Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilly #4

I totally agree with you happy, I guess I kinda put the words rong in reference to C. What I was trying to put out there was. In the show not just Chris but the whole thing.

Also about the preview. All the things that are said in their PI usually is TPTB instigated, meaning they answer certain questions, just the same they are told many things along the process. As they are reaching the end, knowing that Chris is the one who will have to make a choice, I would assume, they are being asked what they think are their chances, how does that moment feel, the tension of not knowing whether you will be the one or not. For him, the pressure to really choose the "right" woman, the one he will eventually marry (I actually believe he wants that, so in a way TPTB really chose the perfect bachelor, who is there for "right reasons" ... although it may not be "as soon as possible" as they are making it sound). Also, I'm inclined to believe he actually fell for one (ILY is too much for me, but I get that the bubble makes it easier to believe and say), so there is fear, whether the other side feels the same (nobody wants to be loved less). So all those clips of tears and "deep pensive thoughts" are just "stories", to stir up the journey, keep the viewers involved (otherwise the monotonic and constant growth or fall isn't interesting or convincing), to make the audience want the conquest of fear and the triumph of love.

Hopefully I really don't think there is a good or bad character in this game. That's why I believe it is a difficult choice to make and coin flipping can actually do the trick, so if Chris actually tried it, I'm laughing at the thought how many times did he then change the "side" to get the one he wanted?. Because he must have known the answer, but the FR is a moment when he has to be a man and seal a "deal".

I know "feelings" arent really sleuthing, but after rewatching the FS dates episode and next week preview, and reading comments here, all of the sudden Im feeling like things are being "staged". I didnt really feel that before now, although I know this is Hollywood and its hard to decipher whats real and whats fake.

What Im feeling is after Chris's hometown date with Becca, HE KNEW! He knew she was the one he wanted to continue to get to know, probably wanted to end the filming right then....but the show must go on. If he didnt say anything to the producers, it became all too obvious...as was said by CH that Chris wears his heart on his sleeve, and they had to start making things up to fulfill the obligations to complete the season. JMO

man, I'm supposed to do my work, have tons of pages to translate, but instead my escaping here ... just, have been thinking, to me that whole video of Becca walking on the beach and Chris talking how unsure he is about her feelings ... made me laugh so hard.
Can you imagine the crew telling Bec .. "now walk down the beach, look really absorbed in your thoughts... camera ready" and his speech ... to me it seems so obvious, like too much is revealed, that she is it ... that it made me think, why would they show this to us? - are they playing me and then in the last minute they would pull the rug ...
but reading around (all over net) most people think he was unsure if letting her go at F3 ... most people are convinced he picks Whitney. (I've never before read so many celebrities weighting in about the final choice) ... so the video actually wasn't as revealing as I thought.
TVbachelor video - Bali (Nusa Dua)

happygolucky wrote:man, I'm supposed to do my work, have tons of pages to translate, but instead my escaping here ... just, have been thinking, to me that whole video of Becca walking on the beach and Chris talking how unsure he is about her feelings ... made me laugh so hard.
Can you imagine the crew telling Bec .. "now walk down the beach, look really absorbed in your thoughts... camera ready" and his speech ... to me it seems so obvious, like too much is revealed, that she is it ... that it made me think, why would they show this to us? - are they playing me and then in the last minute they would pull the rug ...
but reading around (all over net) most people think he was unsure if letting her go at F3 ... most people are convinced he picks Whitney. (I've never before read so many celebrities weighting in about the final choice) ... so the video actually wasn't as revealing as I thought.
TVbachelor video - Bali (Nusa Dua)

I just posted something similiar.

You are right....its laughable!

And about the celebrities weighing in on his final choice. I noticed that too...just goofy! We are being played.

Chrisbecca wrote:

happygolucky wrote:man, I'm supposed to do my work, have tons of pages to translate, but instead my escaping here ... just, have been thinking, to me that whole video of Becca walking on the beach and Chris talking how unsure he is about her feelings ... made me laugh so hard.
Can you imagine the crew telling Bec .. "now walk down the beach, look really absorbed in your thoughts... camera ready" and his speech ... to me it seems so obvious, like too much is revealed, that she is it ... that it made me think, why would they show this to us? - are they playing me and then in the last minute they would pull the rug ...
but reading around (all over net) most people think he was unsure if letting her go at F3 ... most people are convinced he picks Whitney. (I've never before read so many celebrities weighting in about the final choice) ... so the video actually wasn't as revealing as I thought.
TVbachelor video - Bali (Nusa Dua)

I just posted something similiar.

You are right....its laughable!

And about the celebrities weighing in on his final choice. I noticed that too...just goofy! We are being played.

but..but..MF did say..this is the most shocking season, right?... (yet being claimed as the most romantic as well ). Hey! why not showing the wuv story since people won't buy it anyway. Much Thanks to you dear RS, for your kindly spoiler :Chris:

Chrisbecca yeah ... can you imagine "Chris, sit beside the pool, gaze into the distance, left, right, more preoccupied! ... OK, we have it... get out, let's have a beer." ... the way they slice and arrange the scenes in his speech video is really a method of suggestion that he is crying over the fact that he isn't sure he is making the right decision (of letting Kaitlyn go and Becca stay)... but only in first 50 seconds we get to hear 5 different VO, some could be done after filming, just for an additional problem.
"Last thing I wanna do is feel this way and have these questions." (0:45)

Mommyof1 wrote:In episode 3, Chris and Becca have SQT on the roof with the breathtaking LA backdrop and this is the first time we are introduced to their "hand dances"...palms flat, then fingers intertwined, but no kiss.  Fast forward to the FS and we can see them doing the same exact "hand dance" through the curtain, but this time, there is kissing.  Just something I noticed.

for you Mommy :

happygolucky-i can imagine it!  The scenes of Chris beside the pool and Becca on the beach....so contrived!  It drives me crazy...because I think logically. i dont like being manipulated!

murasaki1393 wrote:

Chrisbecca wrote:

happygolucky wrote:man, I'm supposed to do my work, have tons of pages to translate, but instead my escaping here ... just, have been thinking, to me that whole video of Becca walking on the beach and Chris talking how unsure he is about her feelings ... made me laugh so hard.
Can you imagine the crew telling Bec .. "now walk down the beach, look really absorbed in your thoughts... camera ready" and his speech ... to me it seems so obvious, like too much is revealed, that she is it ... that it made me think, why would they show this to us? - are they playing me and then in the last minute they would pull the rug ...
but reading around (all over net) most people think he was unsure if letting her go at F3 ... most people are convinced he picks Whitney. (I've never before read so many celebrities weighting in about the final choice) ... so the video actually wasn't as revealing as I thought.
TVbachelor video - Bali (Nusa Dua)

I just posted something similiar.

You are right....its laughable!

And about the celebrities weighing in on his final choice. I noticed that too...just goofy! We are being played.

but..but..MF did say..this is the most shocking season, right?... (yet being claimed as the most romantic as well ). Hey! why not showing the wuv story since people won't buy it anyway. Much Thanks to you dear RS, for your kindly spoiler :Chris:

https://www.bachandbachettefans.net/t2817p768-bachelor-19-chris-soules-episode-9-spoilers-sleuthing#753540

Hey, ladies, I saw that and said the same thing awhile back on this linked page. I can read it, but don't know if you can. Glad to know I am not the only one who thought that.