Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #3

eliza3 wrote:^^^  to me "appeared" is the key word.   I for one simply can't make the leap to either of their true behaviors based on SM and travel.  JMHO  

I suppose, but regardless, all of what I said was what we have seen, and all of that to me IMO is clearly controlling behavior by one person. Sure, things happen behind closed doors, but IMO, there's no doubt we saw controlling behavior by Andi numerous times. Whether it was a storyboard or not, we even saw it on the show.

I'm not saying Josh is perfect, because no one is, but what I've seen of Andi just says a lot to me about what she wants and who she is. It's just yucky IMO.

Ash2214 wrote:

eliza3 wrote:^^^  to me "appeared" is the key word.   I for one simply can't make the leap to either of their true behaviors based on SM and travel.  JMHO  

I suppose, but regardless, all of what I said was what we have seen, and all of that to me IMO is clearly controlling behavior by one person. Sure, things happen behind closed doors, but IMO, there's no doubt we saw controlling behavior by Andi numerous times. Whether it was a storyboard or not, we even saw it on the show.

I'm not saying Josh is perfect, because no one is, but what I've seen of Andi just says a lot to me about what she wants and who she is. It's just yucky IMO.

There was a reason she was called MEAndi.

Called MeAndi by who? Most people that I see call her by her given name.

luvlady345 wrote:Called MeAndi by who? Most people that I see call her by her given name.

By many members on this board and other boards the name suits her perfectly JMO.

Oh really? A few people I see.

luvlady345 wrote:Oh really? A few people I see.

i have asked this question over and over but not one person has responded. How in the world is she a role model to anyone? What has she done for her fans to look up to?

i know you are a fan of hers so I thought just maybe someone could finally answer this ?

I dunno. None of these people are my role models, maybe it will be best of you go to her IG and ask the people who post it there.

bleuberry wrote:I'm not excusing Josh, I don't think either of them are much of a catch really and both have some growing up to do.

Yup. Why that season totally turned me off by the end. Not people or a couple I could relate to in any way or find likable. No ill will towards them, wish them luck and hope they each find someone who makes them become a better, more mature version of themselves and they can settle into a life they are happy with. But as an escapist summer guilty pleasure romance, they sure didn't do it for me last summer. Hoping for a better "story" and "characters" this go round.

luvlady345 wrote:I dunno. None of these people are my role models, maybe it will be best of you go to her IG and ask the people who post it there.  

That is what I thought but Thank You for the reply. :cutesmile!:

whit90 wrote:

luvlady345 wrote:Oh really? A few people I see.

i have asked this question over and over but not one person has responded.  How in the world is she a role model to anyone? What has she done for her fans to look up to?

i know you are a fan of hers so I thought just maybe someone could finally answer this ?

I have a similar question that I asked before and never got answers:
Why do people,**edited** call her a strong woman?
A woman with strong personality, yes, but what has she done that shows her a strong woman?

sdmom wrote:

whit90 wrote:

luvlady345 wrote:Oh really? A few people I see.

i have asked this question over and over but not one person has responded.  How in the world is she a role model to anyone? What has she done for her fans to look up to?

i know you are a fan of hers so I thought just maybe someone could finally answer this ?

I have a similar question that I asked before and never got answers:
Why do people, **edited** call her a strong woman?
A woman with strong personality, yes, but what has she done that shows her a strong woman?

I have no idea why she considered a strong woman. I guess the few fans that she still has can't come up with a answer either . :shocked!:

^^^ I admire Andi but don't really want to get into a discussion about my thoughts here. I think that it has been long enough that those of us who following her and have opinions on why will never agree with those who don't. So to me, that conversation will end up with agreeing to disagree. JMHO