Nick Viall - Bachelorette 11 - *Spoilers - Sleuthing* - Discussion

SueSt wrote:

Jeepers wrote:Nick .. The kiss/sex and tell guy .. On national tv!!  Uuummmmm careful Kaitlyn.....

I'm assuming Kaitlyn is going to be a considerate lover - and only engage with those she's falling in love with and treat them with respect - no kissing and telling will be necessary.
And as a result, sorry, I sort of doubt we're going to get many deets on finance type stuff (Hi, Notarose   ) this time around.  

The comment was directed towards Nick .. Past history and all Ya know .. Wouldn't want him to be a repeat offender of his own mouth.....

Jeepers wrote:

SueSt wrote:

Jeepers wrote:Nick .. The kiss/sex and tell guy .. On national tv!!  Uuummmmm careful Kaitlyn.....

I'm assuming Kaitlyn is going to be a considerate lover - and only engage with those she's falling in love with and treat them with respect - no kissing and telling will be necessary.
And as a result, sorry, I sort of doubt we're going to get many deets on finance type stuff (Hi, Notarose   ) this time around.  

The comment was directed towards Nick .. Past history and all Ya know  .. Wouldn't want him to be a repeat offender of his own mouth.....

Kaitlyn's a big girl. I doubt she's scared of anything Nick would ever have to say about her. Also, considering that Kaitlyn went through a pretty similar situation as Nick (being dumped after presumably being intimate with someone), I'm sure she can empathize with how he was feeling back then. As long as she is honest with him about her feelings and intentions in the FS, I think they will be fine.

The whole FS comments seem so dated to me now, considering that not only have Andi's closest friends hung out with Nick, she herself has spent time with Nick and made fun of her ATFR. Also, it bears repeating, no matter how many leads have done this, sleeping with somebody a few days before you get engaged to somebody else IS a bit icky. If you don't want to be shamed for it, simply don't do it. If you don't feel like there's anything wrong with it, you shouldn't feel afraid of people finding out.

If he is led on again to be he F1, then I hope once again he is a repeat offender of his own mouth. JMHO

Jeepers wrote:The comment was directed towards Nick .. Past history and all Ya know  .. Wouldn't want him to be a repeat offender of his own mouth.....

Nothing that came out of Nick's mouth offended me him

jen689 wrote:

Jeepers wrote:The comment was directed towards Nick .. Past history and all Ya know  .. Wouldn't want him to be a repeat offender of his own mouth.....

Nothing that came out of Nick's mouth offended me him

Jen, I like your avi very much

ElonM wrote:Jen, I like your avi very much

  that we have two    stories this season  

Nick/Kaitlyn and Brady/Britt

GuardianAngel wrote:If he is led on again to be he F1, then I hope once again he is a repeat offender of his own mouth. JMHO

I will actually give Andi the benefit of the doubt and say that, IMO, she was falling in love with Nick. Where I side with Nick is Andi's total lack of compassion once she dumped him. It came across to me as if she was a little pissed that he didn't make it easy for her by politely walking away, in the manner that Prince Farming did at F3. The chill at the AFTR made me shiver on my coach as I watched.

Kaitlyn comes across to me as a very caring person. I would expect that whomever she has to let go will be treated with compassion both at dumping and afterwards.

chasingpavements wrote:

Jeepers wrote:

SueSt wrote:

I'm assuming Kaitlyn is going to be a considerate lover - and only engage with those she's falling in love with and treat them with respect - no kissing and telling will be necessary.
And as a result, sorry, I sort of doubt we're going to get many deets on finance type stuff (Hi, Notarose   ) this time around.  

The comment was directed towards Nick .. Past history and all Ya know  .. Wouldn't want him to be a repeat offender of his own mouth.....

Kaitlyn's a big girl. I doubt she's scared of anything Nick would ever have to say about her. Also, considering that Kaitlyn went through a pretty similar situation as Nick (being dumped after presumably being intimate with someone), I'm sure she can empathize with how he was feeling back then. As long as she is honest with him about her feelings and intentions in the FS, I think they will be fine.

The whole FS comments seem so dated to me now, considering that not only have Andi's closest friends hung out with Nick, she herself has spent time with Nick and made fun of her ATFR. Also, it bears repeating, no matter how many leads have done this, sleeping with somebody a few days before you get engaged to somebody else IS a bit icky. If you don't want to be shamed for it, simply don't do it. If you don't feel like there's anything wrong with it, you shouldn't feel afraid of people finding out.  

Thanks for responding chasingpavements. Perfectly stated!!

GuardianAngel wrote:If he is led on again to be he F1, then I hope once again he is a repeat offender of his own mouth. JMHO

Touche!!

eirekay wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:If he is led on again to be he F1, then I hope once again he is a repeat offender of his own mouth. JMHO

I will actually give Andi the benefit of the doubt and say that, IMO, she was falling in love with Nick.  Where I side with Nick is Andi's total lack of compassion once she dumped him.  It came across to me as if she was a little pissed that he didn't make it easy for her by politely walking away, in the manner that Prince Farming did at F3.  The chill at the AFTR made me shiver on my coach as I watched.

Kaitlyn comes across to me as a very caring person.  I would expect that whomever she has to let go will be treated with compassion both at dumping and afterwards.

Absolutely!!!

SueSt wrote:

eirekay wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:If he is led on again to be he F1, then I hope once again he is a repeat offender of his own mouth. JMHO

I will actually give Andi the benefit of the doubt and say that, IMO, she was falling in love with Nick.  Where I side with Nick is Andi's total lack of compassion once she dumped him.  It came across to me as if she was a little pissed that he didn't make it easy for her by politely walking away, in the manner that Prince Farming did at F3.  The chill at the AFTR made me shiver on my coach as I watched.

Kaitlyn comes across to me as a very caring person.  I would expect that whomever she has to let go will be treated with compassion both at dumping and afterwards.

Absolutely!!!  

Me too!

jen689 wrote:

Jeepers wrote:The comment was directed towards Nick .. Past history and all Ya know  .. Wouldn't want him to be a repeat offender of his own mouth.....

Nothing that came out of Nick's mouth offended me him

yeah i wasn't offended at all. clearly he was not being calculating when it happened, it wasn't planned the poor guy was just so thrown off by how cold and uncaring Andi was about not loving him I would have wondered too why be intimate then?