Becca Tilley - Bachelor 19 - Discussion - #8

Chrisbecca wrote:

Admin wrote:

ElonM wrote:http://scontent.cdninstagram.com/hphotos-xfa1/t51.2885-15/e15/11055419_899180500146127_1316800462_n.jpg

@beccatilley5
What a crazy ride!!! I've had the question asked: "why did you go on this show?"....Why not? I had the time of my life. Met some amazing girls who will be in my life forever and met an amazing guy who showed me that there are good guys out there- the kind who are patient and genuine. Did i fall in love? No- but how would I have known that would be the outcome? Sometimes you have to try things and see what happens! I love @whitb624 and could not be happier for the two of them. Thanks for the emoji️! #thebachelor

He was patient?  

What?

She could not be happier for the two of them?  

She should be sad for them....even removing herself from the picture......he is not inlove with Whitney!

100% disagree with you. Knowing the good kindhearted person that Chris is ( and we heard it from Andi , Becca, & Whitney), I see him as the type of person who has a hard time with hurting people and is very conscious of their feeling and puts their feelings above his own. no matter what he wasen't going to make Becca feel bad or disappoint Becca's fans into believing he was anything but a gentlemen and a soft hearted one at that. HE knows in his heart that his chosen one is the "ONE " and by putting the ring on her finger proves it. Whitney will be the one who he spoils, loves and gets his attention for the rest of their lives. His future actions will speak much louder. IF he was so in love with Becca the outcome would have been that he chose her and would have took the relationship at her pace. He couldn't have loved Becca if he wasen't will to do that. I firmly believe it was Whitney all along and only Whitney. jmo

Becca continues to be a supportive class act.

As for the Sean Lowe tweets, he can be a little tart in some of the things he says, but just like with Nick last season, when they nicely call him on it, he says he is sorry. I don't think Sean means his tweets too seriously and never has the intention of hurting anyone's feelings.

I am glad I got to know Becca through this show and look forward to seeing what her future holds.

stuckinsc wrote:Becca continues to be a supportive class act.  

As for the Sean Lowe tweets, he can be a little tart in some of the things he says, but just like with Nick last season, when they nicely call him on it, he says he is sorry.  I don't think Sean means his tweets too seriously and never has the intention of hurting anyone's feelings.  

I am glad I got to know Becca through this show and look forward to seeing what her future holds.

Yeah, i dont think Sean takes the Bachelor too seriously....now that hes not the Bachelor. He seems like he is kind of making fun of the whole show.

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Jolena wrote:

100% disagree with you. Knowing the good kindhearted person that Chris is ( and we heard it from Andi , Becca, & Whitney), I see him as the type of person who has a hard time with hurting people and is very conscious of their feeling and puts their feelings above his own. no matter what he wasen't going to make Becca feel bad or disappoint Becca's fans into believing he was anything but a gentlemen and a soft hearted one at that. HE knows in his heart that his chosen one is the "ONE " and by putting the ring on her finger proves it.  Whitney will be the one who he spoils, loves and gets his attention for the rest of their lives. His future actions will speak much louder. IF he was so in love with Becca the outcome would have been that he chose her and would have took the relationship at her pace. He couldn't have loved Becca if he wasen't will to do that. I firmly believe it was Whitney all along and only Whitney. jmo

I agree with you Jolena 100%

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Jolena wrote:

100% disagree with you. Knowing the good kindhearted person that Chris is ( and we heard it from Andi , Becca, & Whitney), I see him as the type of person who has a hard time with hurting people and is very conscious of their feeling and puts their feelings above his own. no matter what he wasen't going to make Becca feel bad or disappoint Becca's fans into believing he was anything but a gentlemen and a soft hearted one at that. HE knows in his heart that his chosen one is the "ONE " and by putting the ring on her finger proves it.  Whitney will be the one who he spoils, loves and gets his attention for the rest of their lives. His future actions will speak much louder. IF he was so in love with Becca the outcome would have been that he chose her and would have took the relationship at her pace. He couldn't have loved Becca if he wasen't will to do that. I firmly believe it was Whitney all along and only Whitney. jmo

I agree with you Jolena 100%

I would agree with you with the exception of what he is showing us with the BL.

Jolena wrote:

Chrisbecca wrote:

Admin wrote:


He was patient?  

What?

She could not be happier for the two of them?  

She should be sad for them....even removing herself from the picture......he is not inlove with Whitney!

100% disagree with you. Knowing the good kindhearted person that Chris is ( and we heard it from Andi , Becca, & Whitney), I see him as the type of person who has a hard time with hurting people and is very conscious of their feeling and puts their feelings above his own. no matter what he wasen't going to make Becca feel bad or disappoint Becca's fans into believing he was anything but a gentlemen and a soft hearted one at that. HE knows in his heart that his chosen one is the "ONE " and by putting the ring on her finger proves it.  Whitney will be the one who he spoils, loves and gets his attention for the rest of their lives. His future actions will speak much louder. IF he was so in love with Becca the outcome would have been that he chose her and would have took the relationship at her pace. He couldn't have loved Becca if he wasen't will to do that. I firmly believe it was Whitney all along and only Whitney. jmo

I don't know...I think that's ignoring the REAL pressures of the producers on the shows who have threatened past leads into doing what they want. Especially since their last Bachelor was so hated, they wanted a proposal and a happy ending, no matter what. And, I think we can see that in past cases, like when Jason proposed to Melissa, although he barely knew her and had strong feelings for another woman, or when Jef proposed to Emily, although he later described their interactions as "we hung out a couple of times". Like it or not, an engagement means very little on the Bachelor/ette.

GuardianAngel wrote:

Mommyof1 wrote:

ElonM wrote:

Thanks, Elon!

Fliess missed a huge opportunity to pull one over on RS, by not leaking this photo.  He could've had RS believing Becca was indeed F1 with it...IMO.  Because to me it does not scream I'm not in love with you (from either side) and now let me walk you to your limo so I can propose to someone else, who is the love of my life.  But, again...JMHO.

But I wish all three well and much love and happiness in life moving forward.

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chasingpavements wrote:

Jolena wrote:

Chrisbecca wrote:

100% disagree with you. Knowing the good kindhearted person that Chris is ( and we heard it from Andi , Becca, & Whitney), I see him as the type of person who has a hard time with hurting people and is very conscious of their feeling and puts their feelings above his own. no matter what he wasen't going to make Becca feel bad or disappoint Becca's fans into believing he was anything but a gentlemen and a soft hearted one at that. HE knows in his heart that his chosen one is the "ONE " and by putting the ring on her finger proves it.  Whitney will be the one who he spoils, loves and gets his attention for the rest of their lives. His future actions will speak much louder. IF he was so in love with Becca the outcome would have been that he chose her and would have took the relationship at her pace. He couldn't have loved Becca if he wasen't will to do that. I firmly believe it was Whitney all along and only Whitney. jmo

I don't know...I think that's ignoring the REAL pressures of the producers on the shows who have threatened past leads into doing what they want. Especially since their last Bachelor was so hated, they wanted a proposal and a happy ending, no matter what. And, I think we can see that in past cases, like when Jason proposed to Melissa, although he barely knew her and had strong feelings for another woman, or when Jef proposed to Emily, although he later described their interactions as  "we hung out a couple of times". Like it or not, an engagement means very little on the Bachelor/ette.

Nevermind the pressure he was getting from his family to get a WIFE not a girlfriend. Although all he has momentarily is a girlfriend he isn't that into IMO.

Ladybug82 wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:

Mommyof1 wrote:

Thanks, Elon!

Fliess missed a huge opportunity to pull one over on RS, by not leaking this photo.  He could've had RS believing Becca was indeed F1 with it...IMO.  Because to me it does not scream I'm not in love with you (from either side) and now let me walk you to your limo so I can propose to someone else, who is the love of my life.  But, again...JMHO.

But I wish all three well and much love and happiness in life moving forward.

Fleiss got schooled by RS because of Whitney IMO. Traveling back and forth to Arlington (a town of 400 people where people will talk).

I just have to say if it isn't about finding a girlfriend it is about finding a wife then why are we not hearing about a wedding and why DWTS? Something doesn't smell right.

Thankfully, Becca is great. Emily's BIL is hot, I say go for it Becca get your butt back to Louisiana!

Ladybug82 wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:

Mommyof1 wrote:

Thanks, Elon!

Fliess missed a huge opportunity to pull one over on RS, by not leaking this photo.  He could've had RS believing Becca was indeed F1 with it...IMO.  Because to me it does not scream I'm not in love with you (from either side) and now let me walk you to your limo so I can propose to someone else, who is the love of my life.  But, again...JMHO.

But I wish all three well and much love and happiness in life moving forward.

Here again.....Chris (and Beccas) body language screaming ILY! He looks like a "man" with her unlike his neutered self with Whitney! Oh God....I gotta stop looking at this forum. I clearly dont understand why he made the decision he did. LOL