Married At First Sight - Season 2 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - Discussion

Can't wait! Hope it is fun!

Ok. Sean, you do have a high sense of self- Christian Grey really,Ok, then. btw, dude is perverted so equating yourself to him is no bueno, bro.

I so dislike Sean

Oh Sean.    Enough of him. Jess and Ryan have a huge hurdle to jump over and have said some very hurtful things to one another.  Can they get past them??  Time will tell.  

Not sure about the other couple.  I believe jac was/is hurt by Ryan and she even tweeted about him not liking her personality tonight.  Maybe they don't stay married.  He has not tweeted in a couple of weeks so maybe even if they stayed married, they are over now.  Not the friendly (flirting) banter on twitter happening like it was in the beginning.    Thoughts?

Jac and Ryan aren't following each other on Twitter. Was that always the case?

Not from what I usually read here, maybe it is over now.

They are actually following each other and always have been. Just checked again. Still think something might be off. I believe they stayed married but now might be over. Who knows. We will know soon.

I started watching and then was grossed out by Sean and Davina so I passed. Not good.

^^^ Yes Linds something is wrong with Sean unless it is all editing but imo I don't think it is.

I used to like this show now I dont even want to watch back to the bachelorette/bachelor. They screwup royally this season it was not like before. I am over it to be truthful.

I don't know that Ryan did not like Jac's personality. I think he felt that she was always driving the bus and not letting him drive. Learning how to navigate power and responsibility in a marriage can take quite a while. Jac needs to hear from Ryan that he wants to be an equal partner and does not want to feel that she is always dominating. I think people who want to be in control often have trust issues. I believe Jac has expressed that sentiment (recall her saying she let him catch her - which again is trust). Also she has been independent and out of the house for a long time, living alone. She is accustomed to running her own life and work. Old habits die hard. Similarly, Ryan has never left home and sublimated his own life in part to take care of his mother and niece. He is accustomed to putting himself second. Finally, both are/were afraid to invest too much because they did not want to be left out in the cold. As one of the experts tweeted (I believe Dr. Logan), you can't be in a good relationship if you are always thinking in terms of one is the winner and one is the loser. I would add that you need to win together and lose together and be each other's biggest fan (at least IMO). I suspect that Ryan's fear of having to choose and Jac's fear of not being what he wanted was something neither of them realized in the very intense, short time.

I'm 3 episodes behind and am not sure I'll even watch. I was interested in Ryan & Jaclyn after giving up on the others but not sure about them either.