Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilley - #2

Litta123 wrote:

murasaki1393 wrote:***snipped***
so yes Litta...im still gonna give him the benefit of the doubt. IF he  is lucky enough to end up with B   , my sentiment will pretty much like i had toward Des : you gotta treat my girl right, farmer..or my claws are out!..

I'll be right there with you, mura, with my pitchfork. However, I think we're going to have to get in line behind the Tilley clan. Woe to Chris, if he messes with their girl.

I mean that in the best possible way. I love their family. They seem like they'd take care of their own. I think they got burned in the edit, too.

burned in the edit: the Siegfrieds, all are loving, kind people, whom i adore as well, got worse... Its just how TPTB works! Meh!..

haha!! you bet.. the other 2 , bigger athletic Chris, will prey this farmer Chris alive! ..j/k :P

Mommyof1 wrote:^^ That Taylor Swift song, "You Are In Love" that she tweeted on Valentine's Day was very suspicious!

I think so too. There are so many lines in the lyrics that would fit their situation perfectly. There was even something about light reflecting off the chain around her neck! Way to tease us.

I'm surprised I got sucked into caring about this season, since it seemed like a trainwreck at first. Becca's just one of my favourite contestants ever and one of the very few I'd actually like to be friends with. 99% of these women I can't relate to at all and most either come off as delusional or annoying to me. That's why a part of me is hoping she doesn't get chosen and ends up being the Bachelorette, because I'd love to see more of her! Then again I don't know if they'd even consider her as the lead and she seems to have such a natural connection with Chris. It's lovely to watch and I hope it continues. Mixed feelings.

I agree about this season being a bit like Des's. I didn't want her as the lead either because she just seemed a bit desperate to me, but in hindsight I have great appreciation for her, especially after Andi. She was such a sweetheart the entire time and really put her heart on the line. I prefer to have a lead who's a genuinely nice person, since I think they've been lacking lately. My boyfriend thinks Chris is great and is always defending him against my accusations, but then again he likes to root for the underdog.

mimitalks wrote:*snipped*
Then there is this. We spoilers know that she was with him at Elan's birthday party (not filmed according to something reported to RS), later kissing him in the parking lot, right? What has Sean emphasized in his book? How they want everything caught on film, so as not to miss anything. Sean fought for those times with Catherine - could Chris have fought for those times with Becca? Something to think about. Speaking of RS, he seemed absolutely certain that her 2nd one-on-one date (never was it brought out onscreen how unprecedented that anyone would have a 1-on-1 again the next week. Why have we never seen the girls question that - or resent it?) wouldn't even be shown. And when it was, he belittled the fact that only 4 minutes was shown. We know how important those 4 minutes were - it gave us the sunset shot we saw in the big promo (talk about hiding who it was!) and the depth of their relationship at that point.

Why, why, why has Becca been so hidden??? Something to think about.

This seems important to me too. TPTB brushed over this as best as they could. No date card, no reaction from the other girls, no explanation and then that "4 minutes" continued to Elan's party.

I was surprised that Whitney was on the group date where Chris was kissing and ran off with Britt in front of the girls. If he had done that in front of Becca I'd consider that a red flag. In ep. 3 he gave Becca the GD rose over Britt, so it would have been interesting to see if things would have gone differently in Becca had been there too.

grace8136 wrote:

mimitalks wrote:*snipped*
Then there is this. We spoilers know that she was with him at Elan's birthday party (not filmed according to something reported to RS), later kissing him in the parking lot, right? What has Sean emphasized in his book? How they want everything caught on film, so as not to miss anything. Sean fought for those times with Catherine - could Chris have fought for those times with Becca? Something to think about. Speaking of RS, he seemed absolutely certain that her 2nd one-on-one date (never was it brought out onscreen how unprecedented that anyone would have a 1-on-1 again the next week. Why have we never seen the girls question that - or resent it?) wouldn't even be shown. And when it was, he belittled the fact that only 4 minutes was shown. We know how important those 4 minutes were - it gave us the sunset shot we saw in the big promo (talk about hiding who it was!) and the depth of their relationship at that point.

Why, why, why has Becca been so hidden??? Something to think about.

This seems important to me too. TPTB brushed over this as best as they could. No date card, no reaction from the other girls, no explanation and then that "4 minutes" continued to Elan's party.

I was surprised that Whitney was on the group date where Chris was kissing and ran off with Britt in front of the girls. If he had done that in front of Becca I'd consider that a red flag. In ep. 3 he gave Becca the GD rose over Britt, so it would have been interesting to see if things would have gone differently in Becca had been there too.

The fact Becca went to a party with Chris and no cameras. AND, seen kissing (making out) in the parking lot. This is one of the biggest clues imo. Things that make you go hmmmm! ;)

Aunties_Love wrote:

Diana wrote:He's said that to Kaitlyn and Whitney too.

BUT, did he actually say it TO them or just in ITM's?  I thought it was only in ITM's??

to Whitney at least.

Becca looks so happy and that makes me so happy.

grace8136 wrote:

mimitalks wrote:*snipped*
Then there is this. We spoilers know that she was with him at Elan's birthday party (not filmed according to something reported to RS), later kissing him in the parking lot, right? What has Sean emphasized in his book? How they want everything caught on film, so as not to miss anything. Sean fought for those times with Catherine - could Chris have fought for those times with Becca? Something to think about. Speaking of RS, he seemed absolutely certain that her 2nd one-on-one date (never was it brought out onscreen how unprecedented that anyone would have a 1-on-1 again the next week. Why have we never seen the girls question that - or resent it?) wouldn't even be shown. And when it was, he belittled the fact that only 4 minutes was shown. We know how important those 4 minutes were - it gave us the sunset shot we saw in the big promo (talk about hiding who it was!) and the depth of their relationship at that point.

Why, why, why has Becca been so hidden??? Something to think about.

This seems important to me too. TPTB brushed over this as best as they could. No date card, no reaction from the other girls, no explanation and then that "4 minutes" continued to Elan's party.

I was surprised that Whitney was on the group date where Chris was kissing and ran off with Britt in front of the girls. If he had done that in front of Becca I'd consider that a red flag. In ep. 3 he gave Becca the GD rose over Britt, so it would have been interesting to see if things would have gone differently in Becca had been there too.

I am #teamBecca and think she is F1, but I also remember Catherine tweeting that she never got a group date rose! So I am unsure if the group date rose would matter on the grand scale of things

soccermom333 wrote:

grace8136 wrote:

mimitalks wrote:*snipped*
Then there is this. We spoilers know that she was with him at Elan's birthday party (not filmed according to something reported to RS), later kissing him in the parking lot, right? What has Sean emphasized in his book? How they want everything caught on film, so as not to miss anything. Sean fought for those times with Catherine - could Chris have fought for those times with Becca? Something to think about. Speaking of RS, he seemed absolutely certain that her 2nd one-on-one date (never was it brought out onscreen how unprecedented that anyone would have a 1-on-1 again the next week. Why have we never seen the girls question that - or resent it?) wouldn't even be shown. And when it was, he belittled the fact that only 4 minutes was shown. We know how important those 4 minutes were - it gave us the sunset shot we saw in the big promo (talk about hiding who it was!) and the depth of their relationship at that point.

Why, why, why has Becca been so hidden??? Something to think about.

This seems important to me too. TPTB brushed over this as best as they could. No date card, no reaction from the other girls, no explanation and then that "4 minutes" continued to Elan's party.

I was surprised that Whitney was on the group date where Chris was kissing and ran off with Britt in front of the girls. If he had done that in front of Becca I'd consider that a red flag. In ep. 3 he gave Becca the GD rose over Britt, so it would have been interesting to see if things would have gone differently in Becca had been there too.

The fact Becca went to a party with Chris and no cameras.  AND, seen kissing (making out) in the parking lot.  This is one of the biggest clues imo. Things that make you go hmmmm!  ;)

But at the same time Whitney and Chris celebrated his birthday (without cameras?). He would kiss the girls anyway because he needs to give everyone the same chanse to find the right one (isnt that was everyone is saying?)

Diana wrote:

Aunties_Love wrote:

Diana wrote:He's said that to Kaitlyn and Whitney too.

BUT, did he actually say it TO them or just in ITM's?  I thought it was only in ITM's??

to Whitney at least.

Becca looks so happy and that makes me so happy.

Did Chris say it to her?? I am curious.

I am happy BOTH girls seem happy. I think this might be the first season we can actually see the final 1 and 2 being friends.

^ He said it to her on the Wedding Crashers date while they were on the dance floor. You could not see him saying it though.

Mommyof1 wrote:^  He said it to her on the Wedding Crashers date while they were on the dance floor.  You could not see him saying it though.    

Yep, just watched the date back he did say it to her although you actually see him saying it

I was going to say he said while they were dancing but you guys are on top of things.

Either way, Chris really is so lucky!

Chris knows what type of woman is best for him, so we will just have to wait and see how this all plays out. Everyone seems happy, so that's always a good sign. The next few weeks should be interesting and fun...then I can get back to my life!