Bachelor New Zealand - Alysha

HEA wrote:weird right?

Yes,

I'll take that she isn't F1 but is happy and her eyes are blue and beautiful.


Cause I see no reason for her to say she is a loser and happy in the same post.

All Alysha's postings may just be a way of coping with rejection. This experience could be playing off her marriage breakdown. Her mother said on her htd that after a few weeks of the marriage ending Alysha just got on with it. Maybe her sm usage is a similar way of coping.

Besides this criptic picture, I do not think that anything lead us to conclude she is coping with rejection at all.
dani and matilda posted a lot on their IG and twitter.
alysha has no twitter so she is focusing on her IG IMO

but I sure have my doubts now.

AEF wrote:All Alysha's postings may just be a way of coping with rejection. This experience could be playing off her marriage breakdown. Her mother said on her htd that after a few weeks of the marriage ending Alysha just got on with it. Maybe her sm usage is a similar way of coping.

ITA. I think she has a lot of things to work through. Her posts are very misleading because I highly doubt she is F1 and I think the other girls feel sorry for her and the real F1 (Matilda from what I have sleuthed and IMHO) is also feeling bad for her. Rejection from her husband and then on national television will be a hard pill to swallow. I saw that she deleted comments on her IG posts about her not winning so why is she posting photos of her and Art. I agree with that person. It makes me think she is just trying to come across as a possible F1 when she is not. Based on her SM activity post-March 1st (so the week of FRC), she is likely to be F3.

AllAboutLove wrote:

AEF wrote:All Alysha's postings may just be a way of coping with rejection. This experience could be playing off her marriage breakdown. Her mother said on her htd that after a few weeks of the marriage ending Alysha just got on with it. Maybe her sm usage is a similar way of coping.

ITA. I think she has a lot of things to work through. Her posts are very misleading because I highly doubt she is F1 and I think the other girls feel sorry for her and the real F1 (Matilda from what I have sleuthed and IMHO) is also feeling bad for her. Rejection from her husband and then on national television will be a hard pill to swallow. I saw that she deleted comments on her IG posts about her not winning so why is she posting photos of her and Art. I agree with that person. It makes me think she is just trying to come across as a possible F1 when she is not. Based on her SM activity post-March 1st (so the week of FRC), she is likely to be F3.

and I see a young girl having fun on her IG
there is nothing that prove your opinion AAL
sorry I see her having fun with her fans... nothing wrong with that

Before the show is over, opinions are just that. Once it is over, if Alysha is or is not F1 then those opinions can hold weight. Time will tell. Nothing wrong with difference of opinions.

agreed :Nod:

ps: did I just say that?

This girl is one of the most insufferable F3 girls I have ever witnessed on SM. I have never, since watching this show and all the franchises, seen a girl ask for sponsorships/things about herself so blatantly.

She posts photos of a watch she wants and tags the company and says in comments that they can sponsor it for her? She posts about her drinking tea and hopes that they can sponsor her? Really? Let the companies come to you. If you are that interesting one doesn't have to plug oneself over and over again.  And all the Blessed, so blessed, happy girl, blessed captions/hashtags? Complete humblebrag, imo.

Dani asks Alysha where she got this photo?



Alysha posted on Woman's Day IG and asked them for a single image of her to post on her IG. Because having one of her with the other girls is not enough?? And cropping the other girls out the photo is not enough?.



Requesting to Woman's Day magazine to get a photo of just herself from the shoot with the F3 girls? Although she is soo sweet and all x's and o's (xoxo) she is so manipulative and narcissistic, imo. Hashtagging and posting a ton of photos of herself all the time. She is on her IG all the time (a sign she is definitely not F1 as she never gets off the thing it seems).

IMO, she chose to go on a show because she wanted the fame and attention based on how she is acting on her SM. No wonder she is not on twitter - because her husband is on twitter and doesn't seem to have a positive view of her. And she hasn't been a teacher for years. Why bother saying otherwise if one hasn't taught for over 2+ years?

She posts photos of herself that have been photo-shopped beyond belief and then will post a photo of herself au natural and say she wants to be a role model for young girls? If one wants to come across as authentic and a role model, it would behoove her not to post heavily photo-shopped photos of herself in the first place. Magazine photos are one thing, editing one's own photos are another.  

I just get this feeling that this girl is really, really good at getting people to feel sorry for her. The whole victim, woe is me, thing. Not to mention her deleting comments about her not winning and why is she posting intimate shots of her and Art. When she is not F1 (and she won't be, imo, one can come back here to check) how on earth does she justify posting intimate shots of her and Art, tagging him in her posts, along with the consistent posting to get sponsorships and things for free? Just completely tacky and classless person, imo.

Whenever Art has been with her he looks like he is emotionally drained. Even on their HTD he was all "Same" when she said she loved being with him. "Same"? And then she said how she was smiling all day and he agrees with this and says this without smiling?

She comes across as very needy and yes, one can psychoanalyze and connect this to her husband and breakup, but at the end of the day, I just get the feeling that she wants fame more than anything else and this ties into her whole "you have to win me over" speech she gave Art when they first talked Ep 5. She was also super defensive about her telling Art he can only kiss her on their next date (which I do see as a ploy/tactic and agree with Chrystal. At least Chrystal isn't fake).

With Alysha it seems all about Alysha. Hoping she leaves in the next episode.

For someone who posts the most on IG she has the least followers out of Matilda and Dani. And Matilda posts the least on IG (only 1 pic with bachelor) and has the most followers out of F3. She should take notes from her if she wants to up her followers. Sometimes less really is more...

AAL your post above  

Oh Alysha you are a special one yes you are indeed.

If you were to really try to analyse Alysha's IG posts and how she's edited on the show  it leaves little to conclude. She is seeking fame and sponsorship! That post about the watch left me flabbergasted.

She's looking for more of this.


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IF by the faith of a mustard seed Art picked her I wish him all the best.

I pray I don't see him on IG with face mask.

ElonM wrote:
Oh Alysha you are a special one yes you are indeed.

If you were to really try to analyse Alysha's IG posts and how she's edited on the show  it leaves little to conclude. She is seeking fame and sponsorship! That post about the watch left me flabbergasted.

She's looking for more of this.


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IF by the faith of a mustard seed Art picked her I wish him all the best.

I pray I don't see him on IG with face mask.

She is indeed very special, very #blessed.

She is definitely looking for the fame. No wonder she was so upset on the 2nd episode when she never got a date. She was in tears and I posted s/caps of this and was wondering why she was so upset after a few days already!? She struck me as someone who was used to guys focusing on HER and even her smacking Art on the leg saying, "you FINALLY came to me" and you have to "win ME" like she was the bachelorette or something. No wonder she "married" a famous rugby player all in secret of course.  

And she posted that video of that young boy saying he loves her?     As a "Teacher" combined with her topless back photo? It is all just  

As for the face mask Alysha will be the only one wearing those things. She does it quite well anyway with her facade... Oops. I meant with her #Blessed #SoBlessed face.

ElonM, there is no way she is F1. I bet she used her same woe-is-me ways to try to weasel her way into Art's arms. If his behavior on their HTD is any indication when they said goodbye, he looked like death warmed over. Cannot wait for her to leave and have at it on her IG with trying to get free *stuff*.

Wow, to think she was possibly the F1 early on.

Why did he keep her this long? There must be some reason he was interested in her.

AllAboutLove wrote:

ElonM wrote:AAL your post above  

Oh Alysha you are a special one yes you are indeed.

If you were to really try to analyse Alysha's IG posts and how she's edited on the show  it leaves little to conclude. She is seeking fame and sponsorship! That post about the watch left me flabbergasted.

IF by the faith of a mustard seed Art picked her I wish him all the best.

I pray I don't see him on IG with face mask.

ElonM, there is no way she is F1. I bet she used her same woe-is-me ways to try to weasel her way into Art's arms. If his behavior on their HTD is any indication when they said goodbye, he looked like death warmed over. Cannot wait for her to leave and have at it on her IG with trying to get free *stuff*.

Judging by her IG behaviour she's not  F1. She's capitalizing on her fame while its hot. Smart girl she is. She should consider a career in marketing and communications .

Say what you want base on your choice for F1 the lead body language is key on this show. Alysha had a good HTD but Art's BL was the key indicator that she wasn't 'it' for him at that time. As you mentioned AAL that goodbye kiss was a great indicator. Btw , Poppy did say that she knew she was friend zoned after her HTD. From what I noticed he had some similar friend zone moments with Dani and Alysha.