put in danger on some level due to the negligence of the network/production crew, etc. Epic, epic fail for the so called experts. If the show isn't cancelled for season 3, I'd be willing to bet there will be new "experts." JMO.

crazyjaney78 wrote:Such a tragic mess.  I hope all three women sue the network and win big money.    The men were not vetted at all.  This is such a joke.  All of the women were put in danger on some level due to the negligence of the network/production crew, etc.   Epic, epic fail for the  so called experts.  If the show isn't cancelled for season 3, I'd be willing to bet there will be new "experts."  JMO.  

Well, they are filming Season Three in Atlanta as we speak....There is a thread on it...I think..

Has anyone seen her trouble women web series?

Seeing all these modelling and actress type stuff makes me sad, I guess what do you expect... It is TV... Just, why choose a show of this nature! With such a heavy subject matter? I DO NOT condone Ryan, but I remember watching the show and thinking, holy crap, this Jessica girl needs to stop pushing his buttons. She went on and on and on, I remember thinking, why is she doing this??? Drop it!!! Don't anger the sleeping dragon. I doubt we'll ever really know the true story, I'm sure there is plenty footage they didn't show that would paint an entirely different story. I was team jess, now I'm team nobody I've noticed they've tagged famous celebrity lawyer Gloria Allred in their tweets in the past week. (Jaclen??)

Who knows their intentions, maybe they really were in it for the right reasons, never had ill intentions of fame, but are jumping on this media frenzy because, well, people see 15 minutes and want 30...

in the beginning, i chalked up ryan's behavior to his culture. things like revving up fast so she would fall off is like when you intentionally smash a kid's face in a birthday cake. some people think it's funny, some think it's cruel. but as time went on, you saw ryan see no problems with his behavior. he wasn't joking, he was absolutely serious in his maliciousness.

personally for me, i would love someone like jessica who doesn't speak up or challenge me but it's been said i have control issues. i never understood why it bothered ryan she never said anything. an easy going person for me would be HEAVEN.

Still if he was that bad she would or should of left. Not to mention that it is edited and it was in her favor, she was yelling back when they were fifht

Still if he was that bad she would or should of left. Not to mention that it is edited and it was in her favor, she was yelling back when they were fighting she just wasnt disrespectful then .

I did not enjoy watching either one of them onscreen and think that Ryan came across as a jerk and Jessica as a victim. If that was the storyline the network was going for, they nailed it.

I suspect that I would not enjoy either of them in real life.

If they are both actors on the side, I recommend that they keep their day jobs.

And, finally, think I saw someone say up thread about daughter would love to date Ryan. Yikes! Really? Well, good luck there.

Hi....IMHO neither is all that likable. I do hope Jessica is safe, but honestly she was desperate fo fame,swimsuit model, and would be actress. I do think the producers should have vetted the guys but the ones i totally blame are the "experts".

IMHO Ryan has issues. Jessica should have left and I was surprised she stayed on without the safety of the cameras - the 2 weeks they spent together after the "decision" show must have been awful.

On the other hand I don't want to see Gloria Alred's mug here, nor do I honestly think they deserve some huge payout, as they all seem to be in it for fame and fortune.

I am a long time reality fan - my personal opinion of most shows is the first one is "for real", innocent...and as time goes on you see more and more models, casting agents, would be stars, people pushing anything and everything.

Jess and Ryan R both were wannabes IMHO. No I don't condone him or the experts but on the other hand I don't buy into the "just wanna be married" we heard.
JMO of course

Hi.. I am a newbie lurker and I personally know multiple people on the show. IMHO...The show was presented to the females as a rare opportunity to find true companionship and intimacy. With the exception of Jess (sorry!) the other "brides" were/are successful, strong women working in a career field filled with male dominance. Do you know how hard it is to find a husband if you are in your 30's and live in/near Manhattan? Case in point: the guys picked for this show were not quality matches, they were the leftovers no one wanted. IMO..the show knew this.IMO..the "experts" knew that Jessica's passive personality would not work with Ryan D.but they were matched any way because they were both attractive and they knew that Jess would be 100% invested in the marriage and would stay no matter what. Ryan D is a sociopath that believes his own lies IMHO. He talks a big game, but he'll never follow through on his threats. He needs his boys to literally fight his battles.