Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #3

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ndi Dorfman @AndiDorfman  ·  Apr 22
Umm can you repeat that, I was distracted by your hotness  #filming #workingout #sorta

GuardianAngel wrote:

luvlady345 wrote: snipped

There is nothing wrong with saying someone is hot or appreciate someone's beauty, even if you are in a relationship or just recently gotten out of one, you are not dead or blind .....

Sorry I wouldn't call my cousin hot, I'd call him a good looking guy.

emusha wrote:Isnipped..

she has a responsibility to at least be compassionate to him because she kept saying she 'loved hearing how in love he was with her  ...snipped

...........while throwing her head back laughing.

emusha wrote: oh you jokesters!!! love the snark

I think the reason we all give her so much flack is cos she represents herself as perfect! There are so many out there who are imperfect including nick and josh  but Andi doesn't seem to want to take responsibility for or admit to any mistake she makes -- JPG was in the wrong and she wouldn't let go of her criticism of him joking about him and maintaining he was wrong and she the victim and constantly sticking it to him over and over ... with Eric she was baffled at the extent of his accusations when she having gone through the process could have understood that he was having difficulty with the process and she could have comforted him and tried to be vulnerable with him. Instead she took offense and went on the attack needing to be 100% right! With CS she represented herself as such a matyr and sooo great and wonderful for not putting him through a rose ceremony while whining and crying her tone seeming to say "ohh poor me I have to break up with you and look how great i'm being by letting you go early but boo hoo I have to do it and I don't want to..."
And with nick I can't even begin to imagine why she was so indignant that someone fell in love with her enough and wanted explanations?!?! and he went every route possible to get that explanation -- she acted like she was angry at him for that and she was the victim again of a stalkeresque ex who is sl** shaming her -- if only she'd given him space and a private convo who knows what could have happened instead??

It's unfortunate and sad that she has to be 100% right or act like she's doing everyone a favor when she makes any concessions...and nobody expects her to be perfect but she does need to admit to her flaws and take responsibility for her actions.

MiaHawk wrote:I can't stand her fake, sing-songy voice.  Like fingernails on a blackboard to my ears. Sometimes I tune into QVC just to listen to the hosts gush and coo over something stupid with disproportionate enthusiasm just so I can laugh at their idiocy.  Andi gives off the same vibe to me.  Maybe someday I'll tune in to her dribble so I can get a few haha's.

cindebugg wrote:

MiaHawk wrote:I can't stand her fake, sing-songy voice.  Like fingernails on a blackboard to my ears. Sometimes I tune into QVC just to listen to the hosts gush and coo over something stupid with disproportionate enthusiasm just so I can laugh at their idiocy.  Andi gives off the same vibe to me.  Maybe someday I'll tune in to her dribble so I can get a few haha's.

When I moved to Atlanta 30 years ago the bold became one of my biggest pet peeves.  My G.R.I.T.S  talk when it's appropriate and sing when it's appropriate.  I made sure of it.

IMHO, Andi is nothing more than a mean girl who thinks she's the cream of the crop and everyone should worship the ground she walks on.   She sold Josh a bill of goods she had no intention of following through with.   It's pretty clear that she wants a man who will follow her around and carry her purse while she does whatever she wants.   She doesn't want a partnership.  She wants a whipping boy.    I think we all want someone to love us for us but when you've been shown to be an uncompromising B who changes goals midstream depending on her shiny new want you aren't going to have successful relationships. Ever.