Re: Josh Murray - Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - Thread #7

by julychild Mon Mar 30, 2015 10:18 pm

From Andi's interview, I bet the breakup was a relief by the time they got around to it. BTW, he should forget about being the bachelor. Not happening.

Go on BIP, Josh!

by jen689 Mon Mar 30, 2015 10:28 pm

julychild wrote:Go on BIP, Josh!

I think the producers want Josh on BIP. He was with Robert G from BIP1 and Kiptyn from BP yesterday at the iheart music awards. He most likely received VIP treatment at the DWTS taping today. They're probably willing to pay him top dollar. Even if he doesn't find a love connection on BIP2 IMO the money, fun times with the cast and crew and the increased exposure for his Advocare business would be great perks for appearing on the show.

by bleuberry Mon Mar 30, 2015 10:29 pm

Yeah, they're definitely not on good terms laugh out loud

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But he was being honest and that's fine. He probably wasn't expecting that question.

by mindless Mon Mar 30, 2015 10:35 pm

SafronSahara wrote:Did y'all read Josh's comments about the breakup in US Weekly? Such a d#ckhead thing to say that you don't miss the former love of your life. I like Josh but that's not cool. At least Andi admitted she was still heartbroken.

I don't think Josh can admit to being heartbroken, when he's not. He was dying to get rid of her for a while. His comment that they're "very different" says it all. Andi is not the person he thought she was. Not saying it's all Andi's fault though. He definitely went into the whole thing with rose-coloured glasses and made promises he couldn't keep. That said, I can't fault him for telling it like it is. I doubt he wants to leave any room for interpretation, especially if Andi's been having a hard time getting over it.

by nannymargie Mon Mar 30, 2015 10:43 pm

mindless wrote:
SafronSahara wrote:Did y'all read Josh's comments about the breakup in US Weekly? Such a d#ckhead thing to say that you don't miss the former love of your life. I like Josh but that's not cool. At least Andi admitted she was still heartbroken.

I don't think Josh can admit to being heartbroken, when he's not. He was dying to get rid of her for a while. His comment that they're "very different" says it all. Andi is not the person he thought she was. Not saying it's all Andi's fault though. He definitely went into the whole thing with rose-coloured glasses and made promises he couldn't keep. That said, I can't fault him for telling it like it is. I doubt he wants to leave any room for interpretation, especially if Andi's been having a hard time getting over it.

I don't think they were different I think they were too much alike and that was the problem. MM even said that Andi was his match.

by notarose Mon Mar 30, 2015 10:45 pm

bleuberry wrote:Yeah, they're definitely not on good terms .

But he was being honest and that's fine. He probably wasn't expecting that question.

He probably wasn't expecting the question as stated. I don't really think he is a diplomatic speaker regardless but a flat out "no" is an effective way to stop that line of questioning. Perhaps the next time a reporter approaches him they'll NOT ask about Andi. They announced their break up in January. It's old news.

by umngirl Mon Mar 30, 2015 10:46 pm

When I said good terms I moreso meant that they weren't fighting publicly with each other through the media or taking part in horrible break-up interviews together. That's a step up from some past couples.

by julychild Mon Mar 30, 2015 10:50 pm

nannymargie wrote:
mindless wrote:
SafronSahara wrote:Did y'all read Josh's comments about the breakup in US Weekly? Such a d#ckhead thing to say that you don't miss the former love of your life. I like Josh but that's not cool. At least Andi admitted she was still heartbroken.

I don't think Josh can admit to being heartbroken, when he's not. He was dying to get rid of her for a while. His comment that they're "very different" says it all. Andi is not the person he thought she was. Not saying it's all Andi's fault though. He definitely went into the whole thing with rose-coloured glasses and made promises he couldn't keep. That said, I can't fault him for telling it like it is. I doubt he wants to leave any room for interpretation, especially if Andi's been having a hard time getting over it.

I don't think they were different I think they were too much alike and that was the problem. MM even said that Andi was his match.

If Josh says they were "very different," then they were, to me. He was a part of the relationship and knows what he is talking about.

by albean99 Mon Mar 30, 2015 10:52 pm

I don't think he'll be TB either. Too many other better choices imo. BIP is looking better since he seems to be doing things to be seen.

That was a little bit of an ouch for Andi but don't have any problem with his answer. It was a dumb question. I'm not buying Andi is still heartbroken.

by Guest Mon Mar 30, 2015 10:57 pm

umngirl wrote:When I said good terms I moreso meant that they weren't fighting publicly with each other through the media or taking part in horrible break-up interviews together. That's a step up from some past couples.

I guess they are a step up from Jake/Vienna and Mary/Byron, but that's about it. That whole "twitter fight" was the most immature behavior I've ever seen from two educated adults.

Anyways, I give credit to Josh for not giving a canned response and being honest about Andi. I don't think that she was a former love of his life, and it's great that he's able to see that clearly now. I also thought it was interesting that he mentioned not wanting to go on the Bachelorette again, since I'm sure that they were referring to BIP when referring to the "franchise"; maybe a slight dig at Nick? Always, I never got Josh's physical appeal but he looks really good at DWTS tonight. Seems like a great friend!

by aviej Mon Mar 30, 2015 10:58 pm

umngirl wrote:I have no problem with him saying he didn't miss her. Why should he lie? To protect her feelings? She probably doesn't miss him either other than as her lapdog and personal accessory. He did go on to say that they were still on good terms. That's all you can hope for.

I know that Josh is entitled to feel how he wants etc. But I think he could have been more tactful in his response. When CH asked Andi why things didn't work out, she could have rattled all the flaws Josh had but she took the high road. I just wish that Josh could have been more gracious especially if they are "friends" now. And that statement about friendship is a bit bizarre to me considering that Andi said not to long prior that they are not even speaking. ANd when you consider the Twitter exchange between the two I won't say that they are friends. The fact that the reporter noted that Josh quickly went on to say that they are friends, says to me that he was being politically correct rather than honest. And this is all just my opinion of course.

by KB_Mom Mon Mar 30, 2015 11:01 pm

It was a dumb question and anything less than "no" would set the rags going wild that they are going to get back together. My take on the article\ interview was the relationship didn't work, he moved on, end of story.

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