Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilly #4

sanlee088 wrote:My sister is a nurse at Women's Hospital in Baton Rouge and one of her co-workers knew Becca from the sorority they were in together. She said Becca is a wonderful girl. What you see on screen is her. She isn't faking anything nor is she trying to impress anyone. She is who she is.

I can see chemistry between Chris and Becca. It literally jumps off the screen and you can tell on their fantasy date that they have great chemistry. However, being that Becca has never been in love before, I would hate to think that the feelings she is having towards Chris are forced because she is on a TV show and he is the bachelor. Do you know what I mean? I would hope that if she is the F1, they did not get engaged and are taking it slow. JMHO

Thanks for sharing and I can see why if Whit is final 1, why Chris was so "undecided." ;)

Can we pretty please get back to talking about Becca?    Mura, where are you?

happygolucky wrote:I really don't know what the h*ll happened in that interview with Ellen, I mean the guy most probably had some media training, it's also simply reasonable to prepare yourself what you would tell in the interviews about the contestants ... that's the reason most celebrities keep giving standard and same-old answers ... I don't know if Chris tries to change his answers about Whit/Bec each time, but it seemed like he was caught off guard or he memorized something and forgot in that moment and tried to save himself by adding then too much (and nonsense) ... so in hindsight what he said about Becca might have been scripted completely, but what he said about Whitney is completely off, no matter if she is or isn't F1, it sounds like that's the only word he remembered out of his prepared statement.

I thought that it was strange too and you could tell he was much more nervous talking about Becca than W. Which either means he was trying to be nice about her since he didn't pick her or that it was easier to put on the scripted face for his comments about W because he knew it wasn't W that he ends up with. I really don't think he is good at towing the line of saying what he is supposed to say when in interviews. His comments to Jimmy Kimmel when the season started gave away a TON of information. I have watched even his body language and words when Andi broke up with him and he seems much more scripted there than in any of the interactions he's had with Becca. I just don't think he is that good of an actor so for him to speak about real stuff with Becca seems like it is coming much more of a place of real, true feelings than with the other girls.

Hopefully that made sense.

I think someone needs to make another video of Becca and C hint hint. I so love them. The only thing they put me tears.

^^^^I see the quotes being attributed to me
Anyway, I don't know what Chris did or didn't do, I do care more for his F2 (F3) than him, wish best for all women. Since this is Becca's thread I really hope she continues on her journey, following her heart and remaining the same reasonable girl I've seen her being so far. So whatever decision she made, I can assume was heartfelt, hopefully done without pressure, trusting herself. I will respect it and after the FRC I won't comment on it.

concerned36 wrote:

Chrisbecca wrote:

happygolucky wrote:

AMEN! Someone needs to explain to Chris, when he met Becca, he found a treasure!  She is special! If he screwed (no pun intended) up his relationship with her by having sex with Kaitlyn, then he deserves to be alone out on his Iowa farm, with his cows and corn for the rest of his life!!!

This is why I think a man like Dez Duron is more Becca's type. One article a while back stated that Chris wasn't Becca's "usual type" and that neither Kaitlyn nor Becca were really into Chris. I'm not saying this is true, but it could be..  She should marry someone who shares her faith and values.  Because I can't see Chris waiting until marriage!

Yes but she dated Dez for 4 years already. Obviously that didn't work for her.

Hopefully wrote:I think someone needs to make another video of Becca and C hint hint. I so love them. The only thing they put me tears.

:cutesmile!:

hmbach wrote:

concerned36 wrote:

Chrisbecca wrote:

This is why I think a man like Dez Duron is more Becca's type. One article a while back stated that Chris wasn't Becca's "usual type" and that neither Kaitlyn nor Becca were really into Chris. I'm not saying this is true, but it could be..  She should marry someone who shares her faith and values.  Because I can't see Chris waiting until marriage!

Yes but she dated Dez for 4 years already.  Obviously that didn't work for her.  

I said a guy LIKE Dez - a Christian man.

hmbach wrote:

concerned36 wrote:

Chrisbecca wrote:

This is why I think a man like Dez Duron is more Becca's type. One article a while back stated that Chris wasn't Becca's "usual type" and that neither Kaitlyn nor Becca were really into Chris. I'm not saying this is true, but it could be..  She should marry someone who shares her faith and values.  Because I can't see Chris waiting until marriage!

Yes but she dated Dez for 4 years already.  Obviously that didn't work for her.  

This reminds me, a lot of the contestants on this show end up going back to their exes. Just by reading his tweets it seems he is still really into Becca.

My opinion is that I love Becca and her family. To me, Chris is a typical Bachelor. I was not a fan of Chris to begin with, now I'm even less a fan. But I love a love story just like anyone else, and I see this love story developing which is beautiful. One part of me wants Becca to be F1 and them to ride off into the sunset. But the realistic part of me says Chris is a "player", anyone can see that, a man not at all her type. I believe he likes the chase and the conquest, and that may be what we are seeing. Chris may be in the bubble, even though Becca is not. Chris is probably very intrigued with Becca, and honestly, it could be his vanity alone that makes him want to be the first man she falls in love with. Deep down, I don't want Becca to be F1. I want her to wait for the right man. Even if she is F1, I think it will not last. I don't think Chris and Whitney are going to last either.

Beagle wrote:

hmbach wrote:

concerned36 wrote:


This is why I think a man like Dez Duron is more Becca's type. One article a while back stated that Chris wasn't Becca's "usual type" and that neither Kaitlyn nor Becca were really into Chris. I'm not saying this is true, but it could be..  She should marry someone who shares her faith and values.  Because I can't see Chris waiting until marriage!

Yes but she dated Dez for 4 years already.  Obviously that didn't work for her.  

This reminds me, a lot of the contestants on this show end up going back to their exes. Just by reading his tweets it seems he is still really into Becca.

In fact, some contestants may be going on the show just to make their ex jealous and realize what they let go. Rebound thing. Remember Becca said on the South Dakota date that it hurt bc her ex did not reciprocate her feelings, yet in Iowa date she sort of contradicting that when she said she had never been in love before and that she couldn't picture herself being married to him and him a father to her children. I just wonder if the producers got her to tweak her story for the "first time" love story... just wondering....

^^ I agree. She was with him for four years or longer and was not working but they remained friends. ;)