Re: Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilley - Fan Forum - Discussion

[Guest]

I don't know how to bring the link, but there's yet another article about the FRC....

The Bachelor Season Finale: Chris Is Engaged to Whitney, Not Thrilled About It
TheStranger.com‎

[stuckinsc]

Not certain if this was posted already

http://www.realitytvworld.com/news/the-bachelor-runner-up-becca-tilley-interview-watching-finale-was-way-harder-than-i-thought-it-would-be-17610.php

'The Bachelor' runner-up Becca Tilley interview: Watching the finale was way harder than I thought it would be

One of the character traits I most admire about Becca is her honesty. She's honest to Chris and his family, honest to herself and honest to the viewers. She tells it how it is for her...not to make others feel better...nor to make herself look better. This is a person I could trust...great quality. Much respect, Becca!

:Chris: So...Litta ..is she a raisin cookie or chocolate cookie according to your avi?.. . This is the critically important curio i want to know!

This is why I am not going to just play in F1 land. The last two seasons the spoiled F2 was an awesome person and I personally liked their relationship with the lead then the F1. So for me, I am happy to stay in F2 land and enjoy the wonderful people we meet that way.

[whit90]

One of the character traits I most admire about Becca is her honesty. She's honest to Chris and his family, honest to herself and honest to the viewers. She tells it how it is for her...not to make others feel better...nor to make herself look better. This is a person I could trust...great quality. Much respect, Becca!

:Chris: So...Litta ..is she a raisin cookie or chocolate cookie according to your avi?.. . This is the critically important curio i want to know!

This is why I am not going to just play in F1 land.  The last two seasons the spoiled F2 was an awesome person and I personally liked their relationship with the lead then the F1.  So for me, I am happy to stay in F2 land and enjoy the wonderful people we meet that way.

[Litta123]

Not certain if this was posted already

http://www.realitytvworld.com/news/the-bachelor-runner-up-becca-tilley-interview-watching-finale-was-way-harder-than-i-thought-it-would-be-17610.php

'The Bachelor' runner-up Becca Tilley interview: Watching the finale was way harder than I thought it would be

One of the character traits I most admire about Becca is her honesty. She's honest to Chris and his family, honest to herself and honest to the viewers. She tells it how it is for her...not to make others feel better...nor to make herself look better. This is a person I could trust...great quality. Much respect, Becca!

:Chris: So...Litta ..is she a raisin cookie or chocolate cookie according to your avi?.. . This is the critically important curio i want to know!

Well, mura, apparently Becca and I have similar trust issues...no wonder I like her.    We'll blame on raisin cookies!

Btw, OT, keeping my fingers crossed Kaitlyn makes it through tonight so you'll stick around to snark with me about the upcoming season.

[sfrank]

I don't know how to bring the link, but there's yet another article about the FRC....

The Bachelor Season Finale: Chris Is Engaged to Whitney, Not Thrilled About It
TheStranger.com‎

http://www.thestranger.com/blogs/slog/2015/03/12/21857700/the-bachelor-season-finale-chris-is-engaged-to-whitney-not-thrilled-about-it

[mindless]

I don't know how to bring the link, but there's yet another article about the FRC....

The Bachelor Season Finale: Chris Is Engaged to Whitney, Not Thrilled About It
TheStranger.com‎

http://www.thestranger.com/blogs/slog/2015/03/12/21857700/the-bachelor-season-finale-chris-is-engaged-to-whitney-not-thrilled-about-it

That made me . Especially the screencaps of Chris's sister.

[Guest]

**Edited**

Okay, back to sweet Becca.

okay. lets talk about the article a bit..

I'm just wondering if there was a specific incident in your past or something that happened in your past that made you afraid of falling in love and/or getting hurt?

Becca Tilley: You know, one of the things I really learned about myself on the show was that I'm a very confident person, but in relationships, I think that's where my insecurity is. And in the last relationship I was in, it was very on and off. And so, every time it went off, I think another wall went up. I think that's what caused my hesitancy to open up and be vulnerable
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interesting about the 'walls'.. ($1 to my interesting jar   )
watching the finale, looking at BIB series and the much-discussed last Pinterest of her, she strikes me as a person who would hide her true feelings/emotions so that others wont be able to see her getting hurt/upset/sadz, despite her 'bleeding' inside.

anyone else with me?

[julychild]

**edited**

Okay, back to sweet Becca.

okay. lets talk about the article a bit..

I'm just wondering if there was a specific incident in your past or something that happened in your past that made you afraid of falling in love and/or getting hurt?

Becca Tilley: You know, one of the things I really learned about myself on the show was that I'm a very confident person, but in relationships, I think that's where my insecurity is. And in the last relationship I was in, it was very on and off. And so, every time it went off, I think another wall went up. I think that's what caused my hesitancy to open up and be vulnerable
Read more at http://www.realitytvworld.com/news/the-bachelor-runner-up-becca-tilley-interview-watching-finale-was-way-harder-than-i-thought-it-would-be-17610.php#kmtTjTLm4MX5BYy7.99

interesting about the 'walls'.. ($1 to my interesting jar   )
watching the finale, looking at BIB series and the much-discussed last Pinterest of her, she strikes me as a person who would hide her true feelings/emotions so that others wont be able to see her getting hurt/upset/sadz, despite her 'bleeding' inside.

anyone else with me?

I don't really think that she tried to hide her emotions, Mura. Personally, I feel that she was was resigned. She knew going into that RC that Chris was going to break up with her. Who knows, she may have cried all night and was all cried out by the next day. At times, one just has to accept the inevitable, and that's what I think happened with her. Calm acceptance...

[ElonM]

^^**edited**

Okay, back to sweet Becca.

okay. lets talk about the article a bit..

I'm just wondering if there was a specific incident in your past or something that happened in your past that made you afraid of falling in love and/or getting hurt?

Becca Tilley: You know, one of the things I really learned about myself on the show was that I'm a very confident person, but in relationships, I think that's where my insecurity is. And in the last relationship I was in, it was very on and off. And so, every time it went off, I think another wall went up. I think that's what caused my hesitancy to open up and be vulnerable
Read more at http://www.realitytvworld.com/news/the-bachelor-runner-up-becca-tilley-interview-watching-finale-was-way-harder-than-i-thought-it-would-be-17610.php#kmtTjTLm4MX5BYy7.99

interesting about the 'walls'.. ($1 to my interesting jar   )
watching the finale, looking at BIB series and the much-discussed last Pinterest of her, she strikes me as a person who would hide her true feelings/emotions so that others wont be able to see her getting hurt/upset/sadz, despite her 'bleeding' inside.

anyone else with me?

I agree and I think that's one of the reasons why she posted that quote on pinterest. It was away from her twitter and IG which means less or no attention. She didn't know her fans on this board were doing research

[Guest]

^^Yep, mura, it's pretty much "peace out" for me if it's Britt.

Okay, back to sweet Becca.

okay. lets talk about the article a bit..

I'm just wondering if there was a specific incident in your past or something that happened in your past that made you afraid of falling in love and/or getting hurt?

Becca Tilley: You know, one of the things I really learned about myself on the show was that I'm a very confident person, but in relationships, I think that's where my insecurity is. And in the last relationship I was in, it was very on and off. And so, every time it went off, I think another wall went up. I think that's what caused my hesitancy to open up and be vulnerable
Read more at http://www.realitytvworld.com/news/the-bachelor-runner-up-becca-tilley-interview-watching-finale-was-way-harder-than-i-thought-it-would-be-17610.php#kmtTjTLm4MX5BYy7.99

interesting about the 'walls'.. ($1 to my interesting jar   )
watching the finale, looking at BIB series and the much-discussed last Pinterest of her, she strikes me as a person who would hide her true feelings/emotions so that others wont be able to see her getting hurt/upset/sadz, despite her 'bleeding' inside.

anyone else with me?

I don't really think that she tried to hide her emotions, Mura. Personally, I feel that she was was resigned. She knew going into that RC that Chris was going to break up with her. Who knows, she may have cried all night and was all cried out by the next day. At times, one just has to accept the inevitable, and that's what I think happened with her. Calm acceptance...

Thanks JC. hmm makes sense too....borrowing Nick: Becca's self awareness is impeccable. One of her pin in Pinterest is about an introvert traits. I think she can identify herself with that description , which IA.

about FRC, she indeed mention that they both knew going to the FRC that they had to say goodbye. in her own words :
It was a sadness knowing that, I think going into that night, we had had our last talk knowing it was going to come to an end the next day. I was so stressed and I felt so hurt for him and hurt for me and hurt for the relationship. So, it wasn't fun watching it last night.

my heart break a little for her. . Giving me the dejavue of Reid-Jilly all over again. (Reid Ette version, not the BP version )

good to know that she is in a good place now. Since you are here, JC..any speculation on why she was still wearing the necklace post-show?. IMO she strikes me as the person who wouldnt hold grudges to anyone/any experience- ala Nick- so i could easily see it as a NBD for her as in she would cherish her 'journey' forever since it changed her. (Drink! )

[AlohaLady]

**Edited**

Okay, back to sweet Becca.

okay. lets talk about the article a bit..

I'm just wondering if there was a specific incident in your past or something that happened in your past that made you afraid of falling in love and/or getting hurt?

Becca Tilley: You know, one of the things I really learned about myself on the show was that I'm a very confident person, but in relationships, I think that's where my insecurity is. And in the last relationship I was in, it was very on and off. And so, every time it went off, I think another wall went up. I think that's what caused my hesitancy to open up and be vulnerable
Read more at http://www.realitytvworld.com/news/the-bachelor-runner-up-becca-tilley-interview-watching-finale-was-way-harder-than-i-thought-it-would-be-17610.php#kmtTjTLm4MX5BYy7.99

interesting about the 'walls'.. ($1 to my interesting jar )
watching the finale, looking at BIB series and the much-discussed last Pinterest of her, she strikes me as a person who would hide her true feelings/emotions so that others wont be able to see her getting hurt/upset/sadz, despite her 'bleeding' inside.

anyone else with me?

[Pia1]

I don't know how to bring the link, but there's yet another article about the FRC....

The Bachelor Season Finale: Chris Is Engaged to Whitney, Not Thrilled About It
TheStranger.com‎

http://www.thestranger.com/blogs/slog/2015/03/12/21857700/the-bachelor-season-finale-chris-is-engaged-to-whitney-not-thrilled-about-it

That made me . Especially the screencaps of Chris's sister.

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