Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #3

alberta3 wrote: Is it my imagination or there was something on Nick tread that he was running his mouth about Andi on his recent trip to NY? For someone who has moved on, he sure has a lot to say. So what is so classy about Nick again?

Andi has not said or done anything to Nick after the show order than the tweet she favored. Even when people were asking her about what Nick said about sleeping together, all she said was it is what it is or we leave on a high note. If she has not favored people will think it was true so IMO she did the right thing.

Since I never watched the show from the beginning, can someone tell me if Andi is/was the only one who slept with two people on the show?

stuckinsc wrote:I am a Nick fan and have heard not one thing about him talking about Andi in NYC.  Since the week after the finale, Nick has not said one bad thing about Andi and if anything he said she handled her interview well.  I generally don't talk about Nick here, but since it was brought up I thought I would answer.  Also, Nick's family never favorited anything negative about Andi at all.

alberta3 wrote:SDMOM and STUCKINSC  The video somebody record of him talking about Andi (fan forum thread 12) is not true? Is that right? If so, then I'm sorry to bring it up.

Sable wrote:I'm glad that Andi posted and addressed the rumors as false; however, I think it was in extremely poor taste for her and her mom to favor posts that said that Nick was classless.  I think that Nick and Andi's groups of friends just happened to meet up that night, but if she thought Nick was so classless and beneath her, then she shouldn't have been sitting next to him.  She could have chosen to leave the bar once she realized Nick was there or she could have chosen to sit on the opposite side of Christy, away from Nick.  It just rubs me the wrong way that she continually tries to put Nick down like she thinks she is better than him.  Maybe Nick shouldn't have said what he said at ATFR, but Andi has some responsibility in the evolution of their relationship and how it ended as well.  I don't want to turn this into a debate about what should or shouldn't go on in the fantasy suite, but Andi did choose to sleep with Nick.  Earlier this week I was watching E! News and Ali Fedotowsky was on and talking about her time as the bachelorette and about the fantasy suite.  Ali said she did not sleep with any of the F3 during the overnight dates.  If Andi didn't want to deal with any fallout from sleeping with Nick, then she shouldn't have slept with Nick in the fantasy suite.  Putting him down now so long after the fact is what is classless, imo.

Mustang19 wrote:

whit90 wrote:I really hope by now that Andi is moving on . I read over and over how she inspires people but I just do not see how. I really would like to honestly know what does she do to inspire people. She is a grown woman with no job, no home, is not inspirational in MO . She works out , shops, and post IG's . Where did the strong independent MeAndi go?  Or was she always this insecure woman that could have it all but lost it . To me it is very sad....JMO

I agree Whit. I don't see what she does that is inspiring. It's like people who win the lottery and then end up worse off before they started. She was The Bachelorette, probably made a little money off it, but then gave up a law career and seems to enjoy spending her earnings on material things. Who knows how much she has left, if anything. I would hope that she is busy filling out applications and getting back to work. Can't see her making it as a designer when she has no training or education in that field. She seemed to have it all at one point, and now nothing.

Sable wrote:

Ash2214 wrote:

Sable wrote:I'm glad that Andi posted and addressed the rumors as false; however, I think it was in extremely poor taste for her and her mom to favor posts that said that Nick was classless.  I think that Nick and Andi's groups of friends just happened to meet up that night, but if she thought Nick was so classless and beneath her, then she shouldn't have been sitting next to him.  She could have chosen to leave the bar once she realized Nick was there or she could have chosen to sit on the opposite side of Christy, away from Nick.  It just rubs me the wrong way that she continually tries to put Nick down like she thinks she is better than him.  Maybe Nick shouldn't have said what he said at ATFR, but Andi has some responsibility in the evolution of their relationship and how it ended as well.  I don't want to turn this into a debate about what should or shouldn't go on in the fantasy suite, but Andi did choose to sleep with Nick.  Earlier this week I was watching E! News and Ali Fedotowsky was on and talking about her time as the bachelorette and about the fantasy suite.  Ali said she did not sleep with any of the F3 during the overnight dates.  If Andi didn't want to deal with any fallout from sleeping with Nick, then she shouldn't have slept with Nick in the fantasy suite.  Putting him down now so long after the fact is what is classless, imo.

I guess in all fairness to both of them, it looks like Andi and Christy are sitting at the bar and Nick is standing at the bar. It's possible Nick was elsewhere in the bar with his group of friends and went up to get another drink, hence not sitting at the bar, but standing there and that's when the person was able to snap a couple of pictures. If there was more interacting, there would have been better pictures IMO. Given the two pictures, it's possible that was the situation given it doesn't even look like they're necessarily interacting and maybe Andi and Nick were just cordial to each other knowing they were both there. It's possible to be in the same room with a person that you don't like and I think Andi and her family's favorites show she still doesn't like him.

Bolding by me...

I agree.  Andi still doesn't like Nick.  I also think it is in extremely poor taste for Andi to continue to favor posts and tweets that say negative and derogatory things about Nick.  Likewise, I think it would be in extremely poor taste if Nick had recently favored a tweet that said something negative about Andi and the whole recent meetup.

The point of my post wasn't about Andi and Nick being in the bar together.  Whether it was on accident or on purpose, it doesn't matter to me.  What matters to me is that till this day, Andi continues to put Nick down in order to make herself look better.  That just totally and completely rubs me the wrong way.  I did say that I am glad that Andi addressed the rumors that are out there as false, but I think she could have done that w/out putting Nick down.