Bachelor 19 - Whitney Bischoff - Discussion #3

hdman wrote:Is it possible that this is what Chris and Whitney have done

I would personally hope so, but don't think Chris played the game while he was on DWTS as he did not seem to give her the time of day then. Unless they were hood winking us all this time
So we shall see what happens hope the suspense does not kill me....................

I don't think they have faked a break-up. BUT, I don't think he is going to be able to stay away.
I want to see her taking pictures with all kinds of good-looking men that are her fans and post them to SM.
I want to see him cry to Chris Harrison...maybe go all Mesnick and publicly say how badly he screwed up!

Think we can get that to happen?

bachelorfan777 wrote:

Bythelake wrote:Just s guess here.  I think Whit would not want another relationship in the spotlight again.  There are good guys in Chicago, she will find someone.

Could you say again what you saw on Whitney's instagram that you posted on their now closed fan forum? Do you know verbatim what the post was about them making a possible announcement?

Personally I hope Chris realizes what a huge mistake he made by ignoring Whitney and asks her back and she says no. IMO that would serve him right if it comes to light he was just using this experience as just an 'experience'. I hope she dates Josh Murray next or someone equally sweet and good looking. She seems to be really deserving of happiness.

So, in bold....I saw this too. Also on that thread someone said that Chris' former fiance had been in the audience of DWTS 2 times when Whit was back in Chicago. (Could this have been the deal breaker that memorial day weekend? hmmm??) The announcement thing was there, and then someone asked the poster about it, and they restated it again sort of emphatically. May be...
I think it was the thread on her instagram of her with her friends wearing RayBans. I tried to go back and research, but I could not find it. It probably has not been erased, but I just could not find it.

BowenAnderson wrote:I don't think they have faked a break-up.  BUT, I don't think he is going to be able to stay away.  
I want to see her taking pictures with all kinds of good-looking men that are her fans and post them to SM.  
I want to see him cry to Chris Harrison...maybe go all Mesnick and publicly say how badly he screwed up!

Think we can get that to happen?

Here is crossing toes & fingers with you that this will happen. Would really make my day to see him go all with the jealously of it all!!

I think the possible announcement is that while their in Europe visiting his sister they get married

Whitney would do much better to move on with her single life and put her engagement with Chris behind her, IMO. She did everything to support him and took a backseat in the relationship when she should have been the center of attention as a newly engaged woman.  Chris took advantage of her and blew it, IMO.  I think he probably pushed her beyond her limits when she had already had given him a lot of latitude.

My wish for her is to be happy and true to herself and if that is moving on as single woman without Chris, then I say Go Whit!  

MiniDiva wrote:Whitney would do much better to move on with her single life and put her engagement with Chris behind her, IMO. She did everything to support him and took a backseat in the relationship when she should have been the center of attention as a newly engaged woman.  Chris took advantage of her and blew it, IMO.  I think he probably pushed her beyond her limits when she had already had given him a lot of latitude.

My wish for her is to be happy and true to herself and if that is moving on as single woman without Chris, then I say Go Whit!  

Agree that he blew it. FOR SURE! She made all of the sacrifices and he treated their relationship/her poorly.
I will say it again, she is the one that (I think) called it off.

I just don't feel like it is over, maybe because we have not heard enough about what happened to get closure.
Arlington is going to get real REAL this month as things quiet down.

I want her to be happy, but I still want him to grovel.

^^Whitney is a classy lady and probably took efforts to keep it classy in the end.  So we may never feel the closure as fans.  But looking at her posts, she is making efforts to move on and do the right thing by being with friends and enjoying life.

I get the sense that Chris sees in black and white and nothing in between.  He is probably too dense to grovel unless Mama Soules knocks some sense into him.

The sooner Whitney can disassociate herself with Chris, the sooner she can move on and find true love with the right guy and find her own happiness.  IMO.

hdman wrote:I think the possible announcement is that while their in Europe visiting his sister they get married

Now that they have broken up, I think it is highly unlikely they will make a joint trip to anywhere.

IMO Chris couldn't give a rat's bum about Whitney. If he did, he wouldn't have treated her so poorly from start to finish. For me, I never saw him treat her like he couldn't live without her. IMO there's no reconciliation happening. W is too smart. There is no advantage to faking a break up. If they were happy why not continue the relationship and live happily ever after. There's no need to pretend anything when you're supposedly in love. He couldn't even pretend.

Those are typical rumours after a break up occur.

She is to be commended for trying to make it work. He's another Jake P in my books.

GuardianAngel wrote:IMO Chris couldn't give a rat's bum about Whitney. If he did, he wouldn't have treated her so poorly from start to finish. For me, I never saw him treat her like he couldn't live without her. IMO there's no reconciliation happening. W is too smart. There is no advantage to faking a break up. If they were happy why not continue the relationship and live happily ever after. There's no need to pretend anything when you're supposedly in love. He couldn't even pretend.

Those are typical rumours after a break up occur.

She is to be commended for trying to make it work. He's another Jake P in my books.

Amen!! Whit is clearly moving on with her life. Go Whit! ;)

GuardianAngel wrote:IMO Chris couldn't give a rat's bum about Whitney. If he did, he wouldn't have treated her so poorly from start to finish. For me, I never saw him treat her like he couldn't live without her. IMO there's no reconciliation happening. W is too smart. There is no advantage to faking a break up. If they were happy why not continue the relationship and live happily ever after. There's no need to pretend anything when you're supposedly in love. He couldn't even pretend.

Those are typical rumours after a break up occur.

She is to be commended for trying to make it work. He's another Jake P in my books.

Amen to that! ! I never though he cared deeply for her either, she did all the caring for both of them IMO. I am glad she finally saw the light outside of the bubble, better late than ever.. Totally agree with the bold.