Ben Higgins - Bachelorette 11 - *Spoilers - Sleuthing* - Discussion

The information was given to me by a very reliable source. I did not see with my own eyes.

Thanks Serendipity. It's crazy how I always get anxious when I like someone during filming, and then start to worry that they won't get a good edit. I can't even begin to imagine what it must feel like, for family members.

Serendipity11 wrote:The information was given to me by a very reliable source.  I did not see with my own eyes.  

Thank you.

julychild wrote:Thanks Serendipity. It's crazy how I always get anxious when I like someone during filming, and then start to worry that they won't get a good edit. I can't even begin to imagine what it must feel like, for family members.

 Agree, it must be an anxious time for family.

I do think that Ben getting a fun date with a community orientated dance competition plus the sweet tailgate kiss spoiler pic suggest his storyline will be close to who he is.

umngirl wrote:Can Kaitlyn just send him home already please? Purely for selfish reasons of course.

I want his as the next bachelor please!

Diana wrote:...I want his as the next bachelor please!

From what I've read on this thread I don't see Ben/Kaitlyn as a match.  I do see him as a candidate for the next Bachelor. He has as 1 in 3 chance. IMO the next Bachelor will be Kaitlyn's F2, F3, or F4 :Nod:

Serendipity11 wrote:The information was given to me by a very reliable source.  I did not see with my own eyes.  

Appreciate the info!!

jen689 wrote:

Diana wrote:...I want his as the next bachelor please!

From what I've read on this thread I don't see Ben/Kaitlyn as a match.  I do see him as a candidate for the next Bachelor. He has as 1 in 3 chance. IMO the next Bachelor will be Kaitlyn's F2, F3, or F4 :Nod:

I agree Jen. I like Ben seems like a great guy based on what I have read on here, I just don't see him with Kaitlyn, I would be completely fine though if he is F1.

Faith seems to be very important to him and I am not sure how priority it is in Kaitlyn's life, maybe it is...

sbolduc wrote:

jen689 wrote:

Diana wrote:...I want his as the next bachelor please!

From what I've read on this thread I don't see Ben/Kaitlyn as a match.  I do see him as a candidate for the next Bachelor. He has as 1 in 3 chance. IMO the next Bachelor will be Kaitlyn's F2, F3, or F4 :Nod:

I agree Jen. I like Ben seems like a great guy based on what I have read on here, I just don't see him with Kaitlyn, I would be completely fine though if he is F1.

Faith seems to be very important to him and I am not sure how priority it is in Kaitlyn's life, maybe it is...

totally agree with both of you on what a great guy he seems but I do think K is much more irreverent in her humor suggesting that she may not be very traditional in the behavioral expectations she sets for herself -- his faith might be something he practices in an unconventional way so i'm open to seeing how they mesh together but I don't see them seeing eye to eye right now...I could be wrong and they could be like a sean and cat pairing where cat's quirkiness livens things up with sean but his faith grounds her and she appreciates/wants it to be a central part of her life...

Serendipity & ICU any thoughts on the pairing if you've seen K on CS' season? As a refresher -- her first words to CS out of the limo was something the lines of "I would let you plough the f*** out of my fields any day"
my inkling is K will do better with someone who plays along with her "edginess" rather than has traditional lifestyle expectations but then again being a Gemini makes K very adaptable and agile...
At this point in time tho it's a total surprise to me that he even made it to F4 -- gives an inkling for the level of the connections with the other F4 -- seems to be low if she's brought Ben on to a HTD if the compatibility may not be very high -- grasping at straws a bit but seems feasible

I don't see him with Kait, he's too young and too good boy-ish I think, but he'll be really cute to watch. Adorable!

emusha wrote:

sbolduc wrote:

jen689 wrote:
From what I've read on this thread I don't see Ben/Kaitlyn as a match.  I do see him as a candidate for the next Bachelor. He has as 1 in 3 chance. IMO the next Bachelor will be Kaitlyn's F2, F3, or F4 :Nod:

I agree Jen. I like Ben seems like a great guy based on what I have read on here, I just don't see him with Kaitlyn, I would be completely fine though if he is F1.

Faith seems to be very important to him and I am not sure how priority it is in Kaitlyn's life, maybe it is...

totally agree with both of you on what a great guy he seems but I do think K is much more irreverent in her humor suggesting that she may not be very traditional in the behavioral expectations she sets for herself -- his faith might be something he practices in an unconventional way so i'm open to seeing how they mesh together but I don't see them seeing eye to eye right now...I could be wrong and they could be like a sean and cat pairing where cat's quirkiness livens things up with sean but his faith grounds her and she appreciates/wants it to be a central part of her life...

Serendipity & ICU any thoughts on the pairing if you've seen K on CS' season? As a refresher -- her first words to CS out of the limo was something the lines of "I would let you plough the f*** out of my fields any day"
my inkling is K will do better with someone who plays along with her "edginess" rather than has traditional lifestyle expectations but then again being a Gemini makes K very adaptable and agile...
At this point in time tho it's a total surprise to me that he even made it to F4 -- gives an inkling for the level of the connections with the other F4 -- seems to be low if she's brought Ben on to a HTD if the compatibility may not be very high -- grasping at straws a bit but seems feasible

Honestly I think I could see him with Britt over Kaitlyn but hey who knows. His faith is important to him and I just don't think what Kaitlyn said to Chris when she met him was very conducive to his faith.

^ I saw him more with Britt than with Kaitlyn, too.

Thats why I think Ben will make it far, but not F1. But who knows..right.